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Tears Began To Fall…I Had Finally Arrived by Angela Jones (Written by Angela Jones & Liz Nord)

Posted in Body Image, Confidence, Family & Friends, Fashion, Inspiration, Media, Models, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Unique Beauty, Work with tags Angela Jones Plus Model, Body Image, Confidence, Fashion, Inspiration, JCPenney's, Models, Photographers, Plus modeling, Plus-Size Modeling, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Work on December 9, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Marc von Borstel

This last year has been one of the most amazing years of my life. On a personal level, I have grown so much. I am constantly inspired through our Plus-Size Models Unite website and in my everyday life. Starting this website with Elizabeth was a way for me to use my story and my journey in to the modeling world to help inspire others. Now Plus-Size Models Unite has turned into a platform for inspirational women around the world to share their stories and to continue inspiring others.

For the last thirteen years of my life, ‘plus’ modeling has been something that I had wanted to pursue, but having a family, and being a wife and mother has always been at the top of my priority list and it still is. Last year, I felt it was the right time to do something for me. The journey has been a bit of a rollercoaster ride. I have had many roadblocks along the way and many moments of self-doubt and felt doubt from others, but I pushed through. I made it happen and for that, I am so proud.

I do not know what the future will bring, but I do know that along this journey, I have met the most amazing individuals. Here is a little peek into the beginning of my journey from my start pursuing ‘plus’ modeling to eventually using my voice to help create a world of confident girls and women.

Pursuing plus modeling had everything to do with simply following my dream. I feel that as a mother, I am constantly telling our children that they can be whatever they want to be. Meanwhile, I knew deep inside that I had not given my dream a shot. For me, plus modeling has everything to do with making a difference and representing diversity. That is what I wanted to be a part of–the cause.

Growing up, I had no one to relate to and I never felt that I was beautiful because everyone in the media and magazines looked nothing like me–until I saw a picture of Emme. Honestly, it was a life changing moment for me as a teenager. I finally saw a woman who looked like me and she was considered beautiful. It was a breath of fresh air. I know what an impact that image had on me and I know that young girls and women are still longing to see more of those images in the media.

When the time was right (our kids were in school and I had a bit more ‘me’ time), I decided to pursue modeling. I went for it. I really had no idea how to go about it. I tried to do as much research as I could. I checked out the legit agencies, had my husband take some snapshots of me, and I submitted them to various reputable agencies. Many agencies said that I was not what they were looking for and I was okay with that. I was happy enough with just trying and giving my dream a shot.

When an agency contacted me and wanted me to come in for an open call, I was so excited! I was actually very calm and ready to do it until I got there, and then the nerves kicked in! I was signed that day, and I was thrilled! I did it! But, unbeknownst to me, there is a lot more to modeling than just being signed and many factors play into it.

When I signed with this agency, I had no idea what I was doing. So much of the information that they told me went in one ear and out the other! I was just happy to be there. After signing with them, I had my first test. I was a nervous wreck, but I did it and it was a great experience. The agency got my photos back and said that I was too small to plus model. So, I tested again and they said that they liked those pictures better and then they used both tests on their website! I was so confused, but just went along with it.

I really tried to keep a dialogue with them, check in, and just say hi, but I never got much response. I kept on testing and asked for some direction as far as what they would like to see and nothing…no response. I didn’t know if that was normal or not, so I just went along with it. About a month ago, I was on their website looking for my pictures, and noticed that I had been taken off the site. I was in shock.

I pulled myself together and called them. They said no clients had ever showed interest in me. I had no words. I got off the phone and cried and cried and cried. I felt so betrayed. I tried my best to give them what they wanted and they didn’t even have the decency to call me or email me. It took a few days to pull myself together, but eventually I realized that it was meant to be. I was already represented by three other agencies, and I was excited about that.

A week later, I got a call from The Campbell Agency, and they told me that I booked my first job! My son thought his mommy was going crazy…I was jumping around and laughing hysterically. I finally got my chance! I was on my way to Dallas to work for JCPenney’s!

On my way to the airport, I had to switch gears from mommy and wife mode to me mode! Usually, I am with my husband and kids. When I was alone, I realized just how much I rely on them to be by my side. I was sad thinking about my family, then I quickly realized what an amazing first job opportunity this was, and I was just so grateful for the opportunity and my family’s support.

After being completely humiliated at the security check, (they took each of my chicken cutlets (bra padding) out of my carry-on bag and ran them through the machine by themselves!), I finally made it to my gate and that is where I met my new friend, Andy.

Andy was just the beginning of all of the amazing individuals who I had the chance to meet on this trip. Throughout the entire flight, we talked nonstop. He told jokes, and we talked about life, love, kids, etc. I know we will be lifelong friends. Andy, thank you for taking my mind off my nerves, for making me laugh, and starting an unforgettable trip off in an amazing way!

My first job was nothing short of amazing. Honestly, I had no idea what to expect. I knew that I was going to try my best and take any direction that I could get. I really wanted to perform well for them and do the best job that I could. I was just so excited to be there. I was really nervous. It was hard for me to go into a new environment and not have a clue what to do!

I had so many emotions built up: From the excitement of being there, to anxiety from doing my first job, to looking back on how I was teased as a child for my body, to coming to a point in my life where I am proud of my body, to being inspired by all of the amazing talent I was surrounded by, and finally…after all of my hard work and dedication–I got a job. I did it! I guess I was just so taken back that they had faith in me…I had finally arrived.

I worked two full days for JCPenney’s and it was a blast. I really enjoy watching all of the talent come together and produce such beautiful images. It is truly all about teamwork. I love seeing such inspiring people at work and it was so much fun to watch all of the models. Everyone has their own style and it was great to learn from them and incorporate what I had learned into my own style. I can tell you one thing–it is hard work. By the end of the day, all I wanted to do was go home and go to bed!

Throughout my last day of shooting Beth and Gary gave me pointers, tips, and really calmed my nerves. As my last shot of the day arrived, my martini shot as they called it…I started to cry! I pulled it together and after I was done, I completely lost it. I could not hold back the tears any longer.

I don’t think they had ever seen a model cry as I did. It was all happy tears. I honestly was just so happy to be there, to have that experience as my very first job, and to meet all of the wonderful people at JCPenney’s: Lisa, Angie, Mindy, Al, Beth, Gary, Bobby, Whitney, Raymond, Marcia, and Kayleh. You are all incredible people and I feel very honored to have met all of you! Thank you! Every person I had the chance to work with inspired me in some way.

Lisa, I love your zest for life, your love of your family, and your random shout outs of “Work it girl, woohoo!” I love your energy! Marcia, I was told by a few of my friends what a generous and sweet woman you are and they were right. Thank you for your kind words and direction, and I am going to keep working on being “natural”!:) Beth, you were my angel that day. When I looked into your eyes, I lost it. You did not have to help me as you did or give me encouragement as you did. Thank you. I feel very lucky to call you my friend. Gary, I loved listening to your stories. You take great pride in your work; you do an amazing job, and thank you for treating me as an equal. Thank you for being so kind. Kayleh, thank you for having faith in me! The Campbell Agency, thank you for your faith in me and for representing me as you do. I am honored to work with you. The entire JCPenney’s crew rocks!

I want to thank everyone who has contributed to Plus-Size Models Unite and give you all much thanks. I am so honored to have met you and thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart, for contributing. We are so thankful for your time and energy. Your inspiring words have really helped so many, including me.

Elizabeth, thank you for coming up with the idea of the website and for your friendship. My friend Marc, who is also a photographer and who I have tested with many times, I feel so blessed to call you my friend. Thank you for your friendship and guidance. You inspire me constantly. To my friends who are supporting me, thank you.

As one door closed, another door opened. I was so happy to return home and see my family. They deserve so much thanks, I feel so blessed to be a part of the family I have…thank you and I love you. I have many exciting opportunities coming up and I am so thrilled to share them with you soon!

*Here is a link to my JCPenney job pictures!

http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/XGN.aspx?DeptID=70656&CatID=71804&SO=0&Ne=4294957900+29+3+5+23+8+1031+596+591+585+593+1011+18+904+833+949&SelDim=4294957900~&CatSel=4294953642|tops&pagesize=1&x5view=1&shopperType=G&N=4294953642&Nao=0&PSO=0&CmCatId=70656|71804

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Model Camilla Hansen is an Advocate For Finding Your Own Personal Style, Embracing Your Creativity & Helping Animals.

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Family & Friends, Fashion, Inspiration, Italy, Media, Models, New York, News, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work with tags Beauty, Body Image, Camilla Hansen, Confidence, Copenhagen, Designers, Dr. Denim jeans, Fashion, Friends, Hair, Health, Inspiration, Make-Up, Media, Model Management UK, Models, New York, Photographers, Posh Pets Rescue, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work on December 5, 2010 by Liz

Camilla Hansen is a plus model who is originally from a small village in Southern Denmark. She started modeling at fourteen years old as a straight model. After four years, she changed to plus modeling. She has lived in Istanbul and Milan, and currently lives in New York City. She is represented by Model Management UK in London and Wilhelmina in New York, Miami, and Los Angeles. Some of her clients include Marina Rinaldi, Elena Mirò, Jessica London, Macy’s, Fiorella Rubino, Avenue, Ulla Popken, Burda, Persona, and Bloomingdales. Her hobbies include fostering and volunteering for an animal rescue center in New York, photographing, and getting lost in new cities.

