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Australian Model Sarah Knaggs Shares Beauty Advice!

Posted in Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Inspiration, Plus-Size Modeling, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty with tags , , , , , , , , , , on December 12, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Yatzek Studios

Sarah Knaggs is a plus model from Australia who is signed with BELLA Model Management.

What is the best beauty advice you have ever been given?

My mum told me from a very early age to always, always, always moisturize your neck; it always seems to be neglected with the beauty regime and one of the first areas where wrinkles will appear.

What’s your can’t live-without beauty products?

My sister recently got me onto Kosmea Rose Hip Oil. I apply it every evening after washing my face. It is packed with nutrients, rehydrates, evens out blemishes and skin tones, and is great for your cuticles. Also, tweezers!

What is your best timesaving beauty tip?

When you are in a hurry and want to look fresh-faced, Aveda tinted moisturizer is the way to go!

*Thank you, Sarah.

**P.S. If you are somewhere sunny this holiday season, don’t forget your SPF! =)

Tears Began To Fall…I Had Finally Arrived by Angela Jones (Written by Angela Jones & Liz Nord)

Posted in Body Image, Confidence, Family & Friends, Fashion, Inspiration, Media, Models, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Unique Beauty, Work with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on December 9, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Marc von Borstel

This last year has been one of the most amazing years of my life. On a personal level, I have grown so much. I am constantly inspired through our Plus-Size Models Unite website and in my everyday life. Starting this website with Elizabeth was a way for me to use my story and my journey in to the modeling world to help inspire others. Now Plus-Size Models Unite has turned into a platform for inspirational women around the world to share their stories and to continue inspiring others.

For the last thirteen years of my life, ‘plus’ modeling has been something that I had wanted to pursue, but having a family, and being a wife and mother has always been at the top of my priority list and it still is. Last year, I felt it was the right time to do something for me. The journey has been a bit of a rollercoaster ride. I have had many roadblocks along the way and many moments of self-doubt and felt doubt from others, but I pushed through. I made it happen and for that, I am so proud.

I do not know what the future will bring, but I do know that along this journey, I have met the most amazing individuals. Here is a little peek into the beginning of my journey from my start pursuing ‘plus’ modeling to eventually using my voice to help create a world of confident girls and women.

Pursuing plus modeling had everything to do with simply following my dream. I feel that as a mother, I am constantly telling our children that they can be whatever they want to be. Meanwhile, I knew deep inside that I had not given my dream a shot. For me, plus modeling has everything to do with making a difference and representing diversity. That is what I wanted to be a part of–the cause.

Growing up, I had no one to relate to and I never felt that I was beautiful because everyone in the media and magazines looked nothing like me–until I saw a picture of Emme. Honestly, it was a life changing moment for me as a teenager. I finally saw a woman who looked like me and she was considered beautiful. It was a breath of fresh air. I know what an impact that image had on me and I know that young girls and women are still longing to see more of those images in the media.

When the time was right (our kids were in school and I had a bit more ‘me’ time), I decided to pursue modeling. I went for it. I really had no idea how to go about it. I tried to do as much research as I could. I checked out the legit agencies, had my husband take some snapshots of me, and I submitted them to various reputable agencies. Many agencies said that I was not what they were looking for and I was okay with that. I was happy enough with just trying and giving my dream a shot.

When an agency contacted me and wanted me to come in for an open call, I was so excited! I was actually very calm and ready to do it until I got there, and then the nerves kicked in! I was signed that day, and I was thrilled! I did it! But, unbeknownst to me, there is a lot more to modeling than just being signed and many factors play into it.

When I signed with this agency, I had no idea what I was doing. So much of the information that they told me went in one ear and out the other! I was just happy to be there. After signing with them, I had my first test. I was a nervous wreck, but I did it and it was a great experience. The agency got my photos back and said that I was too small to plus model. So, I tested again and they said that they liked those pictures better and then they used both tests on their website! I was so confused, but just went along with it.

I really tried to keep a dialogue with them, check in, and just say hi, but I never got much response. I kept on testing and asked for some direction as far as what they would like to see and nothing…no response. I didn’t know if that was normal or not, so I just went along with it. About a month ago, I was on their website looking for my pictures, and noticed that I had been taken off the site. I was in shock.

I pulled myself together and called them. They said no clients had ever showed interest in me. I had no words. I got off the phone and cried and cried and cried. I felt so betrayed. I tried my best to give them what they wanted and they didn’t even have the decency to call me or email me. It took a few days to pull myself together, but eventually I realized that it was meant to be. I was already represented by three other agencies, and I was excited about that.

A week later, I got a call from The Campbell Agency, and they told me that I booked my first job! My son thought his mommy was going crazy…I was jumping around and laughing hysterically. I finally got my chance! I was on my way to Dallas to work for JCPenney’s!

On my way to the airport, I had to switch gears from mommy and wife mode to me mode! Usually, I am with my husband and kids. When I was alone, I realized just how much I rely on them to be by my side. I was sad thinking about my family, then I quickly realized what an amazing first job opportunity this was, and I was just so grateful for the opportunity and my family’s support.

After being completely humiliated at the security check, (they took each of my chicken cutlets (bra padding) out of my carry-on bag and ran them through the machine by themselves!), I finally made it to my gate and that is where I met my new friend, Andy.

Andy was just the beginning of all of the amazing individuals who I had the chance to meet on this trip. Throughout the entire flight, we talked nonstop. He told jokes, and we talked about life, love, kids, etc. I know we will be lifelong friends. Andy, thank you for taking my mind off my nerves, for making me laugh, and starting an unforgettable trip off in an amazing way!

My first job was nothing short of amazing. Honestly, I had no idea what to expect. I knew that I was going to try my best and take any direction that I could get. I really wanted to perform well for them and do the best job that I could. I was just so excited to be there. I was really nervous. It was hard for me to go into a new environment and not have a clue what to do!

I had so many emotions built up: From the excitement of being there, to anxiety from doing my first job, to looking back on how I was teased as a child for my body, to coming to a point in my life where I am proud of my body, to being inspired by all of the amazing talent I was surrounded by, and finally…after all of my hard work and dedication–I got a job. I did it! I guess I was just so taken back that they had faith in me…I had finally arrived.

I worked two full days for JCPenney’s and it was a blast. I really enjoy watching all of the talent come together and produce such beautiful images. It is truly all about teamwork. I love seeing such inspiring people at work and it was so much fun to watch all of the models. Everyone has their own style and it was great to learn from them and incorporate what I had learned into my own style. I can tell you one thing–it is hard work. By the end of the day, all I wanted to do was go home and go to bed!

Throughout my last day of shooting Beth and Gary gave me pointers, tips, and really calmed my nerves. As my last shot of the day arrived, my martini shot as they called it…I started to cry! I pulled it together and after I was done, I completely lost it. I could not hold back the tears any longer.

I don’t think they had ever seen a model cry as I did. It was all happy tears. I honestly was just so happy to be there, to have that experience as my very first job, and to meet all of the wonderful people at JCPenney’s: Lisa, Angie, Mindy, Al, Beth, Gary, Bobby, Whitney, Raymond, Marcia, and Kayleh. You are all incredible people and I feel very honored to have met all of you! Thank you! Every person I had the chance to work with inspired me in some way.

