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Model Emily Nolan Says, “Real beauty starts with self-acceptance—loving yourself for who you are.”

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Photographed by Jose Amigo

Emily Nolan was born and raised in Fairfax, Virginia. She is represented by CLICK Model Management (NYC), Dorothy Combs Models, Modelogic Wilhelmina, and The Campbell Agency. Emily has one older brother, Matthew (27), and two younger half-brothers, Riley (14) and Corey (13). Emily grew up playing softball as a catcher at the highest levels of competition. She loves to take pictures, scrapbook, and bake. She describes herself as a “model, entrepreneur, vegan, animal lover, and athlete”.

Photographed by Roberto Ligresti

How did you start your career as a model?

I was typecast as a character in a reality show in Washington, DC and I needed to send the production company headshots. Around the same time, one of my girlfriends convinced me to volunteer for a gig as a swimsuit model on the Fox morning news in DC for Saks Fifth Avenue. Coincidentally, Hilary Rhoda was being interviewed right before I went on. I was curious about how she got started, so I looked it up and discovered that she started at an event called ProScout. I went to ProScout’s weekend-long event, was called back by two big agencies, and the rest is history!

When people ask you to define the term ‘plus’ model, what do you tell them?

I am asked the question all the time, “What exactly is a plus size model?” My answer is simple; I jokingly respond that it’s any model bigger than a sample size 4 or 6. If they’re still curious, I just show them pictures of my beautiful curvy model friends. Most of my guy friends respond like, “Oh my Gosh, you know that girl? She’s your friend? Hook it up, Emily!”

Do you feel that ‘plus’ modeling is helping to redefine beauty?

People hear the word ‘plus’ and immediately assume the model is going to look like a whale and have five double chins. To our advantage, a lot of people don’t expect us to deliver beauty like straight models can, and when they see what we can produce; I think it shocks them…in a good way. It makes them think, “She’s a ‘plus’ model? She’s gorgeous!”

In terms of your career as a model, what has been the best advice you have been given?

Every model, actress, or entertainer will tell you the same thing. Learn to take “No” in stride, believe in yourself, and work like the devil!

Photographed by Jose Amigo

Have you met someone in the industry that has had a significant impact on your life?

In the beginning of my career, I was called-back by an agent from Elite Miami and I was thrilled to pieces. I sucked it in and stood tall and the first thing she told me was that I should gain five pounds and be a plus size model; not exactly what I had expected, nor wanted, to hear. Needless to say, I was determined to stay in contact with her and keep her updated on my progress. I trained as a fit model for Silver Models in NYC for three to four months, and during my fifth month of training, I called the agent at Elite and told her I was ready to make the transition. She sent my pictures to Dorothy Combs in Miami and I was asked to contact her directly. I literally stepped off the train I took up to NYC to meet with Click’s plus division, and I got a call from Dorothy saying that she wanted to represent me. The next day, a well-known photographer that I had tested with called Click and scheduled a personal meeting for me, I walked out of Click’s office with a contract and a shot at self-employment! …If the agent at Elite had not been so honest with me, I think I would still be putting in excessive hours a day at the gym, shaping my body as a fit model.

Do you have a funny modeling story you would like to share with us?

Oh my gosh. My first casting ever was for a huge jeans company and they were paying a lot of money; I had no idea what to expect. I wore their brand of jeans to the casting to show that I was serious about working for them. I was so excited at the thought that the people at the casting would notice that I had done a significant amount of research on the company and had worn their brand of jeans, that when they did notice, I had what my Mom calls, the classic case of, “diarrhea of the mouth.” “Oh, I love these jeans! I wear them all the time! They’re so comfortable and fit my curves in all the right places. My Mom loves them, and my Grandma wishes they’d fit her…” and so on. I seriously die laughing every time I think about that casting. Good thing I’m a fast learner!

Have you ever suffered from body image or self-esteem issues? If so, what advice would you give to young girls and women who are currently struggling?

Oh, totally. Listen, sister. We’re just like fruits and vegetables. We all grow differently. Some of us are bigger and some are smaller. Some of us are plump and juicy, and others are small and tasty. It’s just the way God made us. Unfortunately, the way media depicts the “perfect woman” only accounts for a small percentage of the many beautiful, healthy bodies in this world. As cheesy as it sounds, you really want someone to love you for who you are. One of the most important confident building tricks that I learned from Nigel Barker was to find something about you that you really love, and flaunt it, sister! In my case, I really love my blue eyes, and they’ll never change with my size or age. A mani-pedi always helps, too!

What kinds of pressures do you see the girls in your life facing these days? What can we, as mentors, do to better address these issues?

Unfortunately, I see a lot of my girlfriends in the industry, who are naturally thin, hear that they’re not thin enough: the industry wants their women to be impossibly thin, and almost the only way women can attain that body is through food deprivation and disordered eating. In a perfect world, models, agents, and clients would stand up for a healthy body image. Until that day, the most important thing we have as models and role models is a voice. As my great-grandparents would say, “Sister, if you don’t have anything good to say, then don’t say it!” Alternatively, if you have something good to say, let the world hear it!

Photographed by Roberto Ligresti

Who taught you about real beauty?

For the most part, my Grandma and my Mom. I also have some very good friends who have such beautiful souls, that no matter the amount of makeup or labels they wear, they are truly magnetic beauties with unforgettable personalities. Real beauty starts with self-acceptance—loving yourself for who you are.

What do you wish you would have known at the age of 13?

Old Navy Performance Fleeces do go out of style. But, in all seriousness, I’d probably wish I had known I would kiss a lot of good-looking frogs before I found my Prince. And, that I’d grow up to be a model, and more importantly, a role model.

Who is your role model or hero? Why?

My Grandparents. They were born during the Great Depression and grew up with very few “extra” things, which we’re all so use to having nowadays. They raised my family to be compassionate and caring, and above all, appreciate the many opportunities we’re given to work hard, excel, and live the American dream. The most important lesson I’ve learned from them: Family first.

What is a fun fact about you?

I’m superstitious. My left shoe always goes on first. I make my bed the same way every morning. I always drive the same route when I’m going somewhere. The list goes on…

Photographed by Jose Amigo

My beauty essentials are…

Clean, moisturized skin and a beautiful smile. If I’m wearing makeup, it’s usually a little bit of Smashbox HD bronzer or powder (to control the shine of my moisturizer), Smashbox blush in Chiffon or Flush (depending on the season), and I like to curl my eyelashes. I really like the natural look, but if I do wear mascara, it’s Dior Show. A girlfriend of mine is introducing me to a vegan, chemical-free makeup line sold in DC, and I’m really looking forward to making the switch—her skin is so radiant and beautiful.

Lipstick or Lip gloss?

Murad Moisturing and Age Reforming lip gloss, everyday, all day. Smashbox’s nude lip liner in Fair and lipstick in Flawless for a nicer, more naturally defined look.

What is your go-to outfit?

Ha! I love this question. I love my Nike’s, fitted Under Armor sweatpants, and a cute workout tank top. I am such a tomboy at heart. When I go out with friends, I’ll wear skinny jeans, a cute top, and some fun heels. For some reason, guys can’t resist a simple woman who looks great in jeans in a tank top…it’s definitely an equation that works for me.

What are your favorite pair of jeans?

I’m a big fan of my Marc Jacobs jeggings. I also really like J Brand’s new pencil leg jeans, too; my favorite color is in venom because they look a lot like leather, and they’re animal friendly. Both pairs of jeans fit true to size, are slightly stretchy, and long enough! If I’m just casually running around town, I like my Levi’s Curve ID jeans—they’re affordable, comfortable, and they look good!

Where do you love to shop for clothes?

I love to shop at designer discount stores, like Loehmann’s, Last Call by Neiman Marcus, Nordstrom Rack, and Off Saks Fifth Avenue. There’s something about going through the racks and finding that one gem that no one else has found. I found my first Halston dress at Loehmann’s buried in the clearance racks. The original price was marked at $4,500 and got it for maybe $300. That purchase gave me lifetime bragging rights–I am the queen of good deals.

Photographed byJennifer Domenick

Being an athlete, you have a passion for fitness. How do you stay fit?

I love to work out. I try to run five times a week and lift weights three to five times a week. It’s important that I look curvy and healthy. It sends the message that this is my healthy size; this is the way my body is meant to look.

What does being healthy mean to you?

To me, healthy is about a balance. Eat right, treat your body like a temple, work hard, and get your rest. Appreciate your family, be compassionate, laugh a lot, and listen to your heart.

Would you please tell us how long you have been a vegan, why you made that healthful choice for you, and how it makes you feel?

I’ve been a vegan for about a year now. My Mom bought the book, The China Study, for literally, my entire family. She must have bought fifteen copies of it and made us all read it. The book talks about people’s predispositions to diseases and cancers, and how we can prevent the development of those diseases by a vegan diet and good exercise. It’s a real matter of fact book, I really am glad my mom made such a big stink about it.

Healthful reasons aside, I am the biggest animal lover on the planet. I have rescued a countless number of animals, including my mixed Black Lab, Dorey. I even convinced my Grandparents at a young age, that the stray cats living in our back yard were good luck and that we needed to keep them. I have such an immense love for animals and I’m very passionate about advocating for their humane treatment.

I shot with a photographer once who asked me if I knew why the leather in luxury cars was so supple and soft. He proceeded to answer his question and said that it was because the leather was from unborn fetuses—the skin of baby calves that had never seen the sun. Doesn’t it just make your little heart break to know that, not by choice, some animal has to give up their little baby at our own consumer’s expense?

What would we find in your refrigerator?

Mind you, everything that I eat is vegan and gluten free. I wash, chop, and store my fresh fruit and veggies as soon as I bring them home from the store; it really aids in making make healthy choices when you reach for something to satisfy your hunger. I try to eat a very raw diet, when I can, so you’ll find almost every in-season fruit and veggie (a lot of which comes from my older brother’s organic farm) in my fridge. You’d also find soy milk, coconut milk, carrot juice, orange juice, hummus, carrots, broccoli, artichokes, celery, eggplant, peppers, asparagus, veggie-burgers, brown rice bread, Daiya cheese, and leftovers from the local vegan restaurant. I keep frozen fruit in my freezer for fresh fruit smoothies.