How did you start your career as a model?

I started my career as a model when I was fourteen years old. A few friends had suggested that I should contact an agency, and after a while, I decided to try it out. I sent some pictures to an agency in Copenhagen (the capital in Denmark) but because I feared rejection, I did it without telling anyone at all–not even my family.

The same day the agency received my pictures (which by the way were just random personal shots); they called me up and told me about a modeling competition that they had going on at that moment and that they wanted me to be a part of. I, of course, was so excited and immediately accepted. After that, everything happened very fast. I told my family about the happy news and a few days later, we went to Copenhagen to attend the casting for the finals. I became one of ten finalists out of thousands of applicants and a few days after the casting, the finale was held. I won.

What do you enjoy most about modeling?

What I enjoy most about modeling is not just one thing. It is the combination of several things. Getting to travel and experiencing new cultures. Getting to unleash my creative side and being inspired by all the creative people around me. Hopefully, inspiring young girls to accept their body as it is. These are just a few of the things that I enjoy about modeling.

Have you ever suffered from self-esteem or body image issues? If so, what advice would you give to young girls and women who are currently struggling?

I have indeed suffered from low self-esteem and body image issues. When I started modeling, I was constantly told by agents and a majority of clients that I was too fat and that I had to lose weight. Even though my parents have always had my back and have supported me throughout my career, you will reach a point where it is just too difficult to ignore the comments being made about your body and unfortunately, I started believing what they said was true.

All of a sudden when I looked in the mirror, I no longer saw that slim girl that I previously had seen. Instead, I started seeing all the problems that everyone, except my family, kept bringing to my attention.

When I started modeling, I decided that I would only do it for as long as I found it enjoyable. After four years, I had had enough. Enough of the comments. Enough of the insane diets. Enough of not feeling confident. So, when Wilhelmina wanted to sign me to their plus-size board, I jumped right on. It was my way out. I started eating regularly and healthy, and I stopped weighing myself every day. All of this slowly made me feel happier, both about my body and my life. Rome wasn’t built in a day though, and being confident about your body doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process, but once you reach that state of mind it is indescribable.

Therefore, my advice to any girl/woman is to be YOU. Find your natural size where your body plateaus whether that is a size 0, 12, 22, apple shape, pear shape, hourglass, or whatever and rock that. The most beautiful, attractive, and intriguing women that I have met in my life so far, may not necessarily have met the fashion industry’s criteria on what beauty is but they were comfortable in their own skin and for that I admire them.

Do you feel plus modeling is helping redefine beauty?

I definitely feel plus modeling is helping redefine beauty, but as is acting, etc. Nowadays, it has become more common to see women of all shapes and sizes on the cover of and in various magazines, as well as in TV series. The fashion industry has (hopefully!) realized that consumers need and want to see someone they can relate to.

What does being healthy mean to you?

Healthy, to me, is eating healthy and regularly. Healthy, to me, is a state of mind. Healthy, to me, is taking care of your body.

What do you wish you would have known at age thirteen?

Here is the thing. I try as much as possible to live a life with no regrets. I am happy with who I have become so why regret any of the things, both the good and the bad, that have been part of that process? When I was thirteen, I was still a child and I learn by doing, so I don’t wish I knew anymore than I did because then I very likely wouldn’t have gone down the path I have.

What feature do you love to accentuate?

It depends what mood I am in. Sometimes, it is my legs and other times it is my waist or my bust. It depends.

Photography is…

A way of expressing my creativity. I am not a great writer, painter, or dancer, but I still have such an incredible amount of ideas and visions in my head that I need to get them out somehow. That’s what photography does for me.

We know you love heels! Do you have a favorite pair?

Ha ha, I do indeed! My dad’s nickname for me is Imelda Marcos. I feel that heels can make or break an outfit, especially as I hardly ever wear jewelry. This is also, why I don’t have a favorite pair of shoes. I love all of them, as they are all good for different occasions and outfits.

I recently read an article about three shoe lovers, and one of them gave a quote that I absolutely adore and can relate to. She said, “What I like about shoes is that anybody can wear them. There is no size-zero debate about shoes.”

What is your go-to outfit?

I actually don’t have a specific go-to outfit. In the Fall/Winter, I wear a lot of black and there is a certain model of black Dr. Denim jeans I wear quite often. I actually have own three pair of the same model because I wear them so often and love them a ton. During Spring/Summer, I try to switch it up a bit by wearing cute and colorful dresses that accentuate my curves.

Who is your style icon?

I don’t have any style icons. I believe in wearing what is comfortable yet flattering to my body shape. Once again, it is all about being YOU instead of trying to imitate other people.

Rosie

Have you always been a dog lover? Do you have any dogs now?

I have always been an animal lover, not just a dog lover. I had rabbits when I was still living at home and I rode horses for a very long time, which by the way, to this day is the best sport I have ever partaken in.

Though I always took care of a lot of dogs, I never had my own dog and I don’t plan on getting one in the near future as it is a huge responsibility, and I am not at the stage in my life where I am able to make a ten to twenty year commitment. When the time is right, I will (without a doubt) get my own dog, but that is just not now.

Instead, I decided a while back to start fostering for a dog rescue (Posh Pets Rescue) here in New York. That has been a great decision. Basically, what we do is to take the dogs off the euthanizing list, out of the shelters and place them in private homes until they are adopted. In periods when I am not working, I will usually have one or two dogs at my apartment.

It keeps amazing me how people can give up these dogs, as most of them are perfectly healthy and well-behaved dogs that have just been dumped on the street, as if they were a useless bag of garbage.

When I got my first foster dog, Rosie, a beautiful, well-behaved, housebroken, and kindhearted Bichon Fris, I was heartbroken. How could anyone just leave this little gem to fend for herself on the street? I was close to losing faith in humanity, but then something amazing happened. Rosie was put up on our website (www.poshpetsrescue.org), on petfinder.com, and on several other sites and the applications just started rolling in.

As they say, one man’s trash is another man’s treasure and after going through a lot of applications and interviews little Rosie was adopted by an incredibly sweet woman who already had another Bichon. All of these applications made me realize that even though there will always be the occasional cold-hearted person there are at least twenty good ones!

Who is your role model or hero? Why?

My parents and grandparents. For the love and unlimited support they have always given me, my younger brother, and each other. I strive to be like them.

Your family is a big part of your life. What is one of your favorite childhood memories?

One incident that sticks out, and that I think of often and was a long time ago, is when my brother and I played dress up. Even though he was a boy playing with cars, super heroes, etc., he let me put him in a dress, put makeup on him, and place a big bow in his hair. Only someone who truly loves you will let you do something like that to them.

Out of all of the places your modeling career has taken you, where has been the most memorable and why?

Every single place I’ve traveled to has made an impact on me as a person. In Texas, I had a Mexican driver who was also a trained chef. He taught me some incredible Mexican recipes. When I lived in Istanbul, a friend and I were almost shot by the mafia. When I went to Colombia for a job, we stayed and shot at a highly guarded mansion and the mother of the house showed me a few traditional Colombian dishes; one of which you have to use at least five different kinds of potatoes. I could go on like this, but my point is, as I said in the beginning, that every place has made an impact on me and who I am as a person today. I believe that it makes us better people to experience and accept the differences in the different cultures all over the world.

Where do you shop for clothes?

Anywhere I find anything flattering really; sometimes that is at very cheap stores and other times at more pricey stores.

What is the best advice you have ever been given?

When my grandmother, with whom I was very close, was alive, she used to always tell me: “Smile at the world and the world will smile back at you”.

Though she went through some very hard times in her life, she was one of the most genuinely positive people who I have ever met. Because that was one of the things about her I admired the most, I try to live by it even though I do fail sometimes.

What do you love about yourself and why?

I don’t just love one part; I love me as a whole. I have finally completely accepted my body as it is and I am happy with whom I am as a person.

What are your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

My very favorite beauty product is a makeup remover from Bioderma. Every time I work, I wear a lot of makeup and it can be very hard on the skin if the makeup remover you use is not good.

Do you have a beauty tip to share with us?

Being in a business where appearance matters a lot, I attempt to take very good care of my skin. I cleanse my skin every night (no exception) with a milky cream cleanser, then with an alcohol-free skin tonic, and I finish off my routine by applying eye cream and a good lotion. In the morning, I re-apply the lotion which contains SPF 30. That is my best beauty tip–take good care of your skin, even if it may seem like a hassle because it will benefit you in the long run.

Lipstick or Lipgloss?

I naturally have very red lips and therefore don’t wear anything on my lips in my everyday life. Bit, I love to pump it up every now and then with a deep red lipstick (Chanel Rouge Allure – 09 – Lover) if I go out for dinner, an event, or something like that.

On a day off, what would your perfect day be like?

A perfect day off for me would be spent with my family. Especially after I have moved to New York and they are all in Denmark, it has made me realize just how much we should all treasure the time we have together because you never know when that time might be up.

What is a fun fact about you?

A fun fact about me is that I never liked wearing dresses when I was younger. I always preferred being outside climbing trees and getting dirty.

What are you excited about right now?

Right at this moment, I am excited about several things. OneStopPlus.com gave New York fashion week its very first plus-size fashion show, and I got to be a part of it, which is something I am very proud of. Elena Miro once again put on an amazingly beautiful and well-done show during Milan fashion week. Last but not least, I am over the moon that I once again got to work with the talented people at Vogue, which resulted in a short-film that should be coming out very soon.