Lisa, I love your zest for life, your love of your family, and your random shout outs of “Work it girl, woohoo!” I love your energy! Marcia, I was told by a few of my friends what a generous and sweet woman you are and they were right. Thank you for your kind words and direction, and I am going to keep working on being “natural”!:) Beth, you were my angel that day.  When I looked into your eyes, I lost it. You did not have to help me as you did or give me encouragement as you did. Thank you. I feel very lucky to call you my friend. Gary, I loved listening to your stories. You take great pride in your work; you do an amazing job, and thank you for treating me as an equal. Thank you for being so kind. Kayleh, thank you for having faith in me! The Campbell Agency, thank you for your faith in me and for representing me as you do. I am honored to work with you. The entire JCPenney’s crew rocks!

I want to thank everyone who has contributed to Plus-Size Models Unite and give you all much thanks. I am so honored to have met you and thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart, for contributing. We are so thankful for your time and energy. Your inspiring words have really helped so many, including me.

Elizabeth, thank you for coming up with the idea of the website and for your friendship. My friend Marc, who is also a photographer and who I have tested with many times, I feel so blessed to call you my friend. Thank you for your friendship and guidance. You inspire me constantly. To my friends who are supporting me, thank you.

As one door closed, another door opened. I was so happy to return home and see my family. They deserve so much thanks, I feel so blessed to be a part of the family I have…thank you and I love you. I have many exciting opportunities coming up and I am so thrilled to share them with you soon!

*Here is a link to my JCPenney job pictures!

http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/XGN.aspx?DeptID=70656&CatID=71804&SO=0&Ne=4294957900+29+3+5+23+8+1031+596+591+585+593+1011+18+904+833+949&SelDim=4294957900~&CatSel=4294953642|tops&pagesize=1&x5view=1&shopperType=G&N=4294953642&Nao=0&PSO=0&CmCatId=70656|71804

Model Camilla Hansen is an Advocate For Finding Your Own Personal Style, Embracing Your Creativity & Helping Animals.

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Family & Friends, Fashion, Inspiration, Italy, Media, Models, New York, News, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on December 5, 2010 by Liz

Camilla Hansen is a plus model who is originally from a small village  in Southern Denmark. She started modeling at fourteen years old as a straight model. After four years, she changed to plus modeling. She has lived in Istanbul and Milan, and currently lives in New York City. She is represented by Model Management UK in London and Wilhelmina in New York, Miami, and Los Angeles. Some of her clients include Marina Rinaldi, Elena Mirò, Jessica London, Macy’s, Fiorella Rubino, Avenue, Ulla Popken, Burda, Persona, and Bloomingdales. Her hobbies include fostering and volunteering for an animal rescue center in New York, photographing, and getting lost in new cities.

How did you start your career as a model?

I started my career as a model when I was fourteen years old. A few friends had suggested that I should contact an agency, and after a while, I decided to try it out. I sent some pictures to an agency in Copenhagen (the capital in Denmark) but because I feared rejection, I did it without telling anyone at all–not even my family.

The same day the agency received my pictures (which by the way were just random personal shots); they called me up and told me about a modeling competition that they had going on at that moment and that they wanted me to be a part of. I, of course, was so excited and immediately accepted. After that, everything happened very fast. I told my family about the happy news and a few days later, we went to Copenhagen to attend the casting for the finals. I became one of ten finalists out of thousands of applicants and a few days after the casting, the finale was held. I won.

What do you enjoy most about modeling?

What I enjoy most about modeling is not just one thing. It is the combination of several things. Getting to travel and experiencing new cultures. Getting to unleash my creative side and being inspired by all the creative people around me. Hopefully, inspiring young girls to accept their body as it is. These are just a few of the things that I enjoy about modeling.

Have you ever suffered from self-esteem or body image issues? If so, what advice would you give to young girls and women who are currently struggling?

I have indeed suffered from low self-esteem and body image issues. When I started modeling, I was constantly told by agents and a majority of clients that I was too fat and that I had to lose weight. Even though my parents have always had my back and have supported me throughout my career, you will reach a point where it is just too difficult to ignore the comments being made about your body and unfortunately, I started believing what they said was true.

All of a sudden when I looked in the mirror, I no longer saw that slim girl that I previously had seen. Instead, I started seeing all the problems that everyone, except my family, kept bringing to my attention.

When I started modeling, I decided that I would only do it for as long as I found it enjoyable. After four years, I had had enough. Enough of the comments. Enough of the insane diets. Enough of not feeling confident. So, when Wilhelmina wanted to sign me to their plus-size board, I jumped right on. It was my way out. I started eating regularly and healthy, and I stopped weighing myself every day. All of this slowly made me feel happier, both about my body and my life. Rome wasn’t built in a day though, and being confident about your body doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process, but once you reach that state of mind it is indescribable.

Therefore, my advice to any girl/woman is to be YOU. Find your natural size where your body plateaus whether that is a size 0, 12, 22, apple shape, pear shape, hourglass, or whatever and rock that. The most beautiful, attractive, and intriguing women that I have met in my life so far, may not necessarily have met the fashion industry’s criteria on what beauty is but they were comfortable in their own skin and for that I admire them.

Do you feel plus modeling is helping redefine beauty?

I definitely feel plus modeling is helping redefine beauty, but as is acting, etc. Nowadays, it has become more common to see women of all shapes and sizes on the cover of and in various magazines, as well as in TV series. The fashion industry has (hopefully!) realized that consumers need and want to see someone they can relate to.

What does being healthy mean to you?

Healthy, to me, is eating healthy and regularly. Healthy, to me, is a state of mind. Healthy, to me, is taking care of your body.

What do you wish you would have known at age thirteen?

Here is the thing. I try as much as possible to live a life with no regrets. I am happy with who I have become so why regret any of the things, both the good and the bad, that have been part of that process? When I was thirteen, I was still a child and I learn by doing, so I don’t wish I knew anymore than I did because then I very likely wouldn’t have gone down the path I have.

What feature do you love to accentuate?

It depends what mood I am in. Sometimes, it is my legs and other times it is my waist or my bust. It depends.

Photography is…

A way of expressing my creativity. I am not a great writer, painter, or dancer, but I still have such an incredible amount of ideas and visions in my head that I need to get them out somehow. That’s what photography does for me.

We know you love heels! Do you have a favorite pair?

Ha ha, I do indeed! My dad’s nickname for me is Imelda Marcos. I feel that heels can make or break an outfit, especially as I hardly ever wear jewelry. This is also, why I don’t have a favorite pair of shoes. I love all of them, as they are all good for different occasions and outfits.

I recently read an article about three shoe lovers, and one of them gave a quote that I absolutely adore and can relate to. She said, “What I like about shoes is that anybody can wear them. There is no size-zero debate about shoes.”

What is your go-to outfit?

I actually don’t have a specific go-to outfit. In the Fall/Winter, I wear a lot of black and there is a certain model of black Dr. Denim jeans I wear quite often. I actually have own three pair of the same model because I wear them so often and love them a ton. During Spring/Summer, I try to switch it up a bit by wearing cute and colorful dresses that accentuate my curves.

Who is your style icon?

I don’t have any style icons. I believe in wearing what is comfortable yet flattering to my body shape. Once again, it is all about being YOU instead of trying to imitate other people.

Rosie

Have you always been a dog lover? Do you have any dogs now?

I have always been an animal lover, not just a dog lover. I had rabbits when I was still living at home and I rode horses for a very long time, which by the way, to this day is the best sport I have ever partaken in.

Though I always took care of a lot of dogs, I never had my own dog and I don’t plan on getting one in the near future as it is a huge responsibility, and I am not at the stage in my life where I am able to make a ten to twenty year commitment. When the time is right, I will (without a doubt) get my own dog, but that is just not now.