In my pantry, I’ve got raw almond butter, as well as raw coconut butter, peanut butter, every type of seed, Go Raw energy bars, every type of raw nut, dried fruit, cereal, blue tortilla chips, my favorite chocolate chip cookie, and brownie box mixes. I’ve always got an extra bag of Enjoy Life’s mini chocolate chips lying around too. Several winter’s ago, my Mom and Step-dad surprised me with a Lello Italian gelato maker because I love to make my own ice cream. My favorite flavor so far is chocolate, and my secret is to add a pinch of salt to the recipe. I just made a pumpkin pie ice cream that’s a close second to my chocolate.

Photographed by Roberto Ligresti

What makes you uniquely beautiful?

I own every inch of my body and my personality. I know that confidence is the key to attractiveness.

In my purse you would find…

Ipod. Murad Age Reforming lip gloss. Louis Vuitton wallet. Essie apricot cuticle oil. Burt’s Bees almond milk hand salve. Face towels for the gym. Hand sanitizer. A Fuji apple and a water bottle.

How would you describe your style?

Comfortably sexy.

Favorite book?

Oh gosh, I love to read. The China Study has most definitely influenced my life more than any other book. Most of my reading though, are books about business; certainly an enjoyment of mine that was passed down from my Grandfather.

Celebrity Crush…

Mario Lopez. Hugh Jackman…oh Lawd!

What are your favorite sites to visit online?

I’m not much of an online shopper so when I’m online, I’m usually on Facebook, vegan/ eco-luxury lifestyle sites, as well as any sites or blogs dealing with news in the modeling industry (especially if it’s plus related).

Photographed by Rick Day

What is your philosophy?

Do what you do: If you’re good at something and you enjoy it, pour your heart and soul into it, give it everything you’ve got. Stand up for what you believe in and always, always, always listen to your gut…and your mother! =)

On a day off, what would your perfect day consist of?

Wake up without an alarm, go for a nice run, throw a swimsuit on, and go out on the boat with my family and friends. I’ve also lived the whole fantasy of being alone on an exotic beach under an umbrella with a good book where hot cabana boys are at my service…that doesn’t seem like such a bad “perfect day” either.

What is one of your favorite childhood memories?

Being the first one picked for any sports during recess. I was the kickball queen. I was also the only girl on my block, growing up with a bunch of boys: While most girls were learning how to kiss boys and apply makeup, I was learning how to check boys with my hockey stick on roller blades. Needless to say, my parents never had to worry about, “beating the boys off with a baseball bat.”

What are you excited about right now?

Oh goodness. I’m fairly young in the plus industry, so it’s really exciting for me when I get to meet all of the stunningly beautiful women who have pioneered the plus movement. Cindy Lauper once said that you should never meet someone that you idolize because you’ll only be disappointed; I doubt that I’d ever regret meeting Emme, or Brooke Shields for that matter.

*Thank you, Emily, for everything you do and for being one of our strongest supporters!

* You can find out more about Emily at http://mlestyle.com/ and http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=706953358#!/pages/Emily-Nolan/149048695137826

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Model Randi Graves Interview is Smart, Funny, Serious, and Insightful. Randi Says, “You CAN change your life in one second by changing your mind.”

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Eating Disorders, Entertainment, Family & Friends, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Food, Funny Experiences, Hobbies, Inspiration, Media, Models, New Jersey, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty with tags Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Dorothy Combs, Ellen von Unwerth, Family, Food, Friends, Funny Experiences, Health, Inspiration, Julia Sugarbaker, Lane Bryant, Linda Hay, Magazines, Make-Up, Mia Tyler, Miami, Models, Phillipa Allam, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Randi Graves, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Stevie Nicks, Stevie Wonder, Tracie Stern, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty, Victoria's Secret, Walter Chin, Work on January 4, 2011 by Liz

Randi Graves is a plus model who is represented by Dorothy Combs Models, in Miami and several other agencies around the world. Lane Bryant is her oldest client of many. She was the tummy for the Lane Bryant Venezia Jean line and the face of their reversible fabrics. She has done shots with Walter Chin, Ellen von Unwerth, and many other well-known photographers. Randi has traveled the world. She is originally from Morristown, New Jersey and said that she is “beyond proud of that. I’m a cheeky Jerseyian.”

How did you get starting in the modeling industry?

On a dare, 13 1/2 years ago. It went like this…my husband said, “If you go to some agencies and see what they say, I’ll buy you dinner.” I said, “And drinks?” He said, “No. You drink too much.” I said. “Fine, but we’re drinking! First this bet, then my tongue piercing, and then dinner.” He said, “Deal.” And, that’s exactly what we did. Wilhelmina was the last agency we visited. We were at the front desk waiting for the receptionist to get off the phone so we could ask about open calls. Susan Georget, my agent for nearly a decade, came to the front desk for some reason. She gave me a stern gloss over. Asked me my size (I was size 10 at the time), wrote her name and number and a photographers name and number down (Michael Keele), told me to get some pictures taken, and to come back when I had done so.

My friend was elated. Me, sadly, all I could focus on was that she had written I was a size 12. LOL! Seriously. I had worked so hard to get into the size 10 jeans I was wearing. My muffin top and I were workin’ it. It wasn’t until one year later that I got those pictures taken and went back to Wilhelmina. They gave me a contract on the spot. I told them I wanted my aunt to look it over and left in a complete state of shock. Numb. You see, I had sat in the front area for nearly an hour as one person after the other was rejected. Some left crying. I had sweat all my makeup off and began to drip copious amounts of water from my under arms and chest. By the time they came for me to go to the back, I was ready for a shower and my great escape back to New Jersey. That moment, with the contract in my hand, has been and will remain to be one of the high points in my life. Someone besides my mother thought I was worthwhile and pretty. It was a nice ride.

Who is your role model or hero? Why?

Oprah Winfrey and Julia Sugarbaker (from Designing Women) are lovely role models to me, and I am my own personal hero. I do hope that doesn’t come across wrong. The hero part, not Oprah and Julia. Oprah is my role model because of her journey. Because of the vessel in which she has walked this earth and accomplished so very much. She’s not white or light, she’s not the stereotypical beauty queen; although, I do believe she once was a beauty queen (http://www.people.com/people/oprah_winfrey/biography), and our society caters to and favors the anti-Oprah vessel. She has crawled and struggled up hills and through valleys. Let no one stand in her way of what she knew she was worth, and she admitted her mistakes along the way. Julia Sugarbaker, oh man! What a spitfire. Controlled and respectful, always with a smile and the utmost lady of southern ladies. But, when the time was right and a verbal ass beating was required, she would let someone have it! LOL! Specifically, articulately, and often with, “Have a good day”. I admire that. Aspire to be that. But, through all my days, I have been the one who saved me. My faith and the life lessons I have learned have held me strong. The people I have met, loved, and loathed have schooled me well. But when it came down to picking myself up, pulling myself together, and getting ‘it’ (whatever ‘it’ may be) done; it was me that was there for me. I think a lot of women can relate to that. This isn’t me saying I’m so wonderful that I give no one credit for aiding me to being who I am today. No, that is not what I’m saying. What I’m saying is that I count my blessings and thank all those of you who have helped me to help myself to be the woman I am today who is my own personal hero.

Do you feel that ‘plus’ modeling is helping to redefine beauty?

Redefine? No. Beauty truly, is in the eye of the beholder. Whoever he or she may be. What plus-size modeling or outsize modeling for our UK sisters has done is given the masses a window into other beholders. Our societies’ vision of what beauty is has always been oxymoronic at best. “Be healthy and stay fit” is what we are told and have been told. But, what we see on and in magazines are young girls, very different from women, who are anything but fit. They, as I once was, are consumed with eating disorders and phobias about food, nutrition, and diet. Museums around the world are filled with paintings and sculptures of voluptuous women with their broad hips and ever so slightly plump bellies; I call mine Sheila. These women with their round plump bottoms and thickened waists were adored– goddess-like. They were the definition of beauty. Someone’s definition of beauty. I personally hold that idea of beauty to be self-evident. As I feel others would agree with me. And others won’t…and don’t and that’s ok. It really is. For beauty is not merely defined by a look or a smile, or a firm breast, or an ass for that matter. Beauty is the essence of the vessel within the body and how another sees it and identifies with it. Full-figure models/plus-size models…we are simply saying to our sisters of the thicken thigh tribe, “I see you. And you are beautiful.”

Out of all of the places your career has taken you, which has been the most memorable and why?

Argentina for a Lane Bryant shoot with Mia Tyler, my dearest friend Phillipa Allam, and makeup done by Linda Hay who now works with Heidi Klum and Victoria’s Secret. We stayed at a private resort at the base of this massive mountain where you could ski right into the restaurant and hot tub area, which was just below the restaurant. On our days of shooting, we took a van to the second level of the mountain, and then we took snowmobiles to the top. Clouds were literally passing through us as we shot. It was magic.

Have you ever suffered from body image or self-esteem issues? If so, what advice would you give to young girls and women who are currently struggling?

Welcome to the club if you have or had an eating disorder or self-esteem issue. Unfortunately, it is quite common. Young girls and women have so much on our plates. We are mothers, sisters, friends, and lovers. We are workers, survivors, saviors, and nurturers. We are wives. AND we have to be thin?! Please! Minus being a mother (I am godmother to two lovely boys and one girl), I am all the above, including having dealt with body image issues. I still am. I’m not perfect. Not in mind or body. But what I would say to any young girl or woman who asked…It will be okay. You are perfect just the way you are. Perfectly flawed with a long road ahead of you to laugh away the silly B.S. of yesterday. For tomorrow, you will be stronger because you hopefully learned that you cannot live your life according to what others think of you. Because someone else’s thin, may not suit YOUR body’s structure of thin. That you are defined by what you think of yourself. Period. If you are angry with your thighs, your arms, or your waist…let it go. Replace that pain with love and say to yourself, “Self, I love you just the way you are. But we can be better” and then start from there. Because hating yourself keeps you in a bad place. Stuck. And that’s no good for anyone.

What kinds of pressures do you see the girls in your life facing these days? What can we, as mentors, do to better address these issues?