*Thank you, Camilla!

**You can watch Camilla’s video and find out more about her at http://www.vogue.it/en/vogue-curvy/how-to/2010/03/camilla-hansen.

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Model Olivia Coyne Shares Beauty Advice!

Posted in Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Family & Friends, Media, Models, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty with tags Australia, Beauty, Beauty Tips, Claudio Raschella, Confidence, Inspiration, Make-Up, Olivia Coyne, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty on November 26, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Raschella Photography

Olivia Coyne is a plus model from Australia who is signed with Bella Model Management.

What is the best beauty advice you have ever been given?

Drinking one to two liters of water every day and exercise that makes you feel good. It’s beauty from the inside out! Oh, and always wash the makeup off my face at the end of a day.

What’s your can’t live-without beauty products?

Elizabeth Arden’s Visible Difference Moisturizer – so lush and a bit of a treat in the mornings.
Invisible Zinc ESP 30+ Sunscreen – to live without sunscreen is just asking for trouble!
Avon – 100% Vitamin C Serum
Crabtree & Evelyn Gardeners Hand Therapy
Carmex Lip Balm – so soothing!
Bobbi Brown’s ‘Everything Mascara’
Rimmel Black Kohl Eyeliner – for a great pick me up for those dark gorgeous smokey eyes on the weekend!

What is your best time saving beauty tip?

Nivea Young Tinted Moisturizer – love those illuminating pigments!

*Thank you, Olivia!

**What are your favorite beauty products? How do you remedy under eye darkness? How do you keep your hair soft and healthy? What is your favorite body lotion?

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International Model Robyn Lawley Says, “There is So Much More to Life Than Fitting Into Size 6 Jeans, and I’m Glad I Realized This Sooner Than Later.”

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Entertainment, Family & Friends, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Funny Experiences, Hobbies, Inspiration, Media, Models, Movies, Music, New York, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Radio, Recipes & Food, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Sports, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work with tags Abby Valdes, Articles, Australia, Beauty, Bella Model Management, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Cosmopolitan, Crystal Renn, curves, Designers, Exercise, Family, Fashion, Fashion Week, Fitness, Friends, Funny Experiences, Hair, Health, Inspiration, london, Magazines, Make-Up, Media, Model Management UK, model robyn lawley, Models, New York, OneStopPlus.com Fashion Show, Photographers, plus model, Plus-Size Modeling, Robyn Lawley, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Topshop, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work on November 18, 2010 by Liz

Cosmopolitan Magazine

Robyn Lawley is a plus model from Sydney, Australia. She is signed with Bella Model Management in Australia, Model Management in the UK, Okay models in Germany, and Wilhelmina in NYC, USA. Some of her clients are David Jones, Nordstrom, Cosmopolitan magazine, Madison Magazine, Kohl’s, New Look, Spirito, Ezibuy, and more. Robyn enjoys films, music, making music, watercolor painting, cooking, eating, rock climbing, and traveling.

Robyn wrote, “I’m a model beyond a size 10 and I love my job. I get to travel the world, and at the same time promote healthy shapes and let audiences know that it’s okay to be who you are. Embrace your body for what it is, exercise, eat as healthy as you can, and have fun. There is so much more to life than fitting into size 6 jeans, and I’m glad I realized this sooner than later.”

Photographed by Kane Skeener for Cosmopolitan Magazine

How did you begin your modeling career?

She started modeling at the age of sixteen, when I won a modeling magazine competition, but I didn’t model for long, as I struggled to keep my weight down. Two years later after seeing success in Abby Valdes and Crystal Renn, I signed with Chelsea from Bella Model Management.

What advice would you give to young women who are struggling with self-esteem, confidence, or body image issues?

I think all women and men, for that matter, go through this most days. Try to focus on something else; sometimes we get so self involved that we miss out on everything passing us by. Take up a sport you enjoy or a hobby you would like to start. Confidence can come from achieving even the smallest of things.

Try not to compare your body to that of celebrities or top models because what you see is not always true (especially with Photoshop ruling the planet). Work with the body type that you have and just enjoy that you can see, that you can hear, and that you can walk. Both my mother and my older sister have worked, and still are working, with disabled people and it really can make you think that spending so much time pinpointing your flaws is hiding what you are really about.

Photographed by Simon Upton for Madison Magazine

What kinds of pressures do you see the girls in your life facing? What can we, as mentors, do to address these issues?

I think the most troubling thing is the amount of concern that we have over beauty. We no longer even care if someone has a good soul; we care more if they have lost the most weight or are taking up a certain exercise. I hate when I start researching what a celebrity does; it gets so time consuming. Later, I think my god I could have been practicing guitar or rock climbing. I just wish the beauty/entertainment industry didn’t have such a hold over our self-esteem. I do remember, though, when I was fourteen, I had no idea what cellulite was until I saw a magazine in a grocery store harpooning females with it on their cover. I remember going home straight away to inspect my thighs. From then on, I always wore board shots; even in competitive swimming. Did I have cellulite? No, I didn’t, but that magazine made me feel ashamed of my body. I will always blame them for making women, especially teenage girls, feel ashamed of their bodies. We should be empowering women and pushing them further in their lives, not making them inspect their thighs.

Having just recently moved to NYC, what has your experience been like so far?

It’s tricky to say; I both love and hate NYC. It’s just so different from Australia. It can be a shock to the system. I feel like I’m riding a rollercoaster—from crazy parties to crazy people chasing you to awesome shopping. It’s definitely one of a kind.

Where do you like to shop for clothes?

LONDON!!! It’s the best place to shop in the world. I love Camden markets and Topshop UK. I am finding Williamsburg, Brooklyn (where I live) has awesome vintage.

Photographed by Georges Antoni

Do you have a favorite workout routine?

I love playing sports. One thing I miss is team sports. I can’t do any because my routine is so out of whack with modeling. I love rock climbing though because it doesn’t feel like exercise; it just feels like a fun challenge and boy it’s challenging. I try to hit the gym about four times a week. I really miss my personal trainers in Sydney, Australia. In NYC, they are so expensive that it’s not worth it. If you find you are a person who lacks the motivation or knowledge, investing in a trainer, even just for a month, is well worth it. Even just to learn the safe way of working out at a gym and what types of exercises are good for your body type.

What are your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

I love Benefits new High Beam face illuminating cream that you put on your cheekbones for the healthy glow, Lancôme’s New Définicils Precious Cells Mascara, and of course, good old trusted Paw Paw ointment for my lips.

Do you have a beauty secret or tip you would like to share with us?

Make sure you wash your face twice a day; tone and then moisturize. Sounds dreary, but once it becomes habit it’s second nature.

Photographed by Kane Skenner for Cosmopolitan Magazine

What are you listening to right now?

EVERYTHING–I LOVE MUSIC! The top five albums I listen to all the time are the Romeo and Juliet soundtrack, The Boat That Rocked soundtrack, Juno soundtrack, the best of Janis Joplin, and La Roux’s first album. But, I like anything from Bloody Beetroots, to Jimi Hendrix, to Rolling Stones. Going to festivals is one of my favorite things to do.

Favorite movie?

Gah, that’s like favorite song–too hard to pick. I’m a movieaholic. My favourite thing is watching a good movie. They can make me feel comforted– especially movies from my childhood. When I’m homesick, I watch all my old favorites. As a young girl, my dad and mum would drive me and my sisters about an hour to watch movies at the Royal Australian Air Force Base because my dad was in the air force, and tickets were $2 each and we would all get a killer python each. Simple pleasures in life tend to be the best.

On a day off, what would your perfect day be like?

Waking up to my cute boyfriend back home, then getting sushi with my best girlfriends, later catch a movie with them and my man, and then going dancing at a club with awesome music with my awesome sisters.

What do you love most about modeling?

I love the confidence it gave me. I do admit I was struggling to accept my weight. I just couldn’t get over the fact that I was once an Australian size 6-8 (USA size 4-6). When I joined Bella, my confidence was pretty low, and I doubted that Chelsea, my agent, would sign me. I was lucky she gave me a contract on the spot and about a year later, my confidence was the strongest it had ever been, I felt unstoppable and still do.

What do you do to prepare for a photo shoot and what are your must haves in your modeling bag?

I wash my hair the night before and put a heat protector on my ends. The morning of, I wash and cleanse my face. I then use a good quality moisturizer and Paw Paw on my lips. I always take my own mascara because I have very sensitive eyes, and I don’t want to obtain any eye conditions.

Do you have any funny modeling stories you would like to share?

I think most people find modelling very glamorous, but trust me it can be anything but that. I hate when I have to walk around or get something with my hair is in curlers and I look like an old grannie.

I had a funny week though recently, when I was in Fiji for a Cosmopolitan shoot. I decided to go horse riding on my day off. The horse they had was tiny, but I didn’t get to see it until I had paid. I felt sorrier for the horse because it would have to lug me around, but I didn’t want to seem like a chicken so I went riding anyways. Once I had finished my thighs were so sore– more than usual. When I reached the hotel, my inner thighs were blue and bruised so bad that when I showed the stylist, she gasped… LOL–not good for a swimwear shoot.

Photographed by Georges Antoni

We would LOVE to hear about your experience walking in the OneStopPlus.com Fashion Show!