Instead, I decided a while back to start fostering for a dog rescue (Posh Pets Rescue) here in New York. That has been a great decision. Basically, what we do is to take the dogs off the euthanizing list, out of the shelters and place them in private homes until they are adopted. In periods when I am not working, I will usually have one or two dogs at my apartment.

It keeps amazing me how people can give up these dogs, as most of them are perfectly healthy and well-behaved dogs that have just been dumped on the street, as if they were a useless bag of garbage.

When I got my first foster dog, Rosie, a beautiful, well-behaved, housebroken, and kindhearted Bichon Fris, I was heartbroken. How could anyone just leave this little gem to fend for herself on the street? I was close to losing faith in humanity, but then something amazing happened. Rosie was put up on our website (www.poshpetsrescue.org), on petfinder.com, and on several other sites and the applications just started rolling in.

As they say, one man’s trash is another man’s treasure and after going through a lot of applications and interviews little Rosie was adopted by an incredibly sweet woman who already had another Bichon. All of these applications made me realize that even though there will always be the occasional cold-hearted person there are at least twenty good ones!

Who is your role model or hero? Why?

My parents and grandparents. For the love and unlimited support they have always given me, my younger brother, and each other. I strive to be like them.

Your family is a big part of your life. What is one of your favorite childhood memories?

One incident that sticks out, and that I think of often and was a long time ago, is when my brother and I played dress up. Even though he was a boy playing with cars, super heroes, etc., he let me put him in a dress, put makeup on him, and place a big bow in his hair. Only someone who truly loves you will let you do something like that to them.

Out of all of the places your modeling career has taken you, where has been the most memorable and why?

Every single place I’ve traveled to has made an impact on me as a person. In Texas, I had a Mexican driver who was also a trained chef. He taught me some incredible Mexican recipes. When I lived in Istanbul, a friend and I were almost shot by the mafia. When I went to Colombia for a job, we stayed and shot at a highly guarded mansion and the mother of the house showed me a few traditional Colombian dishes; one of which you have to use at least five different kinds of potatoes. I could go on like this, but my point is, as I said in the beginning, that every place has made an impact on me and who I am as a person today. I believe that it makes us better people to experience and accept the differences in the different cultures all over the world.

Where do you shop for clothes?

Anywhere I find anything flattering really; sometimes that is at very cheap stores and other times at more pricey stores.

What is the best advice you have ever been given?

When my grandmother, with whom I was very close, was alive, she used to always tell me: “Smile at the world and the world will smile back at you”.

Though she went through some very hard times in her life, she was one of the most genuinely positive people who I have ever met. Because that was one of the things about her I admired the most, I try to live by it even though I do fail sometimes.

What do you love about yourself and why?

I don’t just love one part; I love me as a whole. I have finally completely accepted my body as it is and I am happy with whom I am as a person.

What are your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

My very favorite beauty product is a makeup remover from Bioderma. Every time I work, I wear a lot of makeup and it can be very hard on the skin if the makeup remover you use is not good.

Do you have a beauty tip to share with us?

Being in a business where appearance matters a lot, I attempt to take very good care of my skin. I cleanse my skin every night (no exception) with a milky cream cleanser, then with an alcohol-free skin tonic, and I finish off my routine by applying eye cream and a good lotion. In the morning, I re-apply the lotion which contains SPF 30. That is my best beauty tip–take good care of your skin, even if it may seem like a hassle because it will benefit you in the long run.

Lipstick or Lipgloss?

I naturally have very red lips and therefore don’t wear anything on my lips in my everyday life. Bit, I love to pump it up every now and then with a deep red lipstick (Chanel Rouge Allure – 09 – Lover) if I go out for dinner, an event, or something like that.

On a day off, what would your perfect day be like?

A perfect day off for me would be spent with my family. Especially after I have moved to New York and they are all in Denmark, it has made me realize just how much we should all treasure the time we have together because you never know when that time might be up.

What is a fun fact about you?

A fun fact about me is that I never liked wearing dresses when I was younger. I always preferred being outside climbing trees and getting dirty.

What are you excited about right now?

Right at this moment, I am excited about several things. OneStopPlus.com gave New York fashion week its very first plus-size fashion show, and I got to be a part of it, which is something I am very proud of. Elena Miro once again put on an amazingly beautiful and well-done show during Milan fashion week. Last but not least, I am over the moon that I once again got to work with the talented people at Vogue, which resulted in a short-film that should be coming out very soon.

*Thank you, Camilla!

**You can watch Camilla’s video and find out more about her at http://www.vogue.it/en/vogue-curvy/how-to/2010/03/camilla-hansen.

International Model Robyn Lawley Says, “There is So Much More to Life Than Fitting Into Size 6 Jeans, and I’m Glad I Realized This Sooner Than Later.”

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Entertainment, Family & Friends, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Funny Experiences, Hobbies, Inspiration, Media, Models, Movies, Music, New York, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Radio, Recipes & Food, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Sports, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on November 18, 2010 by Liz

Cosmopolitan Magazine

Robyn Lawley is a plus model from Sydney, Australia. She is signed with Bella Model Management in Australia, Model Management in the UK, Okay models in Germany, and Wilhelmina in NYC, USA.  Some of her clients are David Jones, Nordstrom, Cosmopolitan magazine, Madison Magazine, Kohl’s, New Look, Spirito, Ezibuy, and more. Robyn enjoys films, music, making music, watercolor painting, cooking, eating, rock climbing, and traveling.

Robyn wrote, “I’m a model beyond a size 10 and I love my job. I get to travel the world, and at the same time promote healthy shapes and let audiences know that it’s okay to be who you are. Embrace your body for what it is, exercise, eat as healthy as you can, and have fun. There is so much more to life than fitting into size 6 jeans, and I’m glad I realized this sooner than later.”

Photographed by Kane Skeener for Cosmopolitan Magazine

How did you begin your modeling career?

She started modeling at the age of sixteen, when I won a modeling magazine competition, but I didn’t model for long, as I struggled to keep my weight down. Two years later after seeing success in Abby Valdes and Crystal Renn, I signed with Chelsea from Bella Model Management.

What advice would you give to young women who are struggling with self-esteem, confidence, or body image issues?

I think all women and men, for that matter, go through this most days. Try to focus on something else; sometimes we get so self involved that we miss out on everything passing us by. Take up a sport you enjoy or a hobby you would like to start. Confidence can come from achieving even the smallest of things.

Try not to compare your body to that of celebrities or top models because what you see is not always true (especially with Photoshop ruling the planet). Work with the body type that you have and just enjoy that you can see, that you can hear, and that you can walk. Both my mother and my older sister have worked, and still are working, with disabled people and it really can make you think that spending so much time pinpointing your flaws is hiding what you are really about.

Photographed by Simon Upton for Madison Magazine

What kinds of pressures do you see the girls in your life facing?  What can we, as mentors, do to address these issues?

I think the most troubling thing is the amount of concern that we have over beauty. We no longer even care if someone has a good soul; we care more if they have lost the most weight or are taking up a certain exercise. I hate when I start researching what a celebrity does; it gets so time consuming. Later, I think my god I could have been practicing guitar or rock climbing. I just wish the beauty/entertainment industry didn’t have such a hold over our self-esteem. I do remember, though, when I was fourteen, I had no idea what cellulite was until I saw a magazine in a grocery store harpooning females with it on their cover. I remember going home straight away to inspect my thighs. From then on, I always wore board shots; even in competitive swimming. Did I have cellulite? No, I didn’t, but that magazine made me feel ashamed of my body. I will always blame them for making women, especially teenage girls, feel ashamed of their bodies. We should be empowering women and pushing them further in their lives, not making them inspect their thighs.