Well, first we can (and need to) accept the fact that we are ALL mentors. Whether you are on television or not. We are all in this together, regardless of your political affiliation or financial position in life. And, the pressures I see young girls experiencing today are HEAVY. “Am I the prettiest because I received more votes on FB, or whatever social network, than my friend?” … “Will I be more liked or loved if I perform the best sexual act at an orgy party?” …”Am I better than whomever because of my parents car(s), home, jobs, or lack thereof”….”Can I be famous if I do this one sex video, get paid, and parlay it into something else?” These are real issues affecting our girls today. It’s sad. Their hair, their face, their youth, the size of their skinny jeans, and the price on their designer bags are – according to the young – defining who they think they need to be or who they actually are. And, that is so far from the truth. How is it possible that MTV has a TV show about young men and women – and I use those terms loosely – who are in debt ranging in the $10,000′s when they don’t pay mortgages or taxes on owned property? It’s insane! Whether an individual wants to admit it or not, women hold the power. We teach others how to see us and treat us.

Our young girls are more valuable than they know. They are mentors. Every young girl that crosses my path is in my life through means of direct communication or six degrees of separation. And, I want them to know this… You CAN change your life in one second by changing your mind. The physical act will be longer and more grueling, but to better yourself is worth the climb. Our young girls are faced with the pressures of being something they are not. And, that translates to them thinking they are not good enough. That is not okay. We, as adults, must take the time out of our day to listen, learn, and guide because we also have pressures and don’t always have the right answer and that is okay. As much as we can teach our young girls and boys, we can also get an education from them. So what do we do as mentors? We also learn to be students and move forward from there.

Who taught you about real beauty?

My mother, my aunt Gwen, and my momaran (my mother’s mom). My sisters, my friends, and those that were my enemies. Every broken soul I have ever met and all those tougher than nails broads. The animals I have loved and kept and definitely my husband. The world I have experienced, really.

What do you wish you would have known at the age of 13?

Just because you are watching “Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory”, Randi, does not mean you have to eat as if you are there. LOL! But, seriously, that I was worth more than I believed. I didn’t have knowledge of self, let alone esteem. I wish I had known that it would all work out so I wouldn’t have been so hard on myself, and I could have enjoyed the ride of youth a lot more.

What is the best advice you have ever been given?

From my aunt Gwen. My mom’s youngest sister. She told me years ago that the worst thing anyone can ever say to you is no (and that ain’t so bad) and then turn their back on you. Because they are saying, you are not worthwhile, you hold no threat, and you are not my challenge. She said, double R, when they do that to you, take a deep breath, and show them what you are made of. Give them the element of surprise. For they will not see you coming. And, she was right because in life, which is competition, fortunately and unfortunately – the element of surprise is a lovely card to hold.

What is a fun fact about you?

At any given time, I bust out in song and love singing to my cat Shelby. Sometimes she bites me, other times she just gets kissingly close to my face and stares…How I love my furry babies.

What are some of your hobbies?

I love cooking. Adore it! It’s my way of saying, “I love you”. Writing, brainstorming, playing with my cats, reading, Bikram yoga, talking with people, analyzing people and their experiences, nutrition and how it affects the body, and taking care of my husband. Honestly.

Do you have a favorite beauty tip you can share with us?

I have tons! First and foremost, hydration. It will save your life and skin. Use a washcloth when cleaning your face. It’s the best inexpensive exfoliant you have in your house right now and it works wonders. Peroxide is wonderful for achy ears, throats, funky breathe, and whiter teeth. Adding baking soda to the latter as toothpaste is magic. And, having something or someone to love will make you a more beautiful person.

What beauty invention has made the greatest impact on your life?

Bumble and Bumble the curl conscious line. Sadly, I cannot live or work without it.

Lipstick or Lip gloss?

Lip gloss. Forever! Generally, any thick sticky brand will do, but I am loving my Chanel Brilliant Levres. It glosses so good. It’s a fantastic fire engine red in the tube, but if put on sparingly, just a bit to coat the lips; it’s the softest pink with magnificent shine. With a heavier hand, VaVaVoom. I am applying it as I think and type.

What is your go-to outfit?

Dresses, dresses, dresses. Even when I was a tomboy, fighting boys for all womankind, I did it in a dress. My closet is over flowing with dresses. Short ones, plunging ones, strap-less, long ones, maxis, and wrap dresses. I can’t get enough or have enough dresses. I think I have a problem.

Where do you love to shop for clothes?

I am a creature of habit, and adore Victoria’s Secret. I’d say 40% of my closet is Vicki S., 20% vintage and/or thrift, and the rest, well, the other places, lol!

What does being a good friend mean to you?

Showing up for your friends lives. That you don’t have to be everything to any one body and vice versa. That sometimes, a little white lie, is what you need to tell, and other times, the truth is the only gift you can give.

What makes you uniquely beautiful?

That I can and will, with my face beat, hair done, and dressed thoroughly to impress, have an in-depth conversation about bowel movements. Anywhere. Any time. What goes in must come out people, and if you are not having a poo at least once a day, something is wrong and we can talk about it. Seriously, call me. I will talk with you about it.

On your day off, what would your perfect day be like?

Getting my “to do” list done. I cannot rest in a messy house and chill out if I have things to do. All I think about is that I’m not doing my to do list.

Do you have a favorite book?

I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou and Heinerman’s Encyclopedia of Healing Juices by John Heinerman. The first, I read so many times my aunt forbade me to read her second copy that my heavy hands shredded, and the latter I refer to often. It is absolutely life changing to read and practice the benefits of juicing. God bless the parsnip.

Do you have a favorite karaoke song or favorite song of all time?

My favorite karaoke song is “Stand Back” by Stevie Nicks and my favorite song of all time is “Stay Gold” by Stevie Wonder.

What does being healthy mean to you?

I love this question, because I have struggled so long with this body. To me, healthy is a sound mind, active body, and a soul at peace. A balanced diet with more live foods than dead and an active sex life that gives you enough pleasure to spread joy. Can I get an Amen!?!

*Thank you, Randi!

Tracie Stern and Randi Graves

We asked Randi’s long time friend and fellow model, Tracie Stern what she loves about Randi.

I’ve known Randi for years, our first shoot together we laughed so hard our client were getting mad at us. I think they stopped booking us together after that…

Randi has been in my life through love, loss, and life in general. She is the god mother to my boys, and she takes that roll very seriously, which is something I love about her….she doesn’t half ass anything.
Everyone should have a Randi in their lives. What I love about her is that she always keeps me in check like a true friend should. She never judges. She comments, she suggests, she challenges you, but she never judges. Plus, her life is like a soap opera so whenever I need a good laugh I call her because I know there is something going on in her life that beats whatever is going on in mine…and her storytelling abilities make even her serious problems come out funny.

**Thank you, Tracie!

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Samantha Sample Talks About Embracing Your Own Natural Beauty!

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Inspiration, Shopping, Unique Beauty with tags Australia, Be Genki, Be Naturallyou, Beauty, Confidence, Health, Holistic, Samantha Sample, Shopping, Unique Beauty on December 15, 2010 by Liz

Living Image Photography

Samantha Sample is an advocate for holistic health and wellbeing. She is the founder of Be Genki, which is the animal, environment, and everything-friendly brand that advocates a holistic approach to beauty and self-care. Samantha is also the author of Be Happy. Be Healthy. Be Genki. And she is regularly featured in the health and beauty pages of Vogue, InStyle, Madison, Marie Claire, Russh, Famous, Better Health, EcoLuxe, and Real Living magazines just to name a few. Her latest project is the creation and development of Be Naturallyou, which is a website to inspire a more naturally beautiful you.

Here is Samantha…

With the hectic pace of modern life, it’s often hard to take the time to rest, relax, and recuperate. A lot is expected of us and we continually burn the candle at both ends to try to meet the demands of juggling multiple tasks at work, home, in our relationships, and with our family, friends, and community. I believe that the most important tools that we can learn are those that allow us to become more conscious, present, and in harmony with our self, so that we can live a joyful life, have the confidence to help ourselves, know who to turn to when faced with challenges, and not freak out and think that our entire universe is crashing down upon us. It’s my belief that we all have the ability to create and enjoy a fulfilling, exciting, loving, adventurous, happy, and healthy life. The only thing stopping us is ourselves.

This is the very essence of Be Genki … to help inspire holistic happiness by implementing happy and healthy changes to your lifestyle. Be Genki is a “beauty” brand that I created five years ago. I use the word “beauty” quite loosely as although we offer beauty products – body oil, body creams, hand creams, aroma mists, etc. – the message that we send out is more about taking the time to nurture yourself to help bring about more health and happiness to your life, which in turn helps to bring about a more beautiful you. I sincerely believe that beauty comes from within. Being happy and healthy on the physical, emotional, and spiritual level is what makes a woman truly beautiful.

For years, I have been baffled by the unrealistic and suggestive images portrayed in the media and the domino effect it has on women who see these images as something to aspire towards. However, I am becoming more and more inspired by the changes that are occurring in respect to the variety of women we see gracing the pages of fashion and beauty magazines. What a fabulous time to be living and experiencing! Watching the “beauty norm” once again change before our eyes, but this time to a “norm” that is all about embracing our own natural beauty, and not a certain color, height, size, weight, hair color, or ethnicity.

This new beauty era inspired me to create Be Naturallyou, the go-to destination to help inspire a more naturally beautiful you. It’s like a book that keeps growing with content every week. There’s a directory of genuine natural and organic beauty brands; a list of cosmetic ingredients to avoid and why; a directory of natural ingredients that help to promote beautiful skin; nutritional advice for clean, clear beautiful skin; lifestyle tips to help de-stress and bring about the natural sparkle in your eyes; and my favorite page being interviews of naturally beautiful women from around the world. This month I am especially delighted to have the opportunity to feature natural beauty Angela Jones, co-founder of Plus-Size Models Unite.

*Thank you, Samantha!

** You can find out more about Be Naturallyou and Angela Jones’ feature at http://benaturallyou.com/ and you can learn more about Be Genki at http://www.begenki.com/

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Model Camilla Hansen is an Advocate For Finding Your Own Personal Style, Embracing Your Creativity & Helping Animals.