Yeah that was so great, I knew it would be a bid deal, especially when I arrived to see where it was. I was so lucky, I only got the job last minute as I did not go to the casting, they spotted me at a go see and decided to use me. It was very empowering experience and I hope they do more.

What is a fun fact about you?

I like to do voices. I can do Gollum from lord of the rings, exorcist chick (pretty scarily well, so much so that I shocked a boy that I was dating once; he got so scared that he threatened to punch me if I ever did it again, and naturally I do it to him every time I see him. ha-ha), Stitch from Lilo and Stitch, and E.T.

What do you love about yourself and why?

I suppose I love that I rarely say no to anything; consider me the yes woman. I have always been like that ever since I was a little girl. I would give anything a chance. I’m not sure why, but I just never wanted to miss out on something I might have found fun, whether it be sky diving, jet skiing, rock climbing, canyoning, or travelling; anything really deserves a chance.

What is one last thing you would like to say?

Don’t be afraid to make a fool of yourself and have fun. My mother always said laughter is the best medicine and by god, she’s right!

*Robyn talks about acceptance. This is a great video!

**You can learn more about Robyn at her blog: http://reviewmerobyn.blogspot.com/

***Thank you, Robyn!

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Model and Writer Mayra De Wilde Says, “I am so much more than a number on the scale or a number in a size chart.”

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Food, Inspiration, Media, Models, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty with tags Beauty, Body Image, Brigitte Models, bumble & bumble curl creme, Confidence, Fashion, Friends, Health, Hughes Models, Inspiration, journalist, Magazines, Make-Up, Mayra De Wilde, Media, Models, Netherlands, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, The Netherlands, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty on November 2, 2010 by Liz

Mayra De Wilde is a plus model and freelance writer from the Netherlands. She was born in a small Dutch village, called Scherpenzeel and grew up in Zeist, which is near Utrecht, a city in the middle of The Netherlands. Mayra now lives near The Hague, which is close to the sea. She is represented by Brigitte Models, Hughes Models, Modelbooking, Stars, and Y Models. Mayra has worked for nearly every magazine that uses plus-size models in The Netherlands. She is currently looking for representation in the United States.

Would you tell us a little bit about yourself?

I’m 28 (almost 29) and besides being a model, I work as a freelance journalist for womens’ magazines. Modeling and writing are a good combination for me. I work as a model about once a month, but I would love to model more often. I have a boyfriend who is a photographer. He works for fashion magazines and commercial clients. We met on a shoot and have been together for almost six years now.

How and when did you get started in the plus modeling industry?

I started modeling when I was nineteen. I sent pictures to an agency and was signed right away. I was very naïve when I started, I didn’t even see it as a job. I know better now! But I still love it!

What is the perception of plus women in the Netherlands?

I think change is on its way, but there is still too much focus on full-figured women and their eternal wish of being thin. I would like to see a change of focus; women should be taught to be happy with they way they look. It’s okay to have a wish to lose weight but it’s not okay if making that wish come true is the only way to be happy and confident. It’s great to see that more and more magazines work with plus-size models in fashion editorials. And with plus-size models appearing on the runway, it continues to be a hot topic. But there is a long way to go, I want to see plus size models in beauty advertisements for example. Things like that will really change people’s perception of what’s beautiful.

Do you feel the plus modeling industry is helping redefine beauty?

Yes I do. I think it shows that women of all sizes are beautiful. It’s not about size, it’s about daring to be your gorgeous self, no matter what your size is. I’m not someone who is against straight-size models, I would just like to see much more variety.

Have you ever struggled with self-esteem or body image issues in the past? If so, how did you reach the point of accepting and loving yourself and your body as it is?

I’ve never been extremely insecure, but it took time for me to accept my body. There were times when I wasn’t able to look at myself in a positive way. When I was seventeen I gained 20 kilos in three months because of drugs that I had to use for my asthma. I went from a size 42/44 to a size 50. This was a really hard time. It felt like my body took over. Eventually, I’ve learned to love myself no matter what weight or size I am. I am so much more than a number on the scale or a number in a size chart.

I still struggle a bit with my body since I gained quite a lot of weight in the last couple of years. Modeling has helped me to get more confident, but the last couple of years it sometimes worked against me. A lot of clients think I am too big and this can be hard–even for a confident girl like me.

At the moment, I am focusing on finding balance because I never want to diet again. I’ve been dieting since I was eleven, and I am done! I believe every body has a natural weight. It’s my goal to find the weight my body is most comfortable with.

What advice would you give to girls and women who are struggling with self-esteem, confidence, or body image?

Take care of yourself the way you take care of the person you love the most. Pay attention to how you feel and why you feel that way. Try to surround yourself with positive people. Do the things you love. Smile at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful every day. It may sound silly, but you will start to look at yourself differently.

Throw your diet books away; they will make you feel like crap! If you hate the gym, take long walks in the city or a forest. I try to eat healthy. I use the 80-20 rule. 80% of what I eat consists vegetables, whole grain products, fruit, lean meat, fish, and some dairy products. I love avocado; I eat it almost every day. The other 20% I use to indulge myself in… chocolate. Of course, I have days that I don’t eat healthy at all, but I honestly don’t feel good when I eat junk food all the time. I believe no one does.

What do you wish you would have known when you were a teenager?

That dieting only makes you unhappy and heavier! I started dieting when I was eleven. I was a very skinny child but with the start of my period, my curves appeared. I wish I could have just loved my femininity. When I see myself in pictures from when I was a teenager, I see a pretty but very insecure girl. People use to tell me that I could be a model if only I would have been thinner. And look at me now. Oh well, coulda, woulda, shoulda. Things turned out great for me. I hope my story and image in magazines helps other girls and women to learn to love themselves no matter what size they are.

How would you define confidence?

Confidence is definitely a state of mind. You have to fake it until you make it! I feel confident, but it took years for me to get to this point. The funny thing is that people always thought I was very confident, but I’m just very good at putting on my poker face. It’s really important to surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are. I use to care too much about other people’s opinions about me and of course the negativity always overruled the positivity. So if someone is dragging you down, let them go, be bold, and choose your own path.

How would you describe beauty?

It’s a cliché, but I really think it’s not about a pretty face but about the way you are as a person. About the way to take care of yourself and people around you. I think beauty is a characteristic, not something you can see on the outside.

Who inspires you and why?

I’m inspired by so many people! My boyfriend for finding his passion in his work. My mom for being such a strong women. My friends for being who they are. I think life is all about daring to be who you are and it’s truly inspiring when people choose to be that person.

We know you are a magazine addict. What are some of your favorite magazines?

I read a lot of fashion magazines like Glamour, Vogue, and ELLE. I have the strange habit to start reading from the back of the magazine. First, I check out what will be in the next issue. I don’t know why, maybe I’m just impatient when it comes to magazines! I love everything about magazines. Most of the time I read every single article in a magazine, whether it’s about beauty or style. I put pictures I really like in a leather photograph album that I’ve been carrying around for years.”

What is your go-to outfit?

A black legging with a figure hugging skirt combined with a soft colored top and a strong shoulder blazer. I wear a lot of black. I know I am a bit boring. But I’m trying to add more color to my wardrobe!

What is a quick beauty tip you can share with us?

Try to have a good laugh every day! It takes off the sharp edges. The less stress you feel, the better you look! So go for it and have a bit of a giggle.

What is your secret to keeping your curly hair so beautiful?

Bumble & Bumble Curl Crème! I am a Curl Crème junkie! Unfortunately, it’s very expensive in the Netherlands, but I’m hooked. Nothing works better for my curls. Especially when I combine it with the curl shampoo and curl conditioner from Bumble & Bumble.

What are some of your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

At the moment, I love DKNY’s fragance ‘Pure’; I wear it every day. I also really like the products of Kiehls. When I want to indulge my skin, I use their body lotions or body butter. On a daily base, I use Centella Recovery Skin-Salve from Kiehls. I clean my face twice a day with products from La Roche Posay. It really gives a clear and glowing skin.

When did you discover your love for writing?

For as long as I can remember I have liked writing. When I was in my teens, I wrote a lot in my journal. I still write in a journal, but not as much anymore. Maybe because I now write for a living.”

Please tell us about your freelance writing career. How did you break into the writing world?

It took some time to get jobs. A couple of magazines really gave me chances, and I still work for them. I have been a freelance journalist for three years now, but I’m not where I want to be yet. I still need the modeling to pay my bills as well. I hope this will change eventually. I’d also like to write a book in a couple of years. That’s one of my big dreams!

What is a fun fact about you?

I was born on the 5th of December, in Holland this date is also the day we celebrate ‘Sinterklaas’. Sinterklaas a holiday for kids but Dutchies of all ages celebrate it. Really small children believe Sinterklaas exists. It’s a bit like Santa but without the tree. The tragic consequence of my birthday is that I can never celebrate it on my actual birthday. But I think that’s tragic in a funny kind of way.

What are you excited about right now?

My boyfriend and I are moving to another house. I am beyond excited and looking forward to finally live near the city centre again in a super cute house!

*Photos by pictures: X-Two and Sempre Pui.

** If you would like to contact Mayra, visit her Facebook page & Hughes Models

***Thank you, Mayra!

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Model Tara Laughton Shares Her Beauty Advice! Check Out Her Brand New Ladybird T Jewelry Collection.