Having just recently moved to NYC, what has your experience been like so far?

It’s tricky to say; I both love and hate NYC. It’s just so different from Australia. It can be a shock to the system. I feel like I’m riding a rollercoaster—from crazy parties to crazy people chasing you to awesome shopping. It’s definitely one of a kind.

Where do you like to shop for clothes?

LONDON!!! It’s the best place to shop in the world. I love Camden markets and Topshop UK. I am finding Williamsburg, Brooklyn (where I live) has awesome vintage.

Photographed by Georges Antoni

Do you have a favorite workout routine?

I love playing sports. One thing I miss is team sports. I can’t do any because my routine is so out of whack with modeling. I love rock climbing though because it doesn’t feel like exercise; it just feels like a fun challenge and boy it’s challenging. I try to hit the gym about four times a week. I really miss my personal trainers in Sydney, Australia. In NYC, they are so expensive that it’s not worth it. If you find you are a person who lacks the motivation or knowledge, investing in a trainer, even just for a month, is well worth it. Even just to learn the safe way of working out at a gym and what types of exercises are good for your body type.

What are your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

I love Benefits new High Beam face illuminating cream that you put on your cheekbones for the healthy glow, Lancôme’s New Définicils Precious Cells Mascara, and of course, good old trusted Paw Paw ointment for my lips.

Do you have a beauty secret or tip you would like to share with us?

Make sure you wash your face twice a day; tone and then moisturize. Sounds dreary, but once it becomes habit it’s second nature.

Photographed by Kane Skenner for Cosmopolitan Magazine

What are you listening to right now?

EVERYTHING–I LOVE MUSIC! The top five albums I listen to all the time are the Romeo and Juliet soundtrack, The Boat That Rocked soundtrack, Juno soundtrack, the best of Janis Joplin, and La Roux’s first album. But, I like anything from Bloody Beetroots, to Jimi Hendrix, to Rolling Stones. Going to festivals is one of my favorite things to do.

Favorite movie?

Gah, that’s like favorite song–too hard to pick. I’m a movieaholic. My favourite thing is watching a good movie. They can make me feel comforted– especially movies from my childhood. When I’m homesick, I watch all my old favorites.  As a young girl, my dad and mum would drive me and my sisters about an hour to watch movies at the Royal Australian Air Force Base because my dad was in the air force, and tickets were $2 each and we would all get a killer python each. Simple pleasures in life tend to be the best. :)

On a day off, what would your perfect day be like?

Waking up to my cute boyfriend back home, then getting sushi with my best girlfriends, later catch a movie with them and my man, and then going dancing at a club with awesome music with my awesome sisters.

What do you love most about modeling?

I love the confidence it gave me. I do admit I was struggling to accept my weight. I just couldn’t get over the fact that I was once an Australian size 6-8 (USA size 4-6). When I joined Bella, my confidence was pretty low, and I doubted that Chelsea, my agent, would sign me. I was lucky she gave me a contract on the spot and about a year later, my confidence was the strongest it had ever been, I felt unstoppable and still do. :)

What do you do to prepare for a photo shoot and what are your must haves in your modeling bag?

I wash my hair the night before and put a heat protector on my ends. The morning of, I wash and cleanse my face. I then use a good quality moisturizer and Paw Paw on my lips. I always take my own mascara because I have very sensitive eyes, and I don’t want to obtain any eye conditions.

Do you have any funny modeling stories you would like to share?

I think most people find modelling very glamorous, but trust me it can be anything but that. I hate when I have to walk around or get something with my hair is in curlers and I look like an old grannie.

I had a funny week though recently, when I was in Fiji for a Cosmopolitan shoot. I decided to go horse riding on my day off. The horse they had was tiny, but I didn’t get to see it until I had paid. I felt sorrier for the horse because it would have to lug me around, but I didn’t want to seem like a chicken so I went riding anyways. Once I had finished my thighs were so sore– more than usual. When I reached the hotel, my inner thighs were blue and bruised so bad that when I showed the stylist, she gasped… LOL–not good for a swimwear shoot.

Photographed by Georges Antoni

We would LOVE to hear about your experience walking in the OneStopPlus.com Fashion Show!

Yeah that was so great, I knew it would be a bid deal, especially when I arrived to see where it was. I was so lucky, I only got the job last minute as I did not go to the casting, they spotted me at a go see and decided to use me.  It was very empowering experience and I hope they do more.

What is a fun fact about you?

I like to do voices. I can do Gollum from lord of the rings, exorcist chick (pretty scarily well, so much so that I shocked a boy that I was dating once; he got so scared that he threatened to punch me if I ever did it again, and naturally I do it to him every time I see him. ha-ha), Stitch from Lilo and Stitch, and E.T.

What do you love about yourself and why?

I suppose I love that I rarely say no to anything; consider me the yes woman. I have always been like that ever since I was a little girl. I would give anything a chance. I’m not sure why, but I just never wanted to miss out on something I might have found fun, whether it be sky diving, jet skiing, rock climbing, canyoning, or travelling; anything really deserves a chance.

What is one last thing you would like to say?

Don’t be afraid to make a fool of yourself and have fun. My mother always said laughter is the best medicine and by god, she’s right! :)

*Robyn talks about acceptance. This is a great video!

**You can learn more about Robyn at her blog: http://reviewmerobyn.blogspot.com/

***Thank you, Robyn!

Nicole LeBris Talks About Embracing Your Body, Beauty, Fashion, Confidence, and Her Transition from Makeup Artist to Modeling

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Designers, Fashion, Inspiration, Media, Models, Movies, New York, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on October 24, 2010 by Liz

Nicole LeBris is a plus model based in New York and Miami. Before Nicole started modeling full-time, she was a hair and makeup artist. As a hair and makeup artist, she worked on Bill Clinton, John Legend, Carol Alt, Billy Baldwin, Isaac Mizrahi, Jimmy Kimmel, and many others. As a model, Nicole is represented by Dorothy Combs Models in Miami (her mother company), Model Service Agency in New York, Hughes Models in London, and Brigette Models in Germany. She grew up spending her summers in France and spent her junior year of high school there as well.

Hi, world! I’m Nicole LeBris. So a little about me…Miami and Jersey City is where I call home, although I grew up in Westchester, in the New York City area. Modeling has been my full-time job for the past six years. It’s been a slow and steady progression, switching rolls from behind the scenes as a makeup artist, to being in the spotlight as a model and I couldn’t be happier. I feel truly blessed and fortunate to be able to choose this path and very proud of how far I’ve come. Modeling has allowed me to see some very interesting cities across the country and abroad, and to work with some really talented people. I’ve made great friends in this business and truly enjoy almost every day I spend on set. I’ve modeled for clients such as Kohl’s, Lane Bryant, Vanity Fair, Fruit of the Loom, Belk, Shopko, Catherines, Fashion Bug, Just My Size, and Target. 

How did you get started as a full figure model?

I actually first started as a makeup artist working on films, TV spots, and commercial print. I made a lot of industry connections, and got the push from many people to give it a try. I’m glad that I did. 
 
Have you ever struggled with low self-esteem?  

Of course! It’s been a long road for me. I’m very confident these days, but that wasn’t always the case. Grade school was tough. I was bigger than everyone was and I hated it. I definitely struggled with body image, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized my body is a blessing. I take care of my body, and love it, and it does me good in return. :)  
 
What advice would you give to girls and women who are struggling with body image and self-esteem issues?

I would say embrace your body. You only have one body in this life so take care of it and be proud of it. If you are confident in your body and yourself, it will show to other people and will only work in your favor. 
 