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Family & Friends, Fashion, Inspiration, Italy, Media, Models, New York, News, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work with tags Beauty, Body Image, Camilla Hansen, Confidence, Copenhagen, Designers, Dr. Denim jeans, Fashion, Friends, Hair, Health, Inspiration, Make-Up, Media, Model Management UK, Models, New York, Photographers, Posh Pets Rescue, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work on December 5, 2010 by Liz

Camilla Hansen is a plus model who is originally from a small village in Southern Denmark. She started modeling at fourteen years old as a straight model. After four years, she changed to plus modeling. She has lived in Istanbul and Milan, and currently lives in New York City. She is represented by Model Management UK in London and Wilhelmina in New York, Miami, and Los Angeles. Some of her clients include Marina Rinaldi, Elena Mirò, Jessica London, Macy’s, Fiorella Rubino, Avenue, Ulla Popken, Burda, Persona, and Bloomingdales. Her hobbies include fostering and volunteering for an animal rescue center in New York, photographing, and getting lost in new cities.

How did you start your career as a model?

I started my career as a model when I was fourteen years old. A few friends had suggested that I should contact an agency, and after a while, I decided to try it out. I sent some pictures to an agency in Copenhagen (the capital in Denmark) but because I feared rejection, I did it without telling anyone at all–not even my family.

The same day the agency received my pictures (which by the way were just random personal shots); they called me up and told me about a modeling competition that they had going on at that moment and that they wanted me to be a part of. I, of course, was so excited and immediately accepted. After that, everything happened very fast. I told my family about the happy news and a few days later, we went to Copenhagen to attend the casting for the finals. I became one of ten finalists out of thousands of applicants and a few days after the casting, the finale was held. I won.

What do you enjoy most about modeling?

What I enjoy most about modeling is not just one thing. It is the combination of several things. Getting to travel and experiencing new cultures. Getting to unleash my creative side and being inspired by all the creative people around me. Hopefully, inspiring young girls to accept their body as it is. These are just a few of the things that I enjoy about modeling.

Have you ever suffered from self-esteem or body image issues? If so, what advice would you give to young girls and women who are currently struggling?

I have indeed suffered from low self-esteem and body image issues. When I started modeling, I was constantly told by agents and a majority of clients that I was too fat and that I had to lose weight. Even though my parents have always had my back and have supported me throughout my career, you will reach a point where it is just too difficult to ignore the comments being made about your body and unfortunately, I started believing what they said was true.

All of a sudden when I looked in the mirror, I no longer saw that slim girl that I previously had seen. Instead, I started seeing all the problems that everyone, except my family, kept bringing to my attention.

When I started modeling, I decided that I would only do it for as long as I found it enjoyable. After four years, I had had enough. Enough of the comments. Enough of the insane diets. Enough of not feeling confident. So, when Wilhelmina wanted to sign me to their plus-size board, I jumped right on. It was my way out. I started eating regularly and healthy, and I stopped weighing myself every day. All of this slowly made me feel happier, both about my body and my life. Rome wasn’t built in a day though, and being confident about your body doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process, but once you reach that state of mind it is indescribable.

Therefore, my advice to any girl/woman is to be YOU. Find your natural size where your body plateaus whether that is a size 0, 12, 22, apple shape, pear shape, hourglass, or whatever and rock that. The most beautiful, attractive, and intriguing women that I have met in my life so far, may not necessarily have met the fashion industry’s criteria on what beauty is but they were comfortable in their own skin and for that I admire them.

Do you feel plus modeling is helping redefine beauty?

I definitely feel plus modeling is helping redefine beauty, but as is acting, etc. Nowadays, it has become more common to see women of all shapes and sizes on the cover of and in various magazines, as well as in TV series. The fashion industry has (hopefully!) realized that consumers need and want to see someone they can relate to.

What does being healthy mean to you?

Healthy, to me, is eating healthy and regularly. Healthy, to me, is a state of mind. Healthy, to me, is taking care of your body.

What do you wish you would have known at age thirteen?

Here is the thing. I try as much as possible to live a life with no regrets. I am happy with who I have become so why regret any of the things, both the good and the bad, that have been part of that process? When I was thirteen, I was still a child and I learn by doing, so I don’t wish I knew anymore than I did because then I very likely wouldn’t have gone down the path I have.

What feature do you love to accentuate?

It depends what mood I am in. Sometimes, it is my legs and other times it is my waist or my bust. It depends.

Photography is…

A way of expressing my creativity. I am not a great writer, painter, or dancer, but I still have such an incredible amount of ideas and visions in my head that I need to get them out somehow. That’s what photography does for me.

We know you love heels! Do you have a favorite pair?

Ha ha, I do indeed! My dad’s nickname for me is Imelda Marcos. I feel that heels can make or break an outfit, especially as I hardly ever wear jewelry. This is also, why I don’t have a favorite pair of shoes. I love all of them, as they are all good for different occasions and outfits.

I recently read an article about three shoe lovers, and one of them gave a quote that I absolutely adore and can relate to. She said, “What I like about shoes is that anybody can wear them. There is no size-zero debate about shoes.”

What is your go-to outfit?

I actually don’t have a specific go-to outfit. In the Fall/Winter, I wear a lot of black and there is a certain model of black Dr. Denim jeans I wear quite often. I actually have own three pair of the same model because I wear them so often and love them a ton. During Spring/Summer, I try to switch it up a bit by wearing cute and colorful dresses that accentuate my curves.

Who is your style icon?

I don’t have any style icons. I believe in wearing what is comfortable yet flattering to my body shape. Once again, it is all about being YOU instead of trying to imitate other people.

Rosie

Have you always been a dog lover? Do you have any dogs now?

I have always been an animal lover, not just a dog lover. I had rabbits when I was still living at home and I rode horses for a very long time, which by the way, to this day is the best sport I have ever partaken in.

Though I always took care of a lot of dogs, I never had my own dog and I don’t plan on getting one in the near future as it is a huge responsibility, and I am not at the stage in my life where I am able to make a ten to twenty year commitment. When the time is right, I will (without a doubt) get my own dog, but that is just not now.

Instead, I decided a while back to start fostering for a dog rescue (Posh Pets Rescue) here in New York. That has been a great decision. Basically, what we do is to take the dogs off the euthanizing list, out of the shelters and place them in private homes until they are adopted. In periods when I am not working, I will usually have one or two dogs at my apartment.

It keeps amazing me how people can give up these dogs, as most of them are perfectly healthy and well-behaved dogs that have just been dumped on the street, as if they were a useless bag of garbage.

When I got my first foster dog, Rosie, a beautiful, well-behaved, housebroken, and kindhearted Bichon Fris, I was heartbroken. How could anyone just leave this little gem to fend for herself on the street? I was close to losing faith in humanity, but then something amazing happened. Rosie was put up on our website (www.poshpetsrescue.org), on petfinder.com, and on several other sites and the applications just started rolling in.

As they say, one man’s trash is another man’s treasure and after going through a lot of applications and interviews little Rosie was adopted by an incredibly sweet woman who already had another Bichon. All of these applications made me realize that even though there will always be the occasional cold-hearted person there are at least twenty good ones!

Who is your role model or hero? Why?

My parents and grandparents. For the love and unlimited support they have always given me, my younger brother, and each other. I strive to be like them.

Your family is a big part of your life. What is one of your favorite childhood memories?

One incident that sticks out, and that I think of often and was a long time ago, is when my brother and I played dress up. Even though he was a boy playing with cars, super heroes, etc., he let me put him in a dress, put makeup on him, and place a big bow in his hair. Only someone who truly loves you will let you do something like that to them.

Out of all of the places your modeling career has taken you, where has been the most memorable and why?

Every single place I’ve traveled to has made an impact on me as a person. In Texas, I had a Mexican driver who was also a trained chef. He taught me some incredible Mexican recipes. When I lived in Istanbul, a friend and I were almost shot by the mafia. When I went to Colombia for a job, we stayed and shot at a highly guarded mansion and the mother of the house showed me a few traditional Colombian dishes; one of which you have to use at least five different kinds of potatoes. I could go on like this, but my point is, as I said in the beginning, that every place has made an impact on me and who I am as a person today. I believe that it makes us better people to experience and accept the differences in the different cultures all over the world.

Where do you shop for clothes?

Anywhere I find anything flattering really; sometimes that is at very cheap stores and other times at more pricey stores.

What is the best advice you have ever been given?

When my grandmother, with whom I was very close, was alive, she used to always tell me: “Smile at the world and the world will smile back at you”.

Though she went through some very hard times in her life, she was one of the most genuinely positive people who I have ever met. Because that was one of the things about her I admired the most, I try to live by it even though I do fail sometimes.

What do you love about yourself and why?

I don’t just love one part; I love me as a whole. I have finally completely accepted my body as it is and I am happy with whom I am as a person.

What are your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

My very favorite beauty product is a makeup remover from Bioderma. Every time I work, I wear a lot of makeup and it can be very hard on the skin if the makeup remover you use is not good.

Do you have a beauty tip to share with us?

Being in a business where appearance matters a lot, I attempt to take very good care of my skin. I cleanse my skin every night (no exception) with a milky cream cleanser, then with an alcohol-free skin tonic, and I finish off my routine by applying eye cream and a good lotion. In the morning, I re-apply the lotion which contains SPF 30. That is my best beauty tip–take good care of your skin, even if it may seem like a hassle because it will benefit you in the long run.

Lipstick or Lipgloss?

I naturally have very red lips and therefore don’t wear anything on my lips in my everyday life. Bit, I love to pump it up every now and then with a deep red lipstick (Chanel Rouge Allure – 09 – Lover) if I go out for dinner, an event, or something like that.

On a day off, what would your perfect day be like?

A perfect day off for me would be spent with my family. Especially after I have moved to New York and they are all in Denmark, it has made me realize just how much we should all treasure the time we have together because you never know when that time might be up.

What is a fun fact about you?

A fun fact about me is that I never liked wearing dresses when I was younger. I always preferred being outside climbing trees and getting dirty.

What are you excited about right now?