Posted in Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Family & Friends, Fashion, Inspiration, Models, My Story, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Shopping, Unique Beauty, Work with tags Australia, Beauty, Bella Model Management, Bracelets, breast cancer research, Claudio Raschella, Inspiration, L'Oreal Nutrisummer moisturizer, Ladybird T, Make-Up, Media, Model Management UK, Models, NARS blush, OKAY Models, Photographers, Plus modeling, Shopping, Tara Laughton, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Vascular Cardio Facial Syndrome, Women Against Domestic Violence, Your Story on October 27, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Claudio Raschella

Tara Laughton is a plus model and jewelry designer from Australia. She is signed with Bella Model Management in Australia, Click Models in New York City, and Okay Models in Hamburg, Germany. Tara is one of Bella Model Management’s top models. She has worked for every client in Australia. She works in New York City, London, and Germany. Tara is active in the community and hosts fundraisers for Women Against Domestic Violence, breast cancer research, and Vascular Cardio Facial Syndrome, which is the second most common syndrome after Down syndrome. She is the new ambassador for Life 2 Skin products and recently opened her own jewelry company called Ladybird T. The link to her jewelry website is at the bottom of this article.

Photographed by Claudio Raschella

What is the best beauty advice you have ever been given?

I started looking after my skin at a young age (I started at thirteen years of age), so I’ve always cleansed, moisturized, and applied masks and scrubs. I think it’s paid off; I’m very happy with my skin.

The best beauty advice is to always smile and be confident! Do whatever ever you can to make yourself feel good! I’ve learned to be comfortable in my own skin. It shows on the outside when you are comfortable in your own skin–you look and feel more confident and people notice that.

What’s your can’t live without beauty products?

L’Oreal Nutrisummer Moisturizer and St. Tropez are great for a sunless tan!

I can’t live without Paw Paw Ointment as lip balm. I’m always applying it, and it’s great for cuticles too. (http://www.organicsaustraliaonline.com.au/category422_1.htm)

Also, Almond oil on your skin after showering is such a great moisturizer.

I love NARS blush in “Orgasm” (It’s a gorgeous pink color), Chanel INIMITABLE Mascara in Black, and MAC Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation!

I can’t go out the door without a splash of my favorite scent, Diptyque Philosykos, which is described as a fig tree in all its glory: the freshness of fig leaves, the green fruit, the slightly milky sap, and the bark. A touch of white cedar gives it an even sunnier depth!

What is your best time saving beauty tip?

Time saving beauty tips? Hmm… I’m not sure I have one. Before I go out, I just love spending time getting ready, and doing my hair and makeup. As much as I can do it quickly, I like it when I can leisurely take my time to look great. It’s a way of making myself feel great and a way of loving me. We all need to spend time giving ourselves some love by taking a bath or reading a book. Make some time for you! *Not really any saving time tips here! Sorry. =)

Photographed by Claudio Raschella

*Thank you, Tara!

**For more information on Tara’s jewelry collection, please visit her Ladybird T Facebook site at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Ladybird-T/153538161328739?v=app_138996027389&ref=ts

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Plus Model and Embody Denim Designer Natalie Wakeling Shares Her Story and Offers a 15% Discount to You For One Week! Her Jeans Are Awesome and For Women of ALL Sizes!

Posted in Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Designers, Entertainment, Fashion, Ford +, Media, Models, News, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Your Story with tags Australia, Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Cosmopolitan, Designers, Embody Denim, Fashion, Inspiration, Magazines, Photographers, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Work on October 17, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Anna Bertalli

Natalie Wakeling is a plus-size model and clothing designer from New South Whales, Australia. Natalie is the youngest of four daughters. She grew up surrounded by a strong influence of fashion and a desire to be a model. In 1999, Natalie was one of Australia’s first plus-size models to appear in consecutive editorials for Cosmopolitan magazine. She helped to break the stereotype that only straight models should appear in mainstream magazines. In 2006, Natalie Wakeling created EMBODY DENIM, which is a denim line for every women of every size who has ever struggled to find a perfect pair of jeans.

First plus model used for Australia’s Cosmopolitan magazine.

How did you begin your career as a model?

I was quite athletic, had a solid build as a teenager, and had secret aspirations of being a model. I just happened to be too big for straight size modelling so I pretty much gave up the thought of ever being a model. When I left school, I trained as a photographer and make-up artist. One day, I was working on a shoot as the make- up artist, when the photographer said that I should try plus-size modeling and that the best agency was BGM Models. I met with Darrianne Donnelly, the agency director, and she signed me immediately. I have been with her since I was eighteen years of age.

Was it hard for you to make the transition from straight to plus modeling?

Letting go of all the fears that you harbour about putting on weight was hard, but I soon relaxed and enjoyed being the size that I was, which allowed me to be a model. It was a little scary to decide that I was no longer going to skip meals and exercise like a maniac to remain thinner than I was supposed to be. As soon as I started to land some major photographic campaigns, I found that my inner confidence grew and I started to understand more about myself.

Photographed by Anna Bertalli

Do you feel that plus-sized models are becoming more widely accepted by today’s media?

The change has been quite phenomenal over the past two years. My agency, BGM Models, has been slowly chipping away at the mainstream fashion Industry for over a decade now, and I’m glad to say that things have moved forward quite dramatically here in Australia in the past twelve months. We now see plus-size models included in main fashion festivals, along with magazines using bigger models in every issue.

I was honoured when asked to be the face of ‘Every Body Counts’ Fashion Festival in Perth, Western Australia. To have reached a point in my career where I stay in five star hotels, be met at the airport with a limousine, and to treated like a queen is awesome. Whilst in Perth, I had the privilege of meeting other well-known fashion designers and attending VIP events. I even managed to deliver a speech to a full house, which included Jerry Hall. The ‘Every Body’ parade featured fifteen women of all shapes and sizes. It was a huge success and was special for the fact that it was included on the main programme.

Here is another article about The Perth Fashion Festival:

http://au.news.yahoo.com/thewest/lifestyle/a/-/lifestyle/7919319/fashion-launch-for-every-body/

What inspired you the most when creating Embody Denim?

Beside the natural desire to exceed in something you love, I desperately wanted to wear an amazing pair of jeans designed for my shape. The concept of my brand was very different. My jeans are made for different body shapes without focusing on the size.

Photographed by Marvin Joseph. The group shot includes BGM models Kate Hislop, Natalie in front,Laura Wells, and Kiralee Martin.

What was the first pair of jeans you created?

For my first collection, I designed four styles – Babe, Body Love, CHIC, and Ice Queen. Since then I have expanded my range to include twelve fabulous styles. I have also designed a jacket and skirt to add to the collection. I’m currently working on my fashion range, which I hope to launch in 2011.

Do you have a favorite cut from Embody?

I love the ‘Bella’ style, as it is just so glamorous and holds everything in the right place.

I love that you created jeans for every body type…brilliant! Was that difficult to achieve?

The sampling process is tiresome, but once I had the measurements figured out for certain body types, it all just fell into place.

How many pairs of jeans do you own?

Every style I have ever made in every colour–maybe around 20 + pairs.

Photographed by Marvin Joseph. Natalie modeling her Embody Denim. Natalie is the designer and she is constantly updating the styles (for all sizes) to correspond with the current fashion trends.

What Embody cut has been the most popular?

Everybody loves the ‘Bebe’ and ‘Tempt’ narrow styles. These two styles are totally different, being the Bebe more suited to apple body shapes and the tempt narrow being perfect for pear shaped ladies that struggle with gapping waistbands.

Are there any trends coming out next season that we should be keeping an eye out for?

I will be releasing a brand new crop style jean with lots of detailed panels. It is the perfect jean that manages to make everyone look a size smaller. We are still love the holes and rips and even the acid wash, denim is so varied now that you can pretty much wear whatever you want. I definitely recommend dressing for your shape rather than trying to wear the hottest look of the moment. Confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear.

We all love denim, but what makes denim so important to you?

I guess denim is like a third child to me. To be able to create something and make it work has been a challenge and it has been wonderful to be able to make so many women feel good about themselves whilst wearing Denim that I have designed.

What do you love to pair your embody denim with?

I love a bit of a rock chic feel. Something sexy under a blazer always looks hot.

Natalie had just been signed with Ford and was able to wear a high end designer Sass and Bide for this photo shoot.

What has been your favorite memory since creating Embody?

I have so many. I guess the day I was able to do my own photographic campaign was really exciting. It was so much fun to direct from behind the camera and to be the boss for the day.

Who would you love to see wear a pair of your jeans?

I have a very long list, but if it was a celebrity, I would love to see a pair on Beyonce.

Where can Plus-Size Models Unite readers find Embody Denim?

It is very easy you can buy direct from http://www.embodydenim.com.au/. I also offer free international shipping. I would also like to offer your readers a special 15% off for one week.

**To redeem, please email sales@embodydenim.com.au with plusmodelsunite in the subject line. Please mention the size and style that you wish, and Natalie will email you a discount link.

This photograph is from Natalie’s very first shoot with Cosmopolitan ten years ago. It was eight pages long and made Natalie’s career what it is today.

Have you ever struggled with body image or self esteem issues?

I think every time my body has gone through a radical change, such as the teenage years and after having babies, I start to think about how I can improve my body.

What advice would you give to young girls and women who are struggling?

I think you need to ask yourself– is it really your body your unhappy with or is it another problem?