What do you love about yourself?  

Physically, I love my body and my unique features such as my dark eyes and light hair, my small waist, and curvy hips. Personality wise, I love my sense of wonder, my curiosity, and my sense of humor. 

Who inspired you to become a professional make-up artist?  

I’m not sure whether someone inspired me specifically, but my mom is the one who put the idea in my head. She told me that she thought it would be something interesting to do when she was younger, but she couldn’t afford school and didn’t know where to go. I always loved colors and painting, and I always played around with makeup at home. I worked two jobs in high school, and that’s where most of my money went– to makeup.
 
What are some of your basic skin care tips that you think are really important?

Moisturize and sleep. Many people are scared of oil, but I love using it on my skin, especially at night. 
 
Lip gloss or Lipstick? Do you have a favorite brand?

I’m more into chapstick or rosebud salve on an everyday basis, unless I’m really going out on the town. Then, I’ll do lipstick just dabbed on my lips and topped with gloss! I love to play up a pout! 
 
What is a really quick way to change a day look to a special occasion or night-time face?

Black eyeliner smudged around the lash line, an extra coat of mascara, and add a coat of gloss to your lips.

Where do you love to shop for clothes?

I love Zara for jackets, BCBG for dresses, Cacique for bras, and almost always stop at H&M and Forever 21 when I’m on a shopping spree. I also love Anthropologie. Guess heels and boots fit me like a glove.
 
Who are some of your favorite designers?

Michael Kors and Zac Posen. I love Armani dresses! 

What are some of your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

Two things I can’t live without are my rosebud salve and eyelash curler. I’m all about keeping my skin and lips moisturized. My eyelash curler opens my eyes and can make me look awake if I don’t have time for a cup of coffee. 

How do you define beauty?

Beauty can be so many different things to different people. For me, beauty is something that inspires me. If “it” makes me feel something and excites me, I think that is a sign of beauty.

What features do you love to accentuate and why?

I love to accentuate my eyes in the way they contrast with my hair and skin, so I usually darken them even more and use liner to make them really pop. Body wise, I love to accentuate my waist. I have a real hourglass shape that I love, so I dress with a lot of belts and dresses that hug my curves. 

What does being healthy mean to you?

For me, being healthy means feeling good both mentally and physically. Balance is important. I believe in the idea of everything in moderation. Too much or too little of one thing is not good, especially with diet and exercise.

What are you excited about right now?

I’m excited about all the buzz around plus-size models. People are talking about Crystal Renn’s book (Hungry: A Young Model’s Story of Appetite, Ambition and the Ultimate Embrace of Curves), the controversy surrounding her size, and the banning of the Lane Bryant video with Ashley Graham. I think any publicity is good publicity for us right now. When I say I’m a plus-size model, I still get one of two reactions. They look me up and down and say, “You’re not fat” or “What do you do for your day job?”. A lot of people don’t know what a plus-size model is. So, I think all the buzz in the media, negative or positive, is really a great thing for our industry. 

*Thank you, Nicole!

To learn more about Nicole, visit her websites at www.nicolelebris.com and www.nicoleheidi.com.

Plus Model and Embody Denim Designer Natalie Wakeling Shares Her Story and Offers a 15% Discount to You For One Week! Her Jeans Are Awesome and For Women of ALL Sizes!

Posted in Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Designers, Entertainment, Fashion, Ford +, Media, Models, News, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Your Story with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on October 17, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Anna Bertalli

Natalie Wakeling is a plus-size model and clothing designer from New South Whales, Australia. Natalie is the youngest of four daughters. She grew up surrounded by a strong influence of fashion and a desire to be a model. In 1999, Natalie was one of Australia’s first plus-size models to appear in consecutive editorials for Cosmopolitan magazine. She helped to break the stereotype that only straight models should appear in mainstream magazines. In 2006, Natalie Wakeling created EMBODY DENIM, which is a denim line for every women of every size who has ever struggled to find a perfect pair of jeans.

First plus model used for Australia’s Cosmopolitan magazine.

How did you begin your career as a model?

I was quite athletic, had a solid build as a teenager, and had secret aspirations of being a model. I just happened to be too big for straight size modelling so I pretty much gave up the thought of ever being a model. When I left school, I trained as a photographer and make-up artist. One day, I was working on a shoot as the make- up artist, when the photographer said that I should try plus-size modeling and that the best agency was BGM Models. I met with Darrianne Donnelly, the agency director, and she signed me immediately. I have been with her since I was eighteen years of age.

Was it hard for you to make the transition from straight to plus modeling?

Letting go of all the fears that you harbour about putting on weight was hard, but I soon relaxed and enjoyed being the size that I was, which allowed me to be a model. It was a little scary to decide that I was no longer going to skip meals and exercise like a maniac to remain thinner than I was supposed to be. As soon as I started to land some major photographic campaigns, I found that my inner confidence grew and I started to understand more about myself.

Photographed by Anna Bertalli

Do you feel that plus-sized models are becoming more widely accepted by today’s media?

The change has been quite phenomenal over the past two years. My agency, BGM Models, has been slowly chipping away at the mainstream fashion Industry for over a decade now, and I’m glad to say that things have moved forward quite dramatically here in Australia in the past twelve months. We now see plus-size models included in main fashion festivals, along with magazines using bigger models in every issue.

I was honoured when asked to be the face of ‘Every Body Counts’ Fashion Festival in Perth, Western Australia. To have reached a point in my career where I stay in five star hotels, be met at the airport with a limousine, and to treated like a queen is awesome. Whilst in Perth, I had the privilege of meeting other well-known fashion designers and attending VIP events. I even managed to deliver a speech to a full house, which included Jerry Hall. The ‘Every Body’ parade featured fifteen women of all shapes and sizes. It was a huge success and was special for the fact that it was included on the main programme.

Here is another article about The Perth Fashion Festival:

http://au.news.yahoo.com/thewest/lifestyle/a/-/lifestyle/7919319/fashion-launch-for-every-body/

What inspired you the most when creating Embody Denim?

Beside the natural desire to exceed in something you love, I desperately wanted to wear an amazing pair of jeans designed for my shape. The concept of my brand was very different. My jeans are made for different body shapes without focusing on the size.

Photographed by Marvin Joseph. The group shot includes BGM models Kate Hislop, Natalie in front,Laura Wells, and Kiralee Martin.

What was the first pair of jeans you created?

For my first collection, I designed four styles – Babe, Body Love, CHIC, and Ice Queen. Since then I have expanded my range to include twelve fabulous styles.  I have also designed a jacket and skirt to add to the collection. I’m currently working on my fashion range, which I hope to launch in 2011.

Do you have a favorite cut from Embody?

I love the ‘Bella’ style, as it is just so glamorous and holds everything in the right place.

I love that you created jeans for every body type…brilliant!  Was that difficult to achieve?

The sampling process is tiresome, but once I had the measurements figured out for certain body types,  it all just fell into place.

How many pairs of jeans do you own?

Every style I have ever made in every colour–maybe around 20 + pairs.

Photographed by Marvin Joseph. Natalie modeling her Embody Denim. Natalie is the designer and she is constantly updating the styles (for all sizes) to correspond with the current fashion trends.

What Embody cut has been the most popular?

Everybody loves the ‘Bebe’ and ‘Tempt’ narrow styles. These two styles are totally different, being the Bebe more suited to apple body shapes and the tempt narrow being perfect for pear shaped ladies that struggle with gapping waistbands.

Are there any trends coming out next season that we should be keeping an eye out for?