Right at this moment, I am excited about several things. OneStopPlus.com gave New York fashion week its very first plus-size fashion show, and I got to be a part of it, which is something I am very proud of. Elena Miro once again put on an amazingly beautiful and well-done show during Milan fashion week. Last but not least, I am over the moon that I once again got to work with the talented people at Vogue, which resulted in a short-film that should be coming out very soon.

*Thank you, Camilla!

**You can watch Camilla’s video and find out more about her at http://www.vogue.it/en/vogue-curvy/how-to/2010/03/camilla-hansen.

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International Model Robyn Lawley Says, “There is So Much More to Life Than Fitting Into Size 6 Jeans, and I’m Glad I Realized This Sooner Than Later.”

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Australia, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Entertainment, Family & Friends, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Funny Experiences, Hobbies, Inspiration, Media, Models, Movies, Music, New York, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Radio, Recipes & Food, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Sports, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work with tags Abby Valdes, Articles, Australia, Beauty, Bella Model Management, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Cosmopolitan, Crystal Renn, curves, Designers, Exercise, Family, Fashion, Fashion Week, Fitness, Friends, Funny Experiences, Hair, Health, Inspiration, london, Magazines, Make-Up, Media, Model Management UK, model robyn lawley, Models, New York, OneStopPlus.com Fashion Show, Photographers, plus model, Plus-Size Modeling, Robyn Lawley, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Topshop, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Wilhelmina, Work on November 18, 2010 by Liz

Cosmopolitan Magazine

Robyn Lawley is a plus model from Sydney, Australia. She is signed with Bella Model Management in Australia, Model Management in the UK, Okay models in Germany, and Wilhelmina in NYC, USA. Some of her clients are David Jones, Nordstrom, Cosmopolitan magazine, Madison Magazine, Kohl’s, New Look, Spirito, Ezibuy, and more. Robyn enjoys films, music, making music, watercolor painting, cooking, eating, rock climbing, and traveling.

Robyn wrote, “I’m a model beyond a size 10 and I love my job. I get to travel the world, and at the same time promote healthy shapes and let audiences know that it’s okay to be who you are. Embrace your body for what it is, exercise, eat as healthy as you can, and have fun. There is so much more to life than fitting into size 6 jeans, and I’m glad I realized this sooner than later.”

Photographed by Kane Skeener for Cosmopolitan Magazine

How did you begin your modeling career?

She started modeling at the age of sixteen, when I won a modeling magazine competition, but I didn’t model for long, as I struggled to keep my weight down. Two years later after seeing success in Abby Valdes and Crystal Renn, I signed with Chelsea from Bella Model Management.

What advice would you give to young women who are struggling with self-esteem, confidence, or body image issues?

I think all women and men, for that matter, go through this most days. Try to focus on something else; sometimes we get so self involved that we miss out on everything passing us by. Take up a sport you enjoy or a hobby you would like to start. Confidence can come from achieving even the smallest of things.

Try not to compare your body to that of celebrities or top models because what you see is not always true (especially with Photoshop ruling the planet). Work with the body type that you have and just enjoy that you can see, that you can hear, and that you can walk. Both my mother and my older sister have worked, and still are working, with disabled people and it really can make you think that spending so much time pinpointing your flaws is hiding what you are really about.

Photographed by Simon Upton for Madison Magazine

What kinds of pressures do you see the girls in your life facing? What can we, as mentors, do to address these issues?

I think the most troubling thing is the amount of concern that we have over beauty. We no longer even care if someone has a good soul; we care more if they have lost the most weight or are taking up a certain exercise. I hate when I start researching what a celebrity does; it gets so time consuming. Later, I think my god I could have been practicing guitar or rock climbing. I just wish the beauty/entertainment industry didn’t have such a hold over our self-esteem. I do remember, though, when I was fourteen, I had no idea what cellulite was until I saw a magazine in a grocery store harpooning females with it on their cover. I remember going home straight away to inspect my thighs. From then on, I always wore board shots; even in competitive swimming. Did I have cellulite? No, I didn’t, but that magazine made me feel ashamed of my body. I will always blame them for making women, especially teenage girls, feel ashamed of their bodies. We should be empowering women and pushing them further in their lives, not making them inspect their thighs.

Having just recently moved to NYC, what has your experience been like so far?

It’s tricky to say; I both love and hate NYC. It’s just so different from Australia. It can be a shock to the system. I feel like I’m riding a rollercoaster—from crazy parties to crazy people chasing you to awesome shopping. It’s definitely one of a kind.

Where do you like to shop for clothes?

LONDON!!! It’s the best place to shop in the world. I love Camden markets and Topshop UK. I am finding Williamsburg, Brooklyn (where I live) has awesome vintage.

Photographed by Georges Antoni

Do you have a favorite workout routine?

I love playing sports. One thing I miss is team sports. I can’t do any because my routine is so out of whack with modeling. I love rock climbing though because it doesn’t feel like exercise; it just feels like a fun challenge and boy it’s challenging. I try to hit the gym about four times a week. I really miss my personal trainers in Sydney, Australia. In NYC, they are so expensive that it’s not worth it. If you find you are a person who lacks the motivation or knowledge, investing in a trainer, even just for a month, is well worth it. Even just to learn the safe way of working out at a gym and what types of exercises are good for your body type.

What are your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

I love Benefits new High Beam face illuminating cream that you put on your cheekbones for the healthy glow, Lancôme’s New Définicils Precious Cells Mascara, and of course, good old trusted Paw Paw ointment for my lips.

Do you have a beauty secret or tip you would like to share with us?

Make sure you wash your face twice a day; tone and then moisturize. Sounds dreary, but once it becomes habit it’s second nature.

Photographed by Kane Skenner for Cosmopolitan Magazine

What are you listening to right now?

EVERYTHING–I LOVE MUSIC! The top five albums I listen to all the time are the Romeo and Juliet soundtrack, The Boat That Rocked soundtrack, Juno soundtrack, the best of Janis Joplin, and La Roux’s first album. But, I like anything from Bloody Beetroots, to Jimi Hendrix, to Rolling Stones. Going to festivals is one of my favorite things to do.

Favorite movie?

Gah, that’s like favorite song–too hard to pick. I’m a movieaholic. My favourite thing is watching a good movie. They can make me feel comforted– especially movies from my childhood. When I’m homesick, I watch all my old favorites. As a young girl, my dad and mum would drive me and my sisters about an hour to watch movies at the Royal Australian Air Force Base because my dad was in the air force, and tickets were $2 each and we would all get a killer python each. Simple pleasures in life tend to be the best.

On a day off, what would your perfect day be like?

Waking up to my cute boyfriend back home, then getting sushi with my best girlfriends, later catch a movie with them and my man, and then going dancing at a club with awesome music with my awesome sisters.

What do you love most about modeling?

I love the confidence it gave me. I do admit I was struggling to accept my weight. I just couldn’t get over the fact that I was once an Australian size 6-8 (USA size 4-6). When I joined Bella, my confidence was pretty low, and I doubted that Chelsea, my agent, would sign me. I was lucky she gave me a contract on the spot and about a year later, my confidence was the strongest it had ever been, I felt unstoppable and still do.

What do you do to prepare for a photo shoot and what are your must haves in your modeling bag?

I wash my hair the night before and put a heat protector on my ends. The morning of, I wash and cleanse my face. I then use a good quality moisturizer and Paw Paw on my lips. I always take my own mascara because I have very sensitive eyes, and I don’t want to obtain any eye conditions.

Do you have any funny modeling stories you would like to share?

I think most people find modelling very glamorous, but trust me it can be anything but that. I hate when I have to walk around or get something with my hair is in curlers and I look like an old grannie.

I had a funny week though recently, when I was in Fiji for a Cosmopolitan shoot. I decided to go horse riding on my day off. The horse they had was tiny, but I didn’t get to see it until I had paid. I felt sorrier for the horse because it would have to lug me around, but I didn’t want to seem like a chicken so I went riding anyways. Once I had finished my thighs were so sore– more than usual. When I reached the hotel, my inner thighs were blue and bruised so bad that when I showed the stylist, she gasped… LOL–not good for a swimwear shoot.

Photographed by Georges Antoni

We would LOVE to hear about your experience walking in the OneStopPlus.com Fashion Show!

Yeah that was so great, I knew it would be a bid deal, especially when I arrived to see where it was. I was so lucky, I only got the job last minute as I did not go to the casting, they spotted me at a go see and decided to use me. It was very empowering experience and I hope they do more.

What is a fun fact about you?

I like to do voices. I can do Gollum from lord of the rings, exorcist chick (pretty scarily well, so much so that I shocked a boy that I was dating once; he got so scared that he threatened to punch me if I ever did it again, and naturally I do it to him every time I see him. ha-ha), Stitch from Lilo and Stitch, and E.T.

What do you love about yourself and why?

I suppose I love that I rarely say no to anything; consider me the yes woman. I have always been like that ever since I was a little girl. I would give anything a chance. I’m not sure why, but I just never wanted to miss out on something I might have found fun, whether it be sky diving, jet skiing, rock climbing, canyoning, or travelling; anything really deserves a chance.

What is one last thing you would like to say?

Don’t be afraid to make a fool of yourself and have fun. My mother always said laughter is the best medicine and by god, she’s right!

*Robyn talks about acceptance. This is a great video!

**You can learn more about Robyn at her blog: http://reviewmerobyn.blogspot.com/

***Thank you, Robyn!

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Are You Ready to Join The Beauty Bean’s Makeup Free Monday Movement? We Did & Here Are Our Stories…

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Family & Friends, Inspiration, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Unique Beauty with tags Alexis Wolfer, Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Friends, Inspiration, Magazines, Make-Up, Makeup Free Monday, Media, Self-Esteem, The Beauty Bean, Unique Beauty on November 15, 2010 by Liz

Alexis Wolfer

Angela and I are excited to team up with Alexis Wolfer, the Founder & Editor-in-Chief of TheBeautyBean.com, to help spread the word about her Makeup Free Monday Movement! Alexis graduated summa cum laude from Washington University in St. Louis and earned her Master’s Degree from Columbia University, writing her thesis on the role some women’s magazines have in promoting negative body image. She also brings her previous professional experience at women’s magazines and websites to The Beauty Bean. She currently lives in Manhattan.