Talk to your best friend or parents about your issues. Sometimes it’s as simple as going for a walk to make you feel more at ease with yourself and your body. Check out all the gorgeous curvy women that are really doing well for themselves by just being the way that they were meant to be.

What do you love about yourself?

I’m a pretty approachable person and always laugh very easily (sometimes too loud).

The Men’s Style magazine shoot was a first for a plus size model.

What are you excited about right now?

The possibilities of the future. Not knowing what’s around the corner from one week to the next.

*Thank you, Natalie!

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Amber Cather Gets Real About Acting, Body Image, Self-Esteem, Life, and the Guidelines for Plus & Straight Models.

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Designers, Family & Friends, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Inspiration, Media, Models, Movies, My Story, New York, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty with tags Alicia Witt, Amber Cather, Articles, Beauty, Body Image, Celebrity, Conan O'Brien, Confidence, Cressida Wilson, Cybill Shepherd, Designers, Dove, Duane Incarnate, Ed, Events, Exercise, Family, Fashion, Fishers of Men, Fitness, Friends, Funny Experiences, Georgia, Glamour Magazine, Hair, Health, Inspiration, Katherine Heigl, Law & Order SVU, Magazines, Make-Up, Mederma, Media, model, New York, News, Photographers, plus model, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, straight model, thyroidectomy, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Victoria's Secret on October 13, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Amber’s mom, Bonnie Cather

Amber Cather has been a professional model and actress since she was nine years old. Amber has been featured on many TV shows such as, “The Vampire Diaries”, “The Guiding Light”, “Ed”, “Conan O’Brien”, and she guest starred on “Law & Order: SVU”. Amber played the lead role in the movie, “Missy’s Revenge”, and supporting roles in “Fishers of Men” and “Duane Incarnate”. She has also been in Victoria’s Secret and Mederma Commercials. She currently lives in Blue Ridge, GA with her husband; three-year-old daughter, Natalie; and their cat, Shelby.

Photographed by Bradford Willcox

How did you get started in the modeling industry?

I started modeling when I was nine. I was always a huge ham, and I loved being in front of the camera and on stage. So, I told my mom I wanted to model. She took me to an agency in Atlanta called Kiddin’ Around. I got signed and started working.

Was going from a straight model to a plus model a hard transition for you?

I’m not going to lie; it was incredibly hard. In the beginning, a lot of photographers and other models made me feel lesser, like I wasn’t a real model any more. Then, I started traveling a lot and working more and it didn’t bother me as much. I was still doing what I loved and getting to see the world, so I was happy.

Please tell us more about your transition from a straight model to a plus model.

I switched to plus after I had gone home to Georgia to visit my mom for a while. When I went back to New York, I was heavier than when I had left. I was exhausted from trying to get the weight off and then some. It seemed like they were always asking me if I could lose more and more weight. I noticed that the plus-size girls had also gotten smaller. When I first started modeling, “straight” size models were around a size 6 and some of the “plus” size girls were around a size 18/20. I saw the plus girls and they looked like curvy, beautiful women. So, I thought to myself, it would be much easier just to eat a whole lot more and gain weight and probably more fun, so that’s what I did. I was able to get up to a small size 12, but that was actually with a lot of effort.

Photographed by Cressida Wilson

What does the term “plus” mean to you?

To me, it just means fuller figured models.

What are your feelings on the term “plus” model?

The term “plus” doesn’t bother me. I think it’s better than a lot of other words the industry could probably come up with!

Do you think models should be divided into straight and plus size categories?

I do think that straight size and plus size should be divided. There are two different audiences that are being marketed to, so I think it makes sense for them to be divided. I think beauty campaigns, however, should be open to straight-size and plus-size girls.

Is there a fine line between plus model and straight model body measurement requirements? When is a model ”too small” to be a plus model or ”too big” to be a straight model?

I think the guidelines for what is considered straight size and what is considered plus size are specific and non-specific at the same time. If you are larger than a size 4, you are a little too big to be straight size, and if you are smaller than a 10, you are a little too small to be plus size. However, if you are caught in this no man’s land, there are clients that don’t mind if you pad up to make yourself larger. So, potentially, you could be a size 6 or 8 and be a plus-size model. It’s not that common, but it happens. I’ve actually just now lost just a bit too much weight, and I am being put back into the straight category since I am now a size 4 again. It was a healthy and easy transition for me this time. I think because I didn’t lose weight for anybody else and I didn’t feel any pressure to do it. I just wanted to get healthy and in shape to be a role model for my daughter. My weight naturally dropped down to a 4.

Photographed by Blake Davenport

Not only are you an amazing model, you are also an actress. We would love to hear about your acting career. What do you enjoy about acting?

I started acting just a little bit after I started modeling. There was a nationwide search for a girl to play the part of Cybill Shepherd’s daughter on the sitcom, Cybill. I sent in a video audition through my agent. It finally came down to Katherine Heigl, Alicia Witt, and me. I flew out to LA to read for the executive producer, and while I was there, I got a manager for acting. While I lived in NY and was straight size, I did quite a bit of acting as well. I had a small day part on “Law & Order: SVU” and did a film called “Duane Incarnate”. I took a break from acting while I was fuller figured. I am now and have just recently started auditioning again. My next project is a role in a film called “Fishers of Men”. We film October 5. I’ve always really enjoyed acting…maybe even more than modeling. I like to talk a lot and love performing.

Have you ever struggled with body image or self-esteem issues? If so, what advice would you give to girls/women currently struggling?

Yes, I have. I had a thyroid tumor when I was seventeen, and had to have a total thyroidectomy. Before my surgery, I was naturally a very thin girl. A month after my surgery, I had gained 40 pounds. It was incredibly hard to deal with, especially at such a young age. I wasn’t comfortable in my skin at my new size, so I barely ate for a long time to get back down to a size 2-4 and continue working as a straight size model. The advice I would give girls that are struggling with body image and self-esteem issues is to try to embrace who you are. Everyone looks and feels their best when they are at their natural size and are healthy. I didn’t feel good when I was forcing myself to be too thin for me and I didn’t feel good on the opposite side of the spectrum when I was forcing myself to eat and be heavier to be able to get close to a full size plus model. I still struggle sometimes and the thing that grounds me the most is my daughter. I don’t want her to grow up hearing her mommy putting herself down because I don’t want Natalie to think that is ever acceptable.

Photographed by Amber’s friend and fellow plus model, Cressida Wilson

What is your definition of beauty?

My definition of beauty? That’s a hard question. Obviously, inner beauty shines the brightest. There are girls that are absolutely stunning on the outside, but if they have a bad attitude or mean disposition, it diminishes their beauty.

Do you think plus models are helping redefine beauty?

I think some plus models are helping redefine beauty. Again, I really think being healthy is the most important thing and that’s what I think is going to help redefine beauty the most. I have had the pleasure of working with some amazing plus models that truly embodies what I think a woman should be, and I have had the misfortune of working with girls that are the complete opposite. As a whole, I think it’s good for women to have a wider variety of sizes of women to look at, as examples of what we consider beautiful.

Photographed by Blake Davenport

What does being healthy mean to you?

Being healthy to me means taking care of yourself in every way. Body, mind, and soul. I think it’s important to eat healthy, but not go crazy. I still eat what I want, and I think that’s important. Allowing ourselves some indulgences sometimes is healthy, too! Staying active is healthy. I recently started dancing again because it’s one of my first true loves, makes me happy, and is helping to keep me fit. Keeping your attitude and mind healthy is just as vital. Being kind, open, patient, and learning new things…that’s all-important to me, and I try my best to live that way. I fail sometimes, but I try! I’ve come to the realization, that for me, my healthiest size is a little on the small side for plus and a little on the large size for straight. So far, I’ve found that I’ve actually been working more, and I think it has to do with the fact that I feel better than I have in years and it shows in my work.

Where would you like to see the fashion and beauty industry in five years?

I would like to see the industry accept body types that are in between what is now straight size and plus size. I would also like to see some of the “straight-size” girls gain just a little weight, and some of the “plus-size” girls lose a little weight. Just my opinion…please don’t hate on me for it! I feel like in some editorials they exaggerate the thinness of girls for shock value and do the opposite with plus girls. It’s not beautiful to me.

Photographed by Tanja Tremel and Jasmin Arbes

What has been one of your most memorable modeling experiences?

One of my most memorable modeling experiences was probably my first runway show in NY when I was seventeen. It was so exciting!

What would be the perfect day with your family?

A perfect day with my family is when we take Natalie somewhere that she really enjoys and then have dinner in the evening, watch a movie together, and all go to bed. Pretty simple, but it’s my favorite.

What is one thing your daughter has taught you?

She has changed my life in a way that I think only mothers truly understand. She’s changed everything. The way I look at the world, in general, is entirely different now. Having her made me take a long, hard look at myself and realize there was a lot I wanted to change. She’s also taught me a lot of patience!

What has been your proudest moment?

My proudest moment is anytime anyone meets Natalie.

How would you describe your style?

I am not a typical model at all! You won’t see me in some really cool outfit and amazing shoes with accessories that only a stylist would be able to come up with! My style is very simple. I like clothes that fit well, and that I think are pretty.

What are some of your favorite beauty must-haves or products?

I must have an eyelash curler, mascara, tweezers for my eyebrows, blush, a barely tinted lip gloss, and Dove Sensitive Skin soap.

Photographed by Blake Davenport

What do you love about yourself and why?