I will be releasing a brand new crop style jean with lots of detailed panels. It is the perfect jean that manages to make everyone look a size smaller. We are still love the holes and rips and even the acid wash, denim is so varied now that you can pretty much wear whatever you want. I definitely recommend dressing for your shape rather than trying to wear the hottest look of the moment. Confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear.

We all love denim, but what makes denim so important to you?

I guess denim is like a third child to me. To be able to create something and make it work has been a challenge and it has been wonderful to be able to make so many women feel good about themselves whilst wearing Denim that I have designed.

What do you love to pair your embody denim with?

I love a bit of a rock chic feel.  Something sexy under a blazer always looks hot.

Natalie had just been signed with Ford and was able to wear a high end designer Sass and Bide for this photo shoot.

What has been your favorite memory since creating Embody?

I have so many. I guess the day I was able to do my own photographic campaign was really exciting. It was so much fun to direct from behind the camera and to be the boss for the day.

Who would you love to see wear a pair of your jeans?

I have a very long list, but if it was a celebrity, I would love to see a pair on Beyonce.

Where can Plus-Size Models Unite readers find Embody Denim?

It is very easy you can buy direct from http://www.embodydenim.com.au/. I also offer free international shipping.  I would also like to offer your readers a special 15% off for one week.

**To redeem, please email sales@embodydenim.com.au with plusmodelsunite in the subject line. Please mention the size and style that you wish, and Natalie will email you a discount link.

This photograph is from Natalie’s very first shoot with Cosmopolitan ten years ago.  It was eight pages long and made Natalie’s career what it is today.

Have you ever struggled with body image or self esteem issues?

I think every time my body has gone through a radical change, such as the teenage years and after having babies, I start to think about how I can improve my body.

What advice would you give to young girls and women who are struggling?

I think you need to ask yourself– is it really your body your unhappy with or is it another problem?

Talk to your best friend or parents about your issues.  Sometimes it’s as simple as going for a walk to make you feel more at ease with yourself and your body. Check out all the gorgeous curvy women that are really doing well for themselves by just being the way that they were meant to be.

What do you love about yourself?

I’m a pretty approachable person and always laugh very easily (sometimes too loud).

The Men’s Style magazine shoot was a first for a plus size model.

What are you excited about right now?

The possibilities of the future. Not knowing what’s around the corner from one week to the next.

*Thank you, Natalie!

Plus-Size Models Unite’s Radio Interview with Leeza Gibbons on Hollywood Confidential

Posted in Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Eating Disorders, Entertainment, Family & Friends, Fitness & Health, Inspiration, Media, Plus-Size Modeling, Radio, Self-Esteem, Unique Beauty with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on September 10, 2010 by Liz

Here is the link to our Radio interview with Leeza Gibbons on Hollywood Confidential:

Plus-Size Models Unite’s interview with Leeza Gibbons on Hollywood Confidential

What are your thoughts? What do you love about yourself? Do you struggle to accept yourself the way you are now? How have you overcome self-esteem and body image issues?

*We interviewed Leeza Gibbons and Sierra Lisa, and we will be publishing their interviews in the coming weeks.

**Thank you, Leeza Gibbons and Sierra Lisa. You are both awesome!

“Healthy is the New Skinny” — This is Not About a Size. It’s About a Movement. Model Katie Halchishick Tells Me About Her Passion For Healthy Living and Happiness. By Angela

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Entertainment, Family & Friends, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Inspiration, Media, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Unique Beauty, Work with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on August 31, 2010 by Liz

Katie Halchishick photographed by Bradford Willcox

When I first got into the ‘plus’ modeling industry, Katie Halchishick was one of the first models I reached out to for advice, she was so positive and supportive, and I will never forget that. Katie is a plus model with Ford LA and Chicago, Dorothy Combs in Miami, Heffner, and Brigitte Models in Germany. She is an advocate for girls and women around the world who wants to help spread the message of living a healthy and happy life and loving the skin you are in.

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

Speaking with Katie recently, I instantly felt a connection, like I had known her for years, as if she was an old girlfriend. I could feel her passion and commitment to promoting healthy living, self-love, and changing the way the media portrays ‘beauty’. She told me stories of how she goes into LA schools and speaks to fifth graders about health and self-esteem and how many of the young girls she teaches, at the age of ten, think they are ‘fat’. It is in her soul to make a difference, and I am completely 100% with her.

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

I spoke with Katie about her new campaign she has co-founded with clothing designer Jessica Svoboda. “Healthy is the new Skinny” is a t-shirt fundraiser to help Jessica Svoboda get into NY Fashion Week 2011. Jessica is a clothing designer whose breakthrough denim styles for straight and “plus-size” figures are catching attention across the country. She is attempting to be the first designer in the history of New York Fashion Week to used models between sizes 6-10. She applied last year, but was denied by the organizers. The organizers said, ”We don’t want to see elephants stomping on the runway.”

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

This year she is applying again, and she needs our support. To not feature Jessica’s line in NY Fashion Week would be a huge loss to the event. Not only would it be ground breaking to include her, but also it is just the start of things to come. Jessica will be launching her ready to wear collection for all women sizes 2-28 and she will be using models from the nation’s newest plus-model agency, Natural Model Management.

If we want to see a change, we all need to come together and support one another. If this is something you feel strongly about, then please, let your voice be heard! We believe diversity should be represented, every size, shape, age, and ethnicity! We also promote healthy living and self-love. Your self-worth is not defined by what dress size you are. As a mother, I want my children to feel confident and self-assured. I want them to embrace their unique self, and I feel by changing the way the media defines beauty, children of the future will be given that chance.

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

When is New York Fashion Week?

Jessica will be applying for the February Fall / Winter 2011 Fashion Week in NYC.

How did you come together with Jessica to form “Healthy is the new Skinny”? What was the inspiration behind it?

Jessica hired me to model for her new amazing denim line that is out now, and we really hit it off. We share the same goals in life and that is to be free from the limitations of others and always work to better yourself. We had so much fun on the shoot Jessica has such a great personality and more energy than anyone I have ever met!  Needless to say, we started talking about projects and ideas, and then one thing lead to another. We wanted to work together and “Healthy is the New Skinny” was a perfect way to promote a new look for fashion and help Jessica build support from women who want to see healthy models in fashion week!

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

What are you hoping to achieve with this movement?

I would love women of all sizes to come together and be on the same team with a common goal of health and happiness. I really understand the divide between larger vs. skinny because I have been on both sides and I think the greatest lesson I learned from that experience is that a person is just that, a person. I have compassion for women who struggle with weight because I did myself and so have the women in my family. I also have compassion for a girl who is really thin who is told she is too big because I also know how that feels and the damaging effects that can have on your self-esteem. I hope that as a group we can start to come together with compassion to understand that although we look around and see a million different faces and bodies, the truth is we all feel the same way inside. No matter what color you are, what side of town you grew up in, or what size you may be, every one of us deserves the right to live a happy healthy life. I hope this is motivation for all of us to aspire to be more!

 

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

Where do the proceeds from the sales of the tee’s go?

A large percentage of the tee’s are going to Jessica Svoboda and the production of the fashion show! The other percentage is going back in to the “Healthy is the new Skinny” fund to build more projects that are in the works to educate girls and women, and show them what healthy really looks like!

What kind of response have you received from fans of Healthy is the new Skinny?

Well, mostly it has been rave reviews with lots of “It’s about time!” and “Thank God.”

The truth is this is just the beginning for us and the amazing team of people who have come together and who are dedicated to this movement. We don’t have time for negativity, we are always working hard to be productive and positive, and our fans have been amazing!