Concerned with the focus many beauty magazines and websites place on unrealistic body ideals and weight, Alexis launched The Beauty Bean to provide women with a glamorous beauty site with an unparalleled focus on inner-beauty and health. With the hope of showing women that beauty isn’t a number on a scale but is instead about beautifying, nourishing, pampering, sweating, and lusting. The Beauty Bean brings together Alexis’ love for beauty and fitness, as well as her desire for all women to feel beautiful and confident.

In an effort to remind women of the importance of real and inner beauty, to promote better body image, to prevent eating disorders, and to encourage conversations about unrealistic body ideals, The Beauty Bean launched Makeup Free Mondays.

Elizabeth Nord is a writer, editor, researcher, co-creator of Plus-Size Models Unite, wife, and mother of two daughters.

When I was first approached to participate in the Beauty Bean Makeup Free Monday movement, I was slightly hesitant. I’m not one to wear loads of makeup, but I do like to give myself a little extra pop by adding color. I think of my makeup choices as part of my personal style. I honestly cannot think of a time, since my mom first allowed me to wear makeup when I was a teenager, that I have gone makeup free for more than 24 hours. Participating in Makeup Free Monday was much easier than I thought it would be. In fact, it was refreshing!

My daily make-up routine usually consists of eyeliner, mascara, a little cover up (for the dark “not enough sleep” circles under my eyes and the rosacea on my cheeks), mineral powder, bronzer, and always a mix of lipstick and lip gloss! I will admit that I am a complete lip gloss addict and that was the hardest thing to give up! I always like my lips to feel soft and hydrated, so I cheated a little and applied clear lip gloss. Okay, I also dabbed on a little concealer on an unsightly blemish that came out of nowhere, but one of my friends ensured me that wasn’t cheating. Phew!

What I liked about Makeup Free Monday:

I saved 10 minutes getting ready in the morning.
No one reacted differently to me.
I felt the same throughout the day. Although, I personally like a little color to wake me up.
My family and friends didn’t notice.
When I told my two daughters what I was doing, my nine-year-old daughter said that I don’t need to wear makeup to be beautiful. She said, “To be beautiful you should be nice, caring, loving, smart, responsible, and share.” That made my day!

In the evening, I asked my nine-year-old daughters piano teacher, Bonnie, (who I have a very comfortable relationship with) if she noticed anything different about me. Bonnie looked hard at me. My daughter tried to help her and said, “Look at her face.” Bonnie stared, and I could tell that she genuinely couldn’t tell what was different. I told her that I was participating in Makeup Free Monday and she smiled. She didn’t notice that I wasn’t wearing a stitch of makeup. Okay, well maybe I was wearing a little clear lip gloss and a dab of concealer, but I think I did pretty well overall. I would definitely do Makeup Free Monday again!

Andrea Dodd is thirty-two years old. She is a photographer, aspiring writer, lover of life, and homeschooling mama of three mini super heroes.

Sunday–A day that doesn’t call for need to make up my face. That is, of course, until I’m heading out for a late lunch date. It’s hard for me not to go upstairs and do my face. Instead, I make sure my hair looks perfectly unkempt. Ha.

Typical days–Unless I’m working, or have a planned date; I generally do not wear make-up. But, it’s not because I love how I look without it. On the contrary. I have uneven skin, dark under eyes, and in the summer, I have sunspots like birthmarks near my eyes. When I was a young mom of two babes, I bought fake glasses to wear when I was heading out makeup-less (even to the grocery store) to hide my dark circles and tiredness that make-up disguises. Now, I go makeup-less because I’d like to think I’m doing my face a favor by staying fresh. Just SPF face cream, eye cream, and lip balm. I don’t feel the need to excuse my makeup-less face. However, I do feel polished and put together when wearing make-up. I like how mascara defines my eyes. My face looks smoother under foundation. Bronzer offers a healthy, even glow. In short, I feel prettier wearing make-up. But, I also know there is beauty beneath a made up face. I’d like to believe it shines through my makeup-less eyes and happy smile on my typical fresh face day.

Janell Kaufman is thirty-seven years old. She is a writer, reader, avid journal keeper, wife, mother, and domestic goddess. She was born and raised in the Seattle, Washington area and currently lives in Bellingham, Washington.

When I was young and started experimenting with makeup, I always went overboard as most young girls do. My mother always told me “All you need is a little mascara and a little lipstick”. But, more than what she told me, it was the example she set that laid the foundation for my makeup free life. She never wore more than what she suggested I wear, and after my experimental phase I really never had any desire to wear makeup. Now I cannot even imagine trying to put on even mascara and lipstick with any regularity.

The last time I wore any make up at all was about two years ago. It was for a semi-formal party and I felt sexy and confident with my face done up. Although my daughter wouldn’t come near me and my husband was nervous to kiss me, the most annoying thing about it was the fact that I worried about it all evening long. The trade-off of feeling sexy for nervous wasn’t worth it and I had a much better time at the next party where I dressed but didn’t do my face.

I have never felt like society treats me any differently as a non-makeup wearer. Nobody has ever asked me why I don’t wear anything on my face. Maybe this is because I surround myself with others who wear little or no makeup either. Maybe it is because I live in a community that is laid back and outdoorsy where makeup could be more of a hindrance than it is worth. Maybe it is simply because I have never really worn it and people accept that this is who I am, and cannot imagine me any differently.

In her sixties now, my mother still wears little to no makeup. In fact, I think that she has given up on mascara, and simply goes with lipstick. I hope that the example that I am setting for my daughter works in the same way as my mothers’ example did for me. I want her to feel that she can be herself, and confident and sexy with or without wearing makeup. Just like her mom!

*Do you wear makeup? If yes, does wearing it change how you feel about yourself? What are your beauty product must haves? Are you a product junkie? Would you feel comfortable going makeup free for a day? If you don’t wear makeup, have you always gone makeup less? When and why did you choose to go makeup free? What do you see as the benefits of being fresh-faced?

If you have daughters, what are your makeup rules? Did your mother wear makeup? Did that affect your choice to wear (or not wear) makeup? If so, why?

**To find out more about The Beauty Bean, Angela Jones’ Makeup Free Monday experience, or to submit your Makeup Free Monday entry, please go to http://thebeautybean.com/site/. Thank you!

Introducing Natural Model Management…An Agency Created by Models for Models that Value Models’ Natural Build & Body Size and Encourages Models to be Healthy.

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Fashion, Inspiration, Media, Models, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem with tags Beauty, Body Image, Bradford Willcox, Confidence, Fashion, Health, healthy models, Inspiration, Katie Halchishick, Los Angeles, Models, natural, Natural Model Management, Self-Esteem, Unique Beauty on November 10, 2010 by Liz

Katie Halchishick and Bradford Wilcox have launched Natural Model Management. Natural Model Management is the first modeling agency to create a division dedicated to bridging the gap between the industry standards for “Straight Size” and “Plus Size” divisions. The Natural Beauty board represents stunning models that resemble those of the classic coveted supermodels of the 80′s and 90′s. Natural values models and their natural build and body size and encourage models to find a healthy balance in life and in their bodies.

Natural Model Management co-creator, Katie Halchishick

Please tell us a little about Natural Model Management. What inspired you and Bradford to open up your own agency?

Natural Model Management is a Los Angeles based agency that is dedicated to health within the industry, while upholding a high respect level between models, clients, and ourselves. Natural Model Management was created by models for models and every division has a successful model as a mentor and advisor to educate other models on how to have a lasting career. The number one complaint of most models is the lack of communication between themselves and their agents. All any model wants is to get one on one attention from their agent to help guide and educate them on the industry and give them constructive criticism they need to improve. Sadly, this can be hard to find but it is our number one priority at Natural. We encourage a healthy life style and healthy weight for all of our models while giving them the respect, as a person, to choose what size is best for them!

It was a huge eye opener for me to be a six figure model at 200 pounds and be considered a “success,” and then finding health and happiness for myself after losing 50 pounds, and being told my hips were two inches too big be a “Straight Size” model. I was a “Plus Size” model at a size 14 and at a size 6. I had reached that point when my body wouldn’t get any smaller despite my constant workouts and diet; I had to make a choice…

A) I cross the line of health and go to the dark side forcing my body passed what it is capable of by some sort of eating disorder, diet pills, smoking, drugs, etc.

B) Keep working out for 2-3 hours a day and eating the worst meal delivery food that equals 1200 calories a day and still be the biggest girl at every casting at a size 6. Or, I could choose something else… after a long breakdown crying session with Bradford, where I fully let out all the frustration and anger, I decided that playing by someone else’s rules wasn’t going to work for me (it never has). I chose option C.

C) Use what I had learned to better myself, share what I had learned from this experience, and actively work to change the damaging affects of this industry and how it effects all of us.

There is a huge misconception that only women are mistreated in the fashion industry, and the truth is that male models face a lot of the same issues as well. We are inspired by each other’s ideas, success, and outlook on life. We just want to bring clients new models that are well coached, with less attitude! We believe change happens from the inside out.

What sets Natural apart from other agencies?

When you start as a model, no one teaches you how to model! It really is kind of crazy; they send you off to a job with no clue how to move or what to expect. We are spending time with all of our models to teach them what is expected of them. We want all of our models to feel confident in themselves and in their abilities. Every job is an honor and it is the models responsibility to go in to a job, use what they have learned, and get rehired.

What does it take to be a Natural model? What are the requirements? How do girls apply?

We represent female models 5’8″ and taller, sizes 4 to 16. We want girls that are healthy, and as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside. Our male models are 6’0″ – 6’3″ with 30” – 32″ waist.

You can apply by going to http://www.naturalmodelsla.com/ and clicking on the Become a Model tab, fill out the required information, and it will be sent to our team to review.

Where is Natural Model Management based?

Los Angeles, California

When Natural represents models, you work one on one with your models to help them have a longer lasting career. We think that is awesome! Can you please tell us why you do this and what you help your models work on?

Moving – this is an art form that has to be practiced. We will show the models what moving on set looks like, the do’s and don’ts and why. It always helps to see examples, so we review the models film to help them to know good angles and poses for their bodies, etc.