I love the fact that I’m very real and open. Some people don’t like it I suppose, but I prefer that over a lot of the people who need to grow up. I try not to put on airs or a facade of what my life is or has been. What you see with me is pretty much what you get…mostly.

Who do you consider a role model or hero?

My mom and my sister. My mom because she has been through a lot and is an incredibly strong woman, even if she doesn’t realize it. My sister because she is simply amazing. She is always in a good mood, she is smart, she’s an incredible mother and friend, and she’s funny. She’s just inspiring.

Do you have a hidden talent or something we would be surprised to learn about you?

I love math and word games. I love all games, actually. My husband and I have even gone to some cornhole tournaments. Haha! It’s a crazy fun game! My best games are probably spades, ping-pong, and Nintendo 64′s 007. I almost forgot–I’m freakishly good at grab machine games. I have cleaned several out before and had them turned off on me. So, every time I see one, I have to play. I’m obsessed. Ha ha!

Bridal Guide Magazine

If you had one wish, what would it be?

I would wish to be content. It always feels like I’m working towards something else and/or for better all the time. I would love to know how it feels to just be and be okay with that.

What are you excited about right now?

I’m excited about my life! I’m excited about how my career is going. I’m excited to see my daughter grow up. I’m always excited!

*Thank you, Amber!

** You can learn more about Amber at http://ambercatherinc.com/.

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Abby Valdes Talks About Fashion, Motherhood, Beauty, New York Fashion Week, Modeling Tips, Not Feeling Perfect Enough, and The Best Advice She’s Ever Been Given!

Posted in Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Fashion, Ford +, Inspiration, Models, New York, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, TV, Unique Beauty with tags Abby Valdes, Australia, Beauty, Bella Model Management, Body Image, Books, Chelsea Bonner, Confidence, Cosmopolitan, Designers, Fashion, fashion show, Ford +, Friends, Health, Make-Up, Marina Rinaldi, Models, New York, New York Fashion Week, OneStopPlus.com, Photographers, Plus models, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Tommy Hilfiger, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty on October 5, 2010 by Liz

Abby on a shoot in Istanbul,Turkey for Faik Sönmez.

Abby Valdes is a plus model from Australia, who currently lives in New York City. She is signed with FORD NY and Bella Model Management. Abby has six sisters and one brother. She has lived many places throughout Australia. As a child, she spent her time with her “mum,” siblings, and cousins in mud baths, water holes, water fountains, and under a Chai Tent.

Ford + NY lured Abby to sign with them two years ago, which she says, “was an easy decision to make as I’m still a bit of a gypsy. I’d rather sit on the floor than sit on my couch!” She travels to Europe and Australia often for work. She most frequently travels to South Africa, Spain, Germany, and Australia.

She loves reading books on subjects such as esoteric philosophy, world religions, art, metaphysics, and critical mass; and she reads a million fashion magazines, which are piled up all over her apartment.

Abby is a single woman, which she says, “is not good because I want to have eight kids! So, I need to get a move on! Well, maybe six kids… or I could settle for four, but that’s the lowest!”

How did you get started in the plus modeling industry?

I guess how I got started is an age-old models tale. My best friend always said that I should model, but I was busy working in finance in Australia. One day, on a TV show called “Today Tonight”, she saw a competition for Bella Model Management. They were searching for ‘plus size’ models. She sent in a picture of me for the competition and was contacted by Bella Model Management soon after. She was told that I had made it to the televised finals in Sydney. This is when she told me the news! But I was convinced that my finance career was the way to go so I contacted Chelsea Bonner of Bella Model Management and told her that although I was very flattered that I had made it to the finals, I actually had a different career and couldn’t come to Sydney! Chelsea was so lovely that she offered me a contract on the spot! So, I decided to do some modeling on the side and see if I could make some extra cash. And that I did! So much so that after about six months or so, I had to make some decisions about which career I wanted to pursue because I couldn’t continue to do both as they were both very time consuming. I decided to move to Sydney to see where modeling could take me. It wasn’t long before I was traveling around the world for work and then finally moved to New York City! I’ll always be grateful to Chelsea for having the foresight and faith in me!

Who are some of the clients you have worked with?

In Oz (Australia) I did all the brands that we know and love like Berlie/Platex, Bonds, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cleo, Womans Weekly, Maggie T, Sara, Freewoman, Mysize, David Jones, Myers, and I could I could go on…

In New York, I have amazing clients such as Macy’s, Saks Fifth Avenue, Lord and Taylor, Bloomingdales, Marina Rinaldi, Tommy Hilfiger, etc. I have worked extensively throughout Europe, in particular London and Germany. I have just recently finished shooting in Berlin for Otto and in Istanbul, Turkey for a client called Faik Sonmez.

Australian Women’s Weekly Magazine. Photographer David Gubert. Stylist Julie Russell.

What advice do you have for aspiring plus models?

I would tell any aspiring plus-size model that they have made a good choice! The plus-size industry is the best of both worlds! You are encouraged to be healthy, which means that you are allowed to eat, ladies! You must eat a balanced diet and not be too skinny! Thank the lord!

You should approach several agencies in your state. See what advice they have for you and try to follow their constructive ‘advice’. Do remember that ‘plus size’ models, in general, are required to fit the same modeling criteria as straight-size models but without the ‘skinny part’. You should be tall and attractive (not necessarily Claudia Schiffer beauty) and attractive girl next door works too!

Everyone starts out somewhere, so learn your craft. Study magazines and how models move. What expressions they show on their face and practice, practice, practice! Before you know it, you will be a pro!

How do you prepare for a shoot?

I make sure I get plenty of rest so that I look fresh and relaxed. I make sure my hair and nails are perfectly maintained, and that my skin is moisturized and hydrated with loads of water and vitamin C powder. Then I show up to the shoot with heaps of my usual morning energy that usually make everyone wonder what special little pills I’m on! Which are vitamins, honey!

Abby on a shoot in Istanbul,Turkey for Faik Sönmez.

Have you ever struggled with self-esteem or body image issues? If so, what advice do you have to girls and women currently struggling?

Gosh, all the time and every day! For me, I have always struggled with the idea that I was not perfect enough. And, although I love my curves, they meant I was always going to be considered a ‘big’ girl. When in reality, I grew up surrounded by women who had hips and shape that had taught me otherwise!

So every day, or on the days I am not feeling my true worth, I counsel myself. I tell myself what every mother should tell their child. That I am valuable and, that like all people in this world, I am acceptable and valid. I am beautiful because I am woman. No matter what society tries to trick you into believing, my body is healthy, sexy, and womanly! And I will not change it for anyone else’s preferences.

What has been the best advice you have been given?

Well, I advise myself to always follow my own heart no matter what. You are bound to make mistakes, but when you follow your own heart, you learn what you need to know!

Australian Women’s Weekly Magazine. Photographer David Gubert. Stylist Julie Russell.

How would you describe New York City.

Is nothing like Oz! New York City is a melting pot of some of the most creative and inspiring people I have met. NYC is a buzz with chaotic energy, which is what I love. There are a million amazing people and things to do, and the people are all from somewhere else, but living in New York!

How do you define beauty?

I define beauty as a feeling! Do you feel beautiful? You should! We ALL have beautiful qualities both spiritually and physically. If someone else fails to recognize this, then they are shortsighted and victims of a fast becoming archaic society of one standard of beauty!

What are some of your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

Hmmm…Well typically, I try not to be a big product kind of girl. However, I do have a cupboard filled with all sorts of products that I never use! But my must haves are: Strawberry Chap stick that I massage onto my lips for a plumping effect, Dove Essential Nutrients Protective Tinted Moisturizer for the face in a honey tint for both protection from the sun and a refreshing natural moisturizer, Maybelline New York Define-a-Brow eyebrow pencil to fill in my gaps, and also Maybelline Volume Express to pump up my eye lashes. I love my mascara! Other than that, I use Frederic Fekkai Ageless Creme Luxe Hair Treatment to help my hair recover from all of the hot tools used to torture it daily.

Marina Rinaldi Campaign

Where do you love to shop for clothes?

I love ‘Opp Shopping’ and I can’t seem to pass one by without popping in quickly! ‘Opp shopping’ is what Australians call a ‘Thrift Shop’. It stands for ‘Opportunity;’ someone else’s trash is another person’s opportunity… Something like that. I just went to the Garage with a friend and found two of the most amazing 1930′s dresses! I can’t wait to find somewhere to wear them! At the moment, I am obsessed with lace. I buy vintage and new lace tops and wear my strapless black bra underneath! Love it! That’s what you’ll see me wearing every other day right now, with my dark grey fedora from Sydney.

But, I also love me some online shopping at the moment as it is easy to do from anywhere in the world. I shop online at www.style.com, www.planetblue.com, www.freepeople.com, and www.singer.com. I also love a new and awesome Australian store that opened recently in Darlinghurst called ‘Desordre’ –they have the hottest new trends! I also love House of Harlow for vintage inspired accessories and clothes.

Who are your favorite clothing designers?

Ooohhh, if I had an unlimited budget I would cover myself in Balmain and Balenciaga boots! I also Herve Leger dresses when you want to show off your ample curves! In Oz, I love Sass & Bide. Romance Was Born is making some cool stuff. I like Paul & Joe. I also like Karen Walker for her mix of streamline and eclectic fashion.

What is your go-to outfit?

My go-to outfit is a pair of skinny grey jeans, t-shirt, and a Bolero.