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

* You can find out more about Katie at amodellifeonline.com.

** You can find out more about Jessica at https://svobodastyle.com/.

Erin Tinsley Answers Our Beauty, Travel, Fashion, Self-Esteem, and Body Image Questions and Talks About Her Quest To Save The Gulf!

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Entertainment, Events, Fashion, Funny Experiences, Inspiration, Media, News, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 25, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Leo Lam

Erin is a plus-size model represented by Heffner Management in Seattle, WA; Brigitte in Munich, Germany; and 12+ UK in London, England. She has traveled extensively for both work and pleasure and models for clients such as Nordstrom, Amazon, REI, Hips and Curves, Eddie Bauer, and many others.

Erin is heading to the Gulf in a couple of days to volunteer for the Gulf Restoration Network. She’s hoping to reach the $5000 mark by then! Erin will also be hosting a fundraiser on September 24 at Eterea Studio in Seattle. 100% of the proceeds made from the evening will go directly to the Gulf Restoration Network. For more information on how you can help, please visit: http://gulfrecovery.webs.com/cleancoastfundraiser.htm.

This is what Erin’s mom had to say about her: Erin is one of the most passionate people I know. She’s independent, loyal, and sincere, too. Erin is a wise, “old soul” who truly loves Mother Earth and all her creatures. She is a great friend who looks for the good in people and is compassionate and understanding about everyone’s differences. She doesn’t just see people on the surface. She looks deeper into everyone, studies them, and learns exactly who they are. A truly kind, honest, and beautiful soul.

Photographed by Dean Zulich

How did you get started as a model?

About three years ago, I was having dinner at a restaurant and kept noticing a woman at a table next to me staring my way. I didn’t think much of it, but by the end of dinner, we had made eye contact and she came over to talk with me. Turns out, she was the president of my agency here in Seattle, Heffner Management. She asked if I had ever thought about modeling. To be honest, it never even crossed my mind! She gave me her card, I was signed a week later, and the rest is history!

What does being a ‘plus’ model mean to you?

Being able to empower real women with real bodies. I am incredibly grateful to be working in such an exciting industry where I can represent healthy women.

What do you love about modeling?

So many things! Working on set can be a surreal experience at times, and I still get a rush before each shoot. Being able to travel, meet and work with talented individuals, and wear beautiful clothes are also great perks to the job. J

Photographed by Neil Latham

Have you ever struggled with low self-esteem?

Like so many women, I absolutely have. Teenage years can be difficult for many, especially if you don’t fit into a size two. Because I never looked like the girls I saw in magazines, or even my skinnier friends, I would constantly doubt my self-worth. Between blonde highlights, colored contacts, over-tanning, and crash dieting; I spent years trying to look and be someone I wasn’t. So glad I’m not a teenager anymore!

What advice would you give to girls and women who are struggling with body image and self-esteem issues?

Overcoming low self-esteem and a poor body image is a process that takes time. Some of the best advice I was ever given was to never talk to yourself the way you wouldn’t speak to your best friend. Catch yourself when you are talking negatively or putting yourself down. Would you tell your best friend how fat her thighs were? No. Then simply stop doing so to yourself.

Take action when something is really getting you down. Cherish your body regardless what size it is. Stop comparing yourself to others and start loving your body, whether it’s a size two or twenty.

Photographed by Leo Lam

What is one of your most memorable modeling experiences?

Being able to meet and chat with Ashley Graham. She is absolutely stunning and carries herself in such an elegant way. Watching and learning from an experienced and high-profile model definitely has been one of many highlights.

Do you have any funny modeling experiences?

Last year after shooting in the Midwest, I was put on a small plane with half of the Green Bay Packers. It was hilarious chatting with those guys!

What does being healthy mean to you?

Staying active, achieving mental clarity, and finding balance in all things that life has to offer. Create your own memorable experiences as often as possible and participate in activities that challenge your thinking and truly make you happy. I love to hike, golf, travel, read, and spend time with close family and friends.

Photographed by Leo Lam

What do you love about yourself?

I’m grateful for my open mind and genuine empathy towards others. I love that I often follow my intuition, even if it’s considered “unconventional”. J

Where do you shop for clothes?

Zara and Nordstrom are my two staples! I love shopping at different consignment shops around the city as well.

What is your go-to outfit?

Loose T-shirt, thin bangles, dark skinny jeans, and strappy sandals for day, heels at night.

Photographed by Leo Lam

You are also an esthetician. What are some of your skin care tips? Do you have a favorite skin care line?

I am! I get this question often and it really comes down to a couple of basics. Get plenty of sleep and exercise, avoid stress, exfoliate properly, and wear sun block!

Simple milky cleansers like Cetephil and CeraVe are a must. I’ve used so many skin care products over the years and I have to say, Kinerase and Somme Institute are my favorite skin care lines. Somme Institute’s Transport Pads, Kinerase’s C8 Peptide Intensive Serum, and their Restructure Firming Eye Cream are my staples. I’m also slightly obsessed with my Clarisonic right now! It’s a little handheld facial cleansing device. Look for products containing retinols; they come in prescription and non-prescription form and are great for fine lines. Also, never underestimate the power of a good night’s sleep!

How do you define beauty?

To me, beauty is a combination of confidence and authenticity with a touch of mystery. Own your “flaws”, be kind to others, and be proud of the imperfect and amazing woman who you are.

Photographed by Dean Zulich

We understand that you love to travel. Where is your favorite destination so far and where do you want to go next?

The travel bug bit me at the age of twenty-four on a five-week trip to Thailand. Each country I have visited since has been unique and special in its own way, but I still look back on that trip as my favorite. Experiencing something so shockingly different then my comfortable suburban life really opened my eyes. Travel makes you realize how little you actually need in order to survive and how important it is to treat others, as well as the environment, with respect. Whenever I come back home from a trip, it makes me even more grateful for all that I have.

There are so many countries I want to visit! Australia, Burma, Greece, and Indonesia are hopefully next! I am half Italian and Italy has been calling out to me as long as I can remember!

What are you excited about right now?

I don’t know if excited is the right word, but I am very upset over the current oil spill disaster happening in the Gulf. I’m trying to raise awareness on what exactly is going on down there and what we can do to help. So many friends, family, and colleagues expressed concern, but no one was sure what they could do. My passion drove me to take action so I started a website, www.gulfrecovery.webs.com and created Erin’s Gulf Recovery Fund to raise money for two organizations I felt passionately about: the Gulf Restoration Network and the National Wildlife Federation. I will be heading to New Orleans to volunteer for the Gulf Restoration Network at the end of August for two weeks, and I couldn’t be more excited to be put to work!

*Thank you, Erin!

** For more information on how you can help with Erin’s Gulf Recovery efforts, please visit: http://gulfrecovery.webs.com/cleancoastfundraiser.htm

Margaret Dilloway Talks About The Pressure To Be Thin, Dieting, Exercise, Gaining Confidence, & Finding Your Passion

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Family & Friends, Fitness & Health, Food, Inspiration, Media, News, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Travel, Work with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on July 28, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Bradford Rogne

Margaret Dilloway is a stay-home mom and writer who recently relocated to Hawaii with her three kids and husband. Her book, How to Be An American Housewife, will be published by Putnam Books on August 5, 2010.

Here is Margaret…

When I was younger, I wanted to be a model. Agencies told me I needed to lose a few pounds first, because being five foot nine and 125 pounds wasn’t quite skeletal enough. Luckily, living with my parents was not unlike living with a couple of Ralph Lauren modeling scouts, so unapologetic were they about telling me I needed to lose weight, so these new people telling me the same thing didn’t faze me.