Confidence – Confidence is HUGE! You can be the most beautiful girl, but if you don’t have confidence in what you are doing, it shows. Confidence comes with practice!

Honesty – We really are honest with our models without being disrespectful. We are constructive and positive, so our models believe in themselves and us. That is really important; you should always believe in yourself and if your agent starts to make you doubt that, you may want to look elsewhere.

Education – We also educate our models on important life lesson like paying your taxes! That is also something that no one teaches you as a young model. We don’t put random charges on models accounts so that we can make extra money, and we ask for approval before any charges go on a models account.

Natural believes it is important to set a healthy example to girls and women. What does being healthy mean to you?

Being healthy is having balance in your life, both physically and mentally. Love life and always explore what it has to offer.

Why are the models who are represented by Natural special?

Our models are all special because they are asked to join the team; that means they believe working to set a higher standard for all models. Our models are awesome people who have more to offer than just being pretty, and they truly are as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside—and they prove it. All our models just want a chance and we feel so privileged to have them as a teammate.

What impression are your models going to make on the clients?

Because of the size of our models, they won’t be doing tons of high fashion work. The great thing about that is the clients for catalog work are so awesome! I have been so lucky to work with some genuine great people and that is exactly what they can expect from our models! We understand that these clients can use anyone, and we want them to choose our models for exactly that!

Plus-Size Models Unite co-creator, Angela Jones.

*You can find out more about Natural Model Management at http://www.naturalmodelsla.com/ and http://www.facebook.com/pages/edit/?id=112097992153305&sk=basic#!/pages/Natural-Model-Management/165648113455490.

Natural Model Management represent male models as well…

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How Do You Help Lift Up Your Daughters and Friends When They Are Dealing With Bullies, Mean People, or Frienemies?

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Body Image, Confidence, Family & Friends, Inspiration, Models, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem with tags Beauty, Body Image, Bullies, Confidence, Friends, Frienemies, Health, Inspiration, Kindness, Mean People, Mental Health, Respect, Self-Esteem, Your Story on November 7, 2010 by Liz

We all want life to be as happy, adventurous, positive, loving, and successful as possible; but those goals cannot be reached by keeping our kids or ourselves in a bubble. Well, maybe we can be in a bubble for a few moments of blissful innocent fun (as seen above), but the reality is that we wouldn’t want our kids or ourselves to be stuck in a bubble forever. We want our children to go out into the world and live the best life they can. We all run into roadblocks to achieving or maintaining happiness and sometimes those roadblocks are other people. In the last few months, Angela and I have had many conversations in regards to our daughters, girls, teens, and women in general. We have been discussing bullies, “frienemies,” mean people, self-esteem, confidence, and body image issues.

The topics can be frustrating, but they are part of life and important issues to discuss. The following stories are a few examples of behavior or conversations that I have recently witnessed or that I have heard about from other moms.

*A mother told me that her fourth grade daughter came home and told her that her “best friend” said, “You don’t mind if I just call you ‘Fatty’ from now on, do you?”

*A shy second grade girl said that two boys teased her at school because they didn’t think she deserved to be chosen for the Young Authors Program. They told her that they were smarter than she was, and that she just thinks she’s “hot”. The girl didn’t want to go to school for two weeks and she cried every day during those two weeks. She was so upset that she wouldn’t tell her parents or the teacher what happened for a week. Her parents tried everything to help her and to make her feel comfortable enough to open up to them, but she internalized her feelings. After she finally shared her story with her mom, the mom asked her why she didn’t feel comfortable talking to her sooner. The girl said that she was too embarrassed.

*A friend told me that her first grade daughter was upset and said that a boy called her “fat”. The first grader told her mom that she was going to try to poop so that her stomach didn’t look as ”poufy”.

*My daughters and I were out for dinner, and I overheard a little girl (she was probably ten or eleven) tell her grandparents “A boy called me fat today, but I told him that I’m just big-boned. I didn’t know what else to say when he kept calling me fat, so I just kept saying ‘no, I’m just big-boned.’”

*Some girls, all nine years old or younger, were setting up to play a pick-up soccer game and one of the girls was explaining how soccer is played. This is what she said, “Okay, this is how it works. You are on a diet and you don’t want to put food (soccer ball) in your mouth. You want to make the other girls eat it. So, what you do, is you put the food in her mouth (the other team’s goal) and don’t let it get in your mouth (their goal). That’s how this game is played.”

*When my daughter was seven years old, she said, “Mom, I know that sometimes when a person is smiling and laughing, they are still being mean. They are just smiling and pretending to joke, to get away with what they are saying.”

What is going on here? There is a lot going on… The media is having a negative effect on our children; kids and adults are being mean because they have low self-esteem; there is a lack of parental involvement; kids are hearing their mothers and other children gossip; and the societal pressures on girls and women, to be a certain way—“perfect”, is stressing children and adults out. The kids in the above examples haven’t even hit their teens, when the harsh bullying, teasing, judging, self-esteem, and body-image issues become more serious and complicated. When these girls become women, they will continue to deal with similar issues.

I don’t know what the complete solution is, but I do know that every one of us can make a difference every day. Our behaviors and words are setting an example for our children. Kids may not seem to be listening to us, but they hear our messages loud and clear. If we are catty, act fake, and backstab other women; our children will think that is normal and okay. If we are loving, honest, respectful, and supportive to other women, our children will learn that is normal and good.

I don’t get it when women make snide remarks about each other, backstab, or say mean things to people while pretending they are just being humorous. Does is make them feel better about themselves? Do they feel more powerful and important? Do they feel a false inflation of self-esteem and confidence when they put someone down? It sure doesn’t look, sound, or feel confident, powerful, kind, loving, funny, or beautiful. Who wants to be a part of all that drama anyway? Life is already complicated enough as it is.

I wish there was a magic wand that would magically stop girls, boys, men, and women from hurting each other, making fun of each other, excluding, bullying, acting like a “frienemy”, and generally being mean. I’m not going to say that I’ve never made mistakes; I have. My goal is to always be loving, kind, honest, supportive, and compassionate. It feels so much better to be nice. A kind word goes a long way and a thoughtful gesture can make a huge difference in someone’s day, week, month, or year.

We hope that you will share your experiences, words of wisdom, and advice with us here. Do you think these societal problems are getting better or worse? Why do you think kids are being so mean? Do you think the media is partly responsible? Do you think this is a parenting issue? What advice do you give your daughters and friends, in regards to how to deal with bullies and mean people? How do you deal with “frienemies” or “mean women” in the work place? When someone makes a snide comment and tries to cover it up with, “I’m just kidding”, how do you respond and how does it make you feel? How do you help lift up your daughters and friends? How do you help your children to love, respect, accept, and stand up for themselves? How do you teach your sons and daughters to be kind?

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” ~ Leo F. Buscaglia

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Model and Writer Mayra De Wilde Says, “I am so much more than a number on the scale or a number in a size chart.”

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Confidence, Fashion, Fitness & Health, Food, Inspiration, Media, Models, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty with tags Beauty, Body Image, Brigitte Models, bumble & bumble curl creme, Confidence, Fashion, Friends, Health, Hughes Models, Inspiration, journalist, Magazines, Make-Up, Mayra De Wilde, Media, Models, Netherlands, Photographers, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, The Netherlands, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty on November 2, 2010 by Liz

Mayra De Wilde is a plus model and freelance writer from the Netherlands. She was born in a small Dutch village, called Scherpenzeel and grew up in Zeist, which is near Utrecht, a city in the middle of The Netherlands. Mayra now lives near The Hague, which is close to the sea. She is represented by Brigitte Models, Hughes Models, Modelbooking, Stars, and Y Models. Mayra has worked for nearly every magazine that uses plus-size models in The Netherlands. She is currently looking for representation in the United States.

Would you tell us a little bit about yourself?

I’m 28 (almost 29) and besides being a model, I work as a freelance journalist for womens’ magazines. Modeling and writing are a good combination for me. I work as a model about once a month, but I would love to model more often. I have a boyfriend who is a photographer. He works for fashion magazines and commercial clients. We met on a shoot and have been together for almost six years now.

How and when did you get started in the plus modeling industry?

I started modeling when I was nineteen. I sent pictures to an agency and was signed right away. I was very naïve when I started, I didn’t even see it as a job. I know better now! But I still love it!

What is the perception of plus women in the Netherlands?

I think change is on its way, but there is still too much focus on full-figured women and their eternal wish of being thin. I would like to see a change of focus; women should be taught to be happy with they way they look. It’s okay to have a wish to lose weight but it’s not okay if making that wish come true is the only way to be happy and confident. It’s great to see that more and more magazines work with plus-size models in fashion editorials. And with plus-size models appearing on the runway, it continues to be a hot topic. But there is a long way to go, I want to see plus size models in beauty advertisements for example. Things like that will really change people’s perception of what’s beautiful.

Do you feel the plus modeling industry is helping redefine beauty?

Yes I do. I think it shows that women of all sizes are beautiful. It’s not about size, it’s about daring to be your gorgeous self, no matter what your size is. I’m not someone who is against straight-size models, I would just like to see much more variety.

Have you ever struggled with self-esteem or body image issues in the past? If so, how did you reach the point of accepting and loving yourself and your body as it is?

I’ve never been extremely insecure, but it took time for me to accept my body. There were times when I wasn’t able to look at myself in a positive way. When I was seventeen I gained 20 kilos in three months because of drugs that I had to use for my asthma. I went from a size 42/44 to a size 50. This was a really hard time. It felt like my body took over. Eventually, I’ve learned to love myself no matter what weight or size I am. I am so much more than a number on the scale or a number in a size chart.

I still struggle a bit with my body since I gained quite a lot of weight in the last couple of years. Modeling has helped me to get more confident, but the last couple of years it sometimes worked against me. A lot of clients think I am too big and this can be hard–even for a confident girl like me.

At the moment, I am focusing on finding balance because I never want to diet again. I’ve been dieting since I was eleven, and I am done! I believe every body has a natural weight. It’s my goal to find the weight my body is most comfortable with.

What advice would you give to girls and women who are struggling with self-esteem, confidence, or body image?

Take care of yourself the way you take care of the person you love the most. Pay attention to how you feel and why you feel that way. Try to surround yourself with positive people. Do the things you love. Smile at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful every day. It may sound silly, but you will start to look at yourself differently.