Australian Women’s Weekly Magazine. Photographer David Gubert. Stylist Julie Russell.

What do you like to do in your down time?

In my down time, I am either reading about Quantum Physics (yes, really!), The Power of the Subconscious Mind, or something obscure. I also LOVE markets, especially flea markets, and I like hanging with my mates.

What do you love most about motherhood?

I love everything about motherhood! Even when it’s tough and heart breaking. I couldn’t imagine anything known to man who is more rewarding and magical that growing a human being inside of you! We are amazing beings! Plus, the kisses and cuddles are the best – when you can get them!

Abby on a shoot in Istanbul,Turkey for Faik Sönmez.

The OneStopPlus.Com Fashion Show was the first plus-size show held during New York Fashion Week. Please tell us about it.

OneStopPlus.com Fashion Show was awesome! There were eighteen of us plus-size girls and it was held in the Lincoln Centre, smack bang in the middle of Fashion Week. We didn’t realize what a big deal it would be but, it turns out that it was news worldwide! About bloody time!

I’m happy to say, I made it into the New York Post (see below)! The energy was so amazing, and you could just feel how excited everyone was to see the show! It was a fun show and well received. Let’s hope this is just one of many more to come! In truth, I would love to see all the fashion shows have a couple of plus-size models in each and every show and not even making a big deal out of it because its ‘normal’ and not a big production based on a ‘new trend’ or about being ‘diverse,’ but rather because they are showing that they represent all women! That would be awesome!

Picture from New York Post. Abby (in middle) during New York Fashion Week at the OneStopPlus.com’s Fashion Show.

Of all of the places your modeling has taken you, which is your favorite destination thus far?

It has to be all the islands of the coast of Italy and France! That’s the life! I dream of island living! Sun, good food, water, friends, and family are my idea of heaven.

What are you excited about right now?

I’m excited about life! You never know what is waiting for you around the corner. I love to be surprised! But, specifically I am looking forward to starting my own business and hopefully finding love!

*Thank you, Abby!

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Becca Thorpe Talks About Self-Esteem and Body Image Issues, Favorite Beauty Products, Fashion, New Passions, and the Pressures Girls and Women are Facing Today!

Posted in Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Fashion, Hobbies, Inspiration, New York, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work, Your Story with tags Beauty, Becca Thorpe, Body Image, camera, Confidence, Curves For Change, Fashion, Gap, Health, Inspiration, J.Crew, Kate Somerville, Kevyn Aucoin, Models, New York, photographer, Photographers, plus model, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina on September 29, 2010 by Liz

Photographed by Roberto Ligresti

Becca Thorpe is a plus model from Annapolis, Maryland who currently lives in New York City. She has been successfully modeling for ten years. She spends her free time behind the lens as a photographer. She has recently shot a fashion spread for Madisonplus, a news and fashion blog (http://madisonplus.com/).

How and when did you get started in the plus modeling industry?

I started modeling while attending college in Philadelphia. I was going to a party at a hotel where there happened to be a plus modeling contest going on. A woman approached me and asked if I ever considered modeling, and I immediately said no; I play sports and there is obviously no need for someone who is 5’11″ and “big” in that industry. Boy, was I wrong. The next week I was working locally and began to think that this could be something if I was smart about it. A year later, I had moved to New York and have been working ever since. Wow, ten years really flies by!

What have you learned from the modeling industry?

I have learned so much in this industry. There are so many things I want to say here. Modeling is what I do, not who I am. Business is business and sometimes it has nothing to do with you. More than anything else, modeling has made me grow into a really capable woman who can achieve anything.

Have you ever struggled with low self-esteem or body image issues in the past? If so, how did you reach a point of accepting and loving your body?

Have I ever struggled with body image or self-esteem? HELLO! I am going to be real honest here…I am a woman! Who doesn’t? Let’s be real, we live in a world where it is bombarded on us every day to look a certain way–to be “this” in order for a man to love you and to comply with what others “think” we should be. Yes, even models succumb to this struggle. I have been a size 12/14 since I was twelve years old. There were no Forever 21′s when I was growing up, and I knew (at that young age) that I would never be a size 8. Heck, a size 10 is even pushing it! I am real about my body. I go through phases like everyone else I know. Just look at my closet; it ranges from a size 12 to a 16! That is real life. I do indeed love my body, I love my man for loving my body, and I love that I am in an industry that allows me to be vocal about being honest about it all!

How would you define confidence?

Confidence is knowing who you are.

How do you define beauty?

Beauty is being able to say no when you need to. It is saying thank you. It’s being “interested” when you just want to be “interesting”…it’s really listening. It’s a great blazer, red lipstick, and killer high heels. Beauty is accepting where you are right now and still moving forward.

Photographed by Roberto Ligresti

What do you love about yourself?

What do I love about myself? I love the strength that the women in my family passed down to me. I love that I am tall (I wish I could go back to my thirteen-year-old self and say that). I love that I have really amazing friends who encourage me to be ‘me’ . I love that I have a sense of humor about the little stuff in life, and I absolutely LOVE that even when I am ninety, I will be asking questions like “would you rather”!

What are you passionate about?

I am passionate about capturing moments with people, whether it’s with my camera or a conversation that brings meaning or laughter. No matter what we do, in a job or even with our spare time, we have an ability to touch others with what we say and do.

What do you enjoy doing in your down time?

In my spare time you will find me walking in NYC with a camera in my hand. I talk to homeless people, street vendors, strangers, musicians, and even my friends in order to get a real moment snapshot of their lives. Yes, I love taking pictures, but I also love my dog, road trips, my family, and my closest friends here in the city.

Where do you shop for clothes and who are some of your favorite designers?

I shop everywhere, but those who know me well would say that I am the quintessential “Gap” girl. JCrew is another favorite, but my true finds come from scouring Century 21 and vintage shops.

Photographed by Lisa Holgrave

Favorite jeans?

GAP…long and lean jeans! They are the staple of my wardrobe.

What are some of your beauty must-haves?

When it comes to products, the things I cannot live without are Kate Somerville ‘Quench’ for my face (http://www.katesomerville.com/), Kevyn Aucoin’s mascara (http://www.kevynaucoin.com/), Yves Saint Laurent’s Touché Éclat for under eye circles, and lip balm. All of these products are in every bag I own.

Photographed by Jeff Licata

What do you enjoy most about your career as a model?

It is not the places I have been, it is the people who I have been with on locations that have been the most memorable. The friends I have made on jobs in Germany, Canada, Thailand, and Argentina. The places have been incredible, but the late nights of talking, sharing, and laughing will be what I really remember.

What advice would you give to aspiring plus models?

The advice I would give to girls just starting in this industry is…1) trust yourself 2) be willing to learn, learn, learn…and know that it is not all fun and games — it is a business in which you have to invest a lot of yourself mentally and emotionally. Oh, I know… I can hear the “you just have to stand in front of a camera…how hard is that?” But let me tell you…it is a learned art — one that comes with time and patience. So know your strengths and weaknesses, and be willing to learn and have fun!

Photographed by Lisa Holgrave

‘Curves For Change’ has brought many of your fellow Wilhelmina models together for a great cause. What has that experience been like for you so far?

Working with C4C has been one the best experiences I have had. It is truly amazing what women can do together! It is remarkable to know that we are promoting a healthy and honest look at the issues at hand. I have met girls that truly inspire me!

*Curves for Change recently launched their website. To find out more about C4C, please visit http://www.curvesforchange.com/index.html.

Photographed by Max Abadian

What do you wish you would have known at age thirteen?

Oh the dreaded age of thirteen when you just want to be like everyone else. If I could pass a note to myself in class at that age, knowing what I know now, it would read, “What you think is important now will change. It always does. There is freedom in being different and in going against the grain, so stand up straight and stand tall in that back row full of boys! It’s okay NOT to have the same outfit as everyone in your class! You are so special my thirteen-year-old self. You have to know that confidence is in your hands, not anyone else’s.”

What kinds of pressures do you see girls and women facing today? What can we, as mentors, do to better address these issues?

There are so, so, so many pressures are on young women today. It has gotten to a point where it’s almost unbearable! I know a lot of models talk about it. To be honest, we struggle with it too! Those pressures are real and sometimes an everyday occurrence. Instead of just talking about it all the time and judging other woman (because admit it, sometimes women can be cruel) we need to start reading things like Plus- Size Models Unite and even the things that Curves for Change is doing. To see models, instead of competing and being hurt or jealous, come together and send a positive image out to women is what this is all about! Yes, we all want to feel good, look beautiful, get the job, and get the guy; but how we get those things is really the important part! Pressures are in every part of life whether you are thirteen or a grown woman. We have the choice of how we look at things so I say to someone struggling with body image or external pressures “It’s there (the pressure). Accept that magazines and other people create a so-called “standard”, but YOU can create your own. Be kind to that voice inside you that compares and judges, and then go throw on a pair of heels and do your own thing.”

What are you excited about right now?

What I am excited about now is my newfound love of photography. Testing other models, putting stories together, and even the editing. I feel like I have something to say with a camera in my hand. Normal moments can be captured and made into something bigger. The beginnings of a new passion are often very scary. Should I? Am I any good? Those little voices are slowly dissipating, and I am finding myself truly loving this new adventure of being the girl behind the lens.

*Thank you, Becca!

**How do you define beauty? How do you define confidence? What are you passionate about?

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