“I had a twenty-two inch waist when I was your age,” my mother told me one day when I was a teenager. “You’re so big.”  Then she tsked at me as though I’d failed a math test. The last time I’d had a twenty-two inch waist was in third grade. 

At the time, it didn’t occur to point out she was also about six inches shorter than me and that I’d have to lose a kidney or two to have the same measurements. My waist was twenty-five inches. 

I was crushed at the time, but it’s not quite as intentionally cruel as it sounds. Since then, my readings and anecdotal accounts from Asian friends have told me that this type of appearance criticism was common from their mothers, too. A Japanese mom, at least of my mother’s generation, doesn’t care about your self-esteem; she expects you will be confident anyway. She cares that you succeed to be happy. She doesn’t want you left behind because you were weak enough to eat a bag of Chips Ahoy. And if you have to will your genetics to submit to you, then so be it.

My father, who apparently was born in 1820, advised me against exercise and weight training, though he did think the weight loss was a great idea. Sweating was unladylike and weights were a no-no. “You’ll get big arms, like a man,” he said. 

Being young and inexperienced, I did not debate this. Instead of exercising, I lost weight through food restriction. It worked pretty well, but I lost tone in my upper body, the tone I’d had as a kid from climbing trees and doing monkey bars. I was beginning to veer toward a pear shape, despite being so thin. No matter how big my head started to look, my saddlebags never quite disappeared. The general shape of my body did not change.

Always shy, not just garden-variety shy but so-shy-that-a-psychologist-should-have-been-consulted-shy, I began telling myself that the root of my problems was my body confidence. Once I reached a smaller size, all my problems would be solved. I would love my body and be happy and therefore I would be able to talk to people without problems. I would talk in class without fear. I would be popular. My voice would be loud in choir class. I would sparkle, if only I were thin and did not eat that piece of cake like a bad girl. 

My dieting obsession continued through college. In college, you’re supposed to become more open to the world and experiences, but in many ways I became more insular and protective of my interior. No Freshman 15 for me. Here I’d get a cup of milk for my powdered Slim-Fast from the dining hall and drink it in my room, knowing that all the women at my all-women’s college would tell me I was wrong. Because I knew I was, but not how to fix myself. And then I’d go to the gym and work out on the cardio machines (still no weight training for me). 

I signed with a modeling agency and never booked a job. Perhaps the problem was the fact that I didn’t have the appropriate naturally rangy model’s frame, especially during that gamine era of the 1990s. Maybe it was my carefully blank expression I liked to use, so as not to impose too much of my personality on anyone. Maybe it was because I was truly too commercial for the fashion-y jobs I was trying out for, or that I was too white for the Asian jobs and too Asian for the white jobs. Or maybe it was that I just didn’t care all that much.

Sometime after college, I moved to Washington State to be near my boyfriend, now my husband, who was in the Army. On a whim, I went over to Seattle Models Guild to see if I could still model at the ripe old age of twenty-three. I was told not that I was too old; but that I needed to lose ten pounds, and I’d be in. I lost the weight and got approved and got a list of photographers to interview. As I traipsed around Seattle, talking to photographers, I began to feel something familiar. Hopelessness and profound irritation. My old friends. I should do this, I told myself. This is my chance. But for once, I paid attention to my gut. I didn’t even want to try. 

Instead, I got a job at a newspaper, writing stories about local theatres and Army life. I got sent on a big cargo airplane, a C-141. I shot machine guns with the Army Rangers. I had a generally good time. I started to actually live.

And write. This was it. The writing. I’d always written before, since I was a little kid, and it was always the one thing I would consistently get awards for. I’d always been good at it without trying, and now I began to try.

In writing, nobody cares what you look like. No one was telling me my ass was too big.  Something important snapped into the place in my brain. As I did more stuff and felt more competent, I realized my size didn’t matter. I began to develop an actual personality. I’d never felt so liberated. 

I began writing more during this time. The most important piece was a short play that got a read at a local theater, about a Japanese woman and a tumultuous relationship with her daughter. The inception of my first published novel.

Then, at 25, I had my first baby, a girl. I gained a rather impressive amount of weight during the pregnancy. Cows, in the form of steak or ice cream, became my diet staples.

For the first time, I was eating whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted, aided and abetted by my husband and demanded by my baby. 

And I had never been so hungry. 

The weight came off quickly as I schlepped a huge baby in a heavier car seat. I nursed. I hefted enormous bags of equipment around with my spindly little arms. I pushed my newborn in a stroller to far-off parks to gaze at leafy trees. I propped her up and sang every jazz standard I ever heard to her. I danced with her. Always wanting her to see more, I held her up until my upper body trembled and ached.

Then one day, eventually, something remarkable happened. 

I had biceps.

Triceps. And upper back strength. My core was strong. My shoulders were muscled.

And I wasn’t a pear shape any more. 

All I’d needed, all this time, was muscle. Finally, I’d discovered my body was more than skin and bones. It was a machine that worked for me. A miraculous machine that could make humans out of nothing and propel me up mountains and across oceans. The more I did, the more confident I became.

I began going to the gym in earnest, doing weight training, lots of cardio. I’ll never be a real athlete, but I do what I can. My husband made me do the Army Ranger obstacle course, and for the first time in many years, I did monkey bars, swung on ropes, and jumped over walls. I took a community college tennis class and found out I was pretty good. I learned how to swim properly. I relearned what came naturally to me as a kid: it’s fun to get out and do physical stuff.

When I found Plus-Size Models Unite, I was dumbfounded. First by the realization that plus size is size 8 to 18, covering a diverse group of women. Second, by how beautiful these women are. Women who have measurements not unlike mine. 

It took me back to my teen years, when I thought I was morally wrong, somehow, for having hips. I couldn’t help but think if I’d seen this website when I was younger, a site celebrating gorgeous women with curves, I might have been better off, far earlier.

Now I have two daughters and a son. What I want them to know, what took me so long to figure out, is it doesn’t matter what size you are. I could be a size 4, but then I wouldn’t have enough muscle tone to carry a basket of laundry upstairs, and what good would that do? I am the size I am supposed to be. The size I need to be to live well.

What matters is this: Do you eat five fruits and veggies every day? Can you run a couple of miles without keeling over? Can your fingertips reach past your toes? Can you stand-up paddleboard without losing your balance? Swim out as far as you want to see where the sea turtles hang out in the wild? 

Can you enjoy your piece of cake?

*Thank you, Margaret!!!

Photographed by Bradford Rogne

**Here is a summary of Margaret’s new book How To Be An American Housewife.  The book is available August 5, 2010 or you can pre-order it today.

How To Be An American Housewife is about the strong pull of tradition, and the lure and cost of breaking free of tradition. Set in California and Japan, it tells the story of Shoko, a Japanese woman who married an American GI as a way of improving her and her family’s fortunes, moved with him to the States, and tried to learn how to be a proper American housewife; and her grown daughter Sue, who finds her own life as an American housewife is not at all what her mother would have wanted for her, or even what Sue had hoped for herself. When Shoko’s illness prevents her from making a long-awaited trip to Japan to be reunited with her brother, she asks Sue to go in her place, and the trip changes both women’s lives in unexpected ways. With beautifully delineated characters and unique entertaining glimpses into Japanese and American family life and aspirations, this is also a moving mother and daughter story. Interspersed with quotations from Shoko’s guide to being an American housewife, this is a warm and engaging novel full of surprising insight.

 ***If you would like to find out more about Margaret check out her web site at http://margaretdilloway.com/.

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