Throw your diet books away; they will make you feel like crap! If you hate the gym, take long walks in the city or a forest. I try to eat healthy. I use the 80-20 rule. 80% of what I eat consists vegetables, whole grain products, fruit, lean meat, fish, and some dairy products. I love avocado; I eat it almost every day. The other 20% I use to indulge myself in… chocolate. Of course, I have days that I don’t eat healthy at all, but I honestly don’t feel good when I eat junk food all the time. I believe no one does.

What do you wish you would have known when you were a teenager?

That dieting only makes you unhappy and heavier! I started dieting when I was eleven. I was a very skinny child but with the start of my period, my curves appeared. I wish I could have just loved my femininity. When I see myself in pictures from when I was a teenager, I see a pretty but very insecure girl. People use to tell me that I could be a model if only I would have been thinner. And look at me now. Oh well, coulda, woulda, shoulda. Things turned out great for me. I hope my story and image in magazines helps other girls and women to learn to love themselves no matter what size they are.

How would you define confidence?

Confidence is definitely a state of mind. You have to fake it until you make it! I feel confident, but it took years for me to get to this point. The funny thing is that people always thought I was very confident, but I’m just very good at putting on my poker face. It’s really important to surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are. I use to care too much about other people’s opinions about me and of course the negativity always overruled the positivity. So if someone is dragging you down, let them go, be bold, and choose your own path.

How would you describe beauty?

It’s a cliché, but I really think it’s not about a pretty face but about the way you are as a person. About the way to take care of yourself and people around you. I think beauty is a characteristic, not something you can see on the outside.

Who inspires you and why?

I’m inspired by so many people! My boyfriend for finding his passion in his work. My mom for being such a strong women. My friends for being who they are. I think life is all about daring to be who you are and it’s truly inspiring when people choose to be that person.

We know you are a magazine addict. What are some of your favorite magazines?

I read a lot of fashion magazines like Glamour, Vogue, and ELLE. I have the strange habit to start reading from the back of the magazine. First, I check out what will be in the next issue. I don’t know why, maybe I’m just impatient when it comes to magazines! I love everything about magazines. Most of the time I read every single article in a magazine, whether it’s about beauty or style. I put pictures I really like in a leather photograph album that I’ve been carrying around for years.”

What is your go-to outfit?

A black legging with a figure hugging skirt combined with a soft colored top and a strong shoulder blazer. I wear a lot of black. I know I am a bit boring. But I’m trying to add more color to my wardrobe!

What is a quick beauty tip you can share with us?

Try to have a good laugh every day! It takes off the sharp edges. The less stress you feel, the better you look! So go for it and have a bit of a giggle.

What is your secret to keeping your curly hair so beautiful?

Bumble & Bumble Curl Crème! I am a Curl Crème junkie! Unfortunately, it’s very expensive in the Netherlands, but I’m hooked. Nothing works better for my curls. Especially when I combine it with the curl shampoo and curl conditioner from Bumble & Bumble.

What are some of your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

At the moment, I love DKNY’s fragance ‘Pure’; I wear it every day. I also really like the products of Kiehls. When I want to indulge my skin, I use their body lotions or body butter. On a daily base, I use Centella Recovery Skin-Salve from Kiehls. I clean my face twice a day with products from La Roche Posay. It really gives a clear and glowing skin.

When did you discover your love for writing?

For as long as I can remember I have liked writing. When I was in my teens, I wrote a lot in my journal. I still write in a journal, but not as much anymore. Maybe because I now write for a living.”

Please tell us about your freelance writing career. How did you break into the writing world?

It took some time to get jobs. A couple of magazines really gave me chances, and I still work for them. I have been a freelance journalist for three years now, but I’m not where I want to be yet. I still need the modeling to pay my bills as well. I hope this will change eventually. I’d also like to write a book in a couple of years. That’s one of my big dreams!

What is a fun fact about you?

I was born on the 5th of December, in Holland this date is also the day we celebrate ‘Sinterklaas’. Sinterklaas a holiday for kids but Dutchies of all ages celebrate it. Really small children believe Sinterklaas exists. It’s a bit like Santa but without the tree. The tragic consequence of my birthday is that I can never celebrate it on my actual birthday. But I think that’s tragic in a funny kind of way.

What are you excited about right now?

My boyfriend and I are moving to another house. I am beyond excited and looking forward to finally live near the city centre again in a super cute house!

*Photos by pictures: X-Two and Sempre Pui.

** If you would like to contact Mayra, visit her Facebook page & Hughes Models

***Thank you, Mayra!

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Nicole LeBris Talks About Embracing Your Body, Beauty, Fashion, Confidence, and Her Transition from Makeup Artist to Modeling

Posted in Articles, Books, & Magazines, Beauty, Hair, & Make-up, Body Image, Celebrity, Confidence, Designers, Fashion, Inspiration, Media, Models, Movies, New York, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Unique Beauty with tags Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Designers, Fashion, Health, Inspiration, Magazines, Make-Up, Makeup artist, Media, Models, New York, Plus-Size Modeling, Self-Esteem, Shopping, Trade Tips, Travel, Unique Beauty, Work on October 24, 2010 by Liz

Nicole LeBris is a plus model based in New York and Miami. Before Nicole started modeling full-time, she was a hair and makeup artist. As a hair and makeup artist, she worked on Bill Clinton, John Legend, Carol Alt, Billy Baldwin, Isaac Mizrahi, Jimmy Kimmel, and many others. As a model, Nicole is represented by Dorothy Combs Models in Miami (her mother company), Model Service Agency in New York, Hughes Models in London, and Brigette Models in Germany. She grew up spending her summers in France and spent her junior year of high school there as well.

Hi, world! I’m Nicole LeBris. So a little about me…Miami and Jersey City is where I call home, although I grew up in Westchester, in the New York City area. Modeling has been my full-time job for the past six years. It’s been a slow and steady progression, switching rolls from behind the scenes as a makeup artist, to being in the spotlight as a model and I couldn’t be happier. I feel truly blessed and fortunate to be able to choose this path and very proud of how far I’ve come. Modeling has allowed me to see some very interesting cities across the country and abroad, and to work with some really talented people. I’ve made great friends in this business and truly enjoy almost every day I spend on set. I’ve modeled for clients such as Kohl’s, Lane Bryant, Vanity Fair, Fruit of the Loom, Belk, Shopko, Catherines, Fashion Bug, Just My Size, and Target.

How did you get started as a full figure model?

I actually first started as a makeup artist working on films, TV spots, and commercial print. I made a lot of industry connections, and got the push from many people to give it a try. I’m glad that I did.

Have you ever struggled with low self-esteem?

Of course! It’s been a long road for me. I’m very confident these days, but that wasn’t always the case. Grade school was tough. I was bigger than everyone was and I hated it. I definitely struggled with body image, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized my body is a blessing. I take care of my body, and love it, and it does me good in return.

What advice would you give to girls and women who are struggling with body image and self-esteem issues?

I would say embrace your body. You only have one body in this life so take care of it and be proud of it. If you are confident in your body and yourself, it will show to other people and will only work in your favor.

What do you love about yourself?

Physically, I love my body and my unique features such as my dark eyes and light hair, my small waist, and curvy hips. Personality wise, I love my sense of wonder, my curiosity, and my sense of humor.

Who inspired you to become a professional make-up artist?

I’m not sure whether someone inspired me specifically, but my mom is the one who put the idea in my head. She told me that she thought it would be something interesting to do when she was younger, but she couldn’t afford school and didn’t know where to go. I always loved colors and painting, and I always played around with makeup at home. I worked two jobs in high school, and that’s where most of my money went– to makeup.

What are some of your basic skin care tips that you think are really important?

Moisturize and sleep. Many people are scared of oil, but I love using it on my skin, especially at night.

Lip gloss or Lipstick? Do you have a favorite brand?

I’m more into chapstick or rosebud salve on an everyday basis, unless I’m really going out on the town. Then, I’ll do lipstick just dabbed on my lips and topped with gloss! I love to play up a pout!

What is a really quick way to change a day look to a special occasion or night-time face?

Black eyeliner smudged around the lash line, an extra coat of mascara, and add a coat of gloss to your lips.

Where do you love to shop for clothes?

I love Zara for jackets, BCBG for dresses, Cacique for bras, and almost always stop at H&M and Forever 21 when I’m on a shopping spree. I also love Anthropologie. Guess heels and boots fit me like a glove.

Who are some of your favorite designers?

Michael Kors and Zac Posen. I love Armani dresses!

What are some of your favorite beauty products or must-haves?

Two things I can’t live without are my rosebud salve and eyelash curler. I’m all about keeping my skin and lips moisturized. My eyelash curler opens my eyes and can make me look awake if I don’t have time for a cup of coffee.

How do you define beauty?

Beauty can be so many different things to different people. For me, beauty is something that inspires me. If “it” makes me feel something and excites me, I think that is a sign of beauty.

What features do you love to accentuate and why?

I love to accentuate my eyes in the way they contrast with my hair and skin, so I usually darken them even more and use liner to make them really pop. Body wise, I love to accentuate my waist. I have a real hourglass shape that I love, so I dress with a lot of belts and dresses that hug my curves.

What does being healthy mean to you?

For me, being healthy means feeling good both mentally and physically. Balance is important. I believe in the idea of everything in moderation. Too much or too little of one thing is not good, especially with diet and exercise.

What are you excited about right now?

I’m excited about all the buzz around plus-size models. People are talking about Crystal Renn’s book (Hungry: A Young Model’s Story of Appetite, Ambition and the Ultimate Embrace of Curves), the controversy surrounding her size, and the banning of the Lane Bryant video with Ashley Graham. I think any publicity is good publicity for us right now. When I say I’m a plus-size model, I still get one of two reactions. They look me up and down and say, “You’re not fat” or “What do you do for your day job?”. A lot of people don’t know what a plus-size model is. So, I think all the buzz in the media, negative or positive, is really a great thing for our industry.

*Thank you, Nicole!

To learn more about Nicole, visit her websites at www.nicolelebris.com and www.nicoleheidi.com.